That and the fact that NT's often can suffer from Uncanny Valley syndrome and become irrationally hostile, and in some cases become violent? Kinda makes a system that makes us look for each other anyways.

like I get people of same kind of ND can clash but generally get on with other autistics

💯💯💯 another reason not to limit ourselves to criteria we aren't dictating when it comes to community

like I thought one of my best friends was NT , but recently suspected he's adhd