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OK BaOmer @jsx.bsky.social

Dozens and dozens of white cis men do mass shootings and they're all "lone wolves", but one transgender person attempts to and it's "a common denominator".

aug 29, 2025, 6:43 pm • 75 6

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Joanne in Boston @vtgal.bsky.social

This is absolutely outrageous.

aug 30, 2025, 3:29 pm • 0 0 • view
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OK BaOmer @jsx.bsky.social

And look - I don't want to do any sketchy investigation here. From what we know, the shooter identified as a woman, so I have no reason to think that she wasn't a woman. I am not saying that we should doubt that, in any way.

aug 29, 2025, 8:08 pm • 15 0 • view
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OK BaOmer @jsx.bsky.social

But we also know that she wrote in her journal that she was "tired of being trans", that she "wish[ed] she hadn't brain washed herself into being trans" and that she didn't like her long hair and was only keeping it because it was the only aspect of being trans she had left.

aug 29, 2025, 8:09 pm • 10 0 • view
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OK BaOmer @jsx.bsky.social

Those are not things that someone who is having their gender identity supported, being accepted as who they are, and receiving the gender affirming care and treatment she needs writes. They're the kinds of feelings a good therapist and a supportive community can help with, whatever that means.

aug 29, 2025, 8:11 pm • 14 0 • view
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OK BaOmer @jsx.bsky.social

If there's "some sort of accountability on the transgender front" required here, it's our accountability as a country to provide *more* access to affirmative care, *more* acceptance of the whole gender spectrum, *more* protections for trans people. Not less.

aug 29, 2025, 8:13 pm • 16 0 • view
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Greg Stolze @gregstolze.bsky.social

Well, he said the one they REMEMBER. White guy shooters are background noise.

aug 29, 2025, 6:54 pm • 6 0 • view
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Michael Vokabre @vokabre.bsky.social

Many such cases, i usually highlight this difference in treatment of self vs group re. the guilt of entire group perceived by the individual who considers self totally disconnected from their own group bsky.app/profile/voka...

aug 29, 2025, 8:15 pm • 3 0 • view
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CaptainRaccoonWhitly @whitly12.bsky.social

This is one of the reasons why I don't openly present as non-binary in public (aside from not feeling like my life would change too much if it did). A lot of people, some close, wouldn't accept me for who I am.

aug 29, 2025, 8:35 pm • 3 0 • view
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CaptainRaccoonWhitly @whitly12.bsky.social

But my current and former Rabbis are aware, and they've been surprisingly tolerant of me.

aug 29, 2025, 8:36 pm • 3 0 • view