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Jonathan Edward Durham @thisone0verhere.bsky.social

I’m not big on gender roles in relationships, but as long as there’s one person who usually drives and one person who usually says “oh that’s a cute house” every two minutes then everything is as it should be

aug 27, 2025, 3:44 pm • 434 20

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Useless, hopeless, and only getting worse @freyavalon.bsky.social

Only if the second person also points out cute animals

aug 29, 2025, 6:24 am • 0 0 • view
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Giles for You @gilesforyou.bsky.social

Uh-oh. I'm usually the one doing both.

aug 27, 2025, 4:03 pm • 2 0 • view
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michelie.bsky.social @michelie.bsky.social

me too - even when I am driving and my husband always responds "I missed it."

aug 27, 2025, 7:34 pm • 0 0 • view
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janbuchin.bsky.social @janbuchin.bsky.social

Boy does that sound familiar!

aug 27, 2025, 5:21 pm • 0 0 • view
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Bethany Knight 🚢 @bethanyknightwrite.bsky.social

I am both of those people. And someone needs to point out the Land Rovers. I am that person too ... loooooong after my youngest child stopped being interested in Land Rovers!

aug 27, 2025, 7:36 pm • 0 0 • view
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Jen Toews @jentoews.bsky.social

With a teen learning to drive I finally get to be the latter.

aug 27, 2025, 5:20 pm • 0 0 • view
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Bee 💛🤍💜🖤 @salrokabee.bsky.social

Im both and that's why im single

aug 27, 2025, 5:48 pm • 0 0 • view
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Purple Knight Saber @yumekoasagiri.bsky.social

And says "Moo!" whenever they see a cow

aug 27, 2025, 3:51 pm • 4 0 • view
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Ken from Chicago @kenfromchicago.bsky.social

aug 28, 2025, 3:03 pm • 0 0 • view
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some-marc-guy ॐ @some-marc-guy.bsky.social

do you moo at horses too?

aug 27, 2025, 4:51 pm • 0 0 • view
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Purple Knight Saber @yumekoasagiri.bsky.social

No, I say "HORSE!"

aug 27, 2025, 8:39 pm • 0 0 • view
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Leo Martin Montgomery @tracerleo1967.bsky.social

and yells hey! every time you see a bale of hay.

aug 27, 2025, 5:30 pm • 2 0 • view
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Ken from Chicago @kenfromchicago.bsky.social

Which one of you are going to ask a pedestrian for directions and which one will refuse because the pedestrian isn't even driving? 🤔

aug 28, 2025, 3:03 pm • 0 0 • view
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vicente137.bsky.social @vicente137.bsky.social

But that second person tends to say things like "why are you parking here?" and "why are you going this way?".

aug 27, 2025, 5:33 pm • 0 0 • view
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Logan :) @joelogan.bsky.social

I'm both but my wife is the latter

aug 27, 2025, 4:48 pm • 0 0 • view
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Joan of Snark @joanofsnark3.bsky.social

I do that all by myself. lol

aug 27, 2025, 3:47 pm • 8 0 • view
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Sarah Jane @nurse-nomad.bsky.social

same! I am both of those people.

aug 27, 2025, 3:52 pm • 5 0 • view
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Leo Martin Montgomery @tracerleo1967.bsky.social

Gender is a social and societal construct. it doesn’t actually exist.

aug 27, 2025, 5:29 pm • 0 0 • view
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Fluwijntjes @fluwijntjes.bsky.social

The driver can let their partner nap if they keep an eye out for nice houses

aug 27, 2025, 11:30 pm • 0 0 • view
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Ken from Chicago @kenfromchicago.bsky.social

No! The driver needs the partner to keep them from falling asleep.

aug 28, 2025, 3:04 pm • 0 0 • view