Being realistic about the situation would be a start. There will never be a 100% mutiny of military personnel who disagree with the mission they're given. Some can and do object but it's mathematically impossible to expect the entire military to just shut down without a lawful order.
Again, you don't know any of those people and I'm guessing you never served (apologies if I'm wrong about that). I go on facts based on my own experience as well as reporting from the troops themselves; www.yahoo.com/news/america...
More info regarding how most of them feel about the deployments; www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025...