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Booticketyboo @booticketyboo.bsky.social

I've got a dilemma. I'm clearing out my filing cabinet and have found a number for someone I deleted 5 years ago. Not spoken with them for 6+ years, and I had resigned myself to the idea that they don't want me in their life. But this has made them tangible again. I need to destroy it, don't I. 😔

aug 30, 2025, 12:17 pm • 2 0

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Hutsutgirl @hutsutgirl.bsky.social

I understand. Perhaps just best to let it go unless that's going to cause you a lot of distress. In a way, the hard bit has already happened in that you haven't been in contact for a number of years..

aug 30, 2025, 7:35 pm • 0 0 • view
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Donkey Dave @purebob.bsky.social

YOU decide if you want them in your life. You dont need their permission to be your fabulous self x

aug 30, 2025, 2:40 pm • 0 0 • view
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Booticketyboo @booticketyboo.bsky.social

I hurt a little if I think about the missed fun times we could have had. So I'm going to try not to think about it. This starts with destroying the number. xx

aug 30, 2025, 6:21 pm • 1 0 • view
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Michael Topic @tropicalontour.bsky.social

Don’t look back.

aug 30, 2025, 2:21 pm • 2 0 • view
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Booticketyboo @booticketyboo.bsky.social

It's hard, but the right thing to do. 😢

aug 30, 2025, 6:17 pm • 1 0 • view