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Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey.bsky.social

I’m sorry, but your father had no understanding / appreciation of neurodiversity and what some people need to do to be able to focus on the spoken word. I come from a family of academics. They’re by no means perfect, but I’ve never heard of any of them adopt this unsupportive attitude.

aug 31, 2025, 7:14 am • 0 0

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Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey.bsky.social

aug 31, 2025, 7:15 am • 0 0 • view
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Thony Christie @rmathematicus.bsky.social

My father was neurodiverse, as am I. I can’t concentrate on a lecture if I try to take notes. Stop trying to speak for all neurodiverse people

aug 31, 2025, 7:25 am • 0 0 • view
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Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey.bsky.social

I've never said that I'm trying to speak for ALL neurodivergent people. My original reply didn’t say that.

Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey 5 Reply to @rmathematicus I'm sorry, but your father had no understanding / appreciation of neurodiversity and what SOME people need to do to be able to focus on the spoken word. I come from a family of academics. They're by no means perfect, but l've never heard of any of them adopt this unsupportive attitude.
aug 31, 2025, 7:50 am • 0 0 • view
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Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey.bsky.social

So we’re different. You and your father aren’t representative of all neurodiverse people. Those of us with ADHD tendencies need to write to be able to focus on what we’re hearing. Preventing people from writing *to help them listen* would likely have had the opposite effect on many.

aug 31, 2025, 7:27 am • 2 0 • view
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Thony Christie @rmathematicus.bsky.social

Wrong again with your generalisations. My father and I are both textbook cases of high level AD(H)D

aug 31, 2025, 7:39 am • 0 0 • view
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Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey.bsky.social

Ok. I should’ve said some / many of us with ADHD. Look, I’m sorry for upsetting you. But as I say, I really don’t think your father’s attitude discouraging students from taking notes would have been helpful to a number of his students.

aug 31, 2025, 7:44 am • 2 0 • view
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Thony Christie @rmathematicus.bsky.social

The question is, what is the purpose of a lecture?

aug 31, 2025, 7:48 am • 0 0 • view
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Abigail Dombey @abigaildombey.bsky.social

If you want me to be able to focus on what’s being said, you’d better let me take notes. I’d you want me to drift off with my own thoughts, then feel free to discourage me from taking notes.

aug 31, 2025, 7:52 am • 4 0 • view
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sophiacollins.bsky.social @sophiacollins.bsky.social

That’s interesting. I have ADHD and also dyspraxia, and taking notes makes it impossible for me to listen to what’s being said. So does just sitting. What I need is to be doing something else with my hands. Knitting, building Lego, something like that.

aug 31, 2025, 8:25 am • 3 0 • view
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Thony Christie @rmathematicus.bsky.social

I used to work as a maths tutor and I had a pupil who drew constantly whilst listening. He went on to study design at university

aug 31, 2025, 8:53 am • 0 0 • view
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sophiacollins.bsky.social @sophiacollins.bsky.social

Yes, doodling also works.

aug 31, 2025, 9:08 am • 1 0 • view
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Matthew Cobb @matthewcobb.bsky.social

You have 50 minutes Thony, a whiteboard, slides if you want them and whatever props you wish to employ.

aug 31, 2025, 7:50 am • 2 0 • view
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Jo 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 @hagenilda.bsky.social

*neurodivergent

aug 31, 2025, 7:26 am • 1 0 • view
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Thony Christie @rmathematicus.bsky.social

Thank you 🙃

aug 31, 2025, 7:26 am • 0 0 • view
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Jo 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 @hagenilda.bsky.social

Sorry am too autistic not to point it out lol

aug 31, 2025, 7:27 am • 2 0 • view