I always knew the whole "problematic kink" discourse was prog-speak for "we want to be able to say what you can and cannot be into" It's not actually progressive, it's just a way of couching controlling behavior in progressive-sounding language
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You know what's *actually* progressive? dealing with the actual Problems, rather than what someone arbitrarily thinks *might* be a Problem based on Vibes and an "ick" response I will never understand ABDL personally, but that is no reason to typecast anyone who does as being "dangerous" or "gross"
aug 25, 2025, 7:14 pm • 88 1 • view
As someone who was raised in the LDS Church, a place I consider a cult, this right here. There's many things I'm not into & give the ick & things I find morally reprehensible. Guess what I do? So long as people are not unconsensually harmed, I hit mute & do not recommend. Because it's not my biz.
aug 26, 2025, 3:17 pm • 8 0 • view
Thank you for being a reasonable sane person! 💙
aug 28, 2025, 2:27 pm • 1 0 • view
It's such a reactionary tendency to give people so much shit over something that doesn't affect you or anyone else in any way whatsoever. I'm not into ABDL personally, but you know what I do about it? I don't look at it. I look at things I like. It's so fucking easy to just leave people alone.
aug 27, 2025, 4:26 pm • 3 0 • view
i will speak to a separate issue for this specific kink as well, the more people rally hatred towards ABDLs the more my life as an incontinent person becomes a living fucking hell just because i NEED diapers. I'll defend the community that shows me more respect & dignity than my own doctors, thanks.
aug 28, 2025, 1:55 am • 1 0 • view