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Craig Calcaterra @craigcalcaterra.bsky.social

One of my favorite Robert Redford stories is when Mike Nichols was considering him for "The Graduate" and told him he needed to act like a guy who has struck out with women and Redford replied "what do you mean?"

sep 16, 2025, 1:03 pm • 2,388 332

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Samantha Marlowe @sammarlowe.bsky.social

My mom (a literary agent) has always loved to tell that story 💔

sep 16, 2025, 1:06 pm • 15 0 • view
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Joe Huiras @joehuiras.bsky.social

MN: when a woman doesnt want to come up to your apartment, ya know after a date RR: English pls, im having trouble following MN: when a woman rejects your advances, she turns you down RR: still dont get what youre trying to say MN: she says she doesnt want to have sex with you RR: one more time

sep 16, 2025, 2:06 pm • 36 0 • view
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Harris @ohkiv.bsky.social

Somebody just sent this in the group thread

The role: Benjamin Braddock Who got it: Dustin Hoffman Director Mike Nichols's friend, Robert Redford, was very interested in playing the lead role in The Graduate. Nichols tells Vanity Fair he
sep 16, 2025, 1:12 pm • 217 55 • view
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James @15c3po.bsky.social

Okay but how did Mike Nichols know about striking out?

sep 16, 2025, 1:52 pm • 9 1 • view
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Margaret Ann @mburns1rn.bsky.social

Love it Great story

sep 16, 2025, 1:10 pm • 1 0 • view
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Lisa ☮️ @lisaslaughing.bsky.social

Where’s the credit for the person that actually posted this? Because it certainly wasn’t you.

sep 16, 2025, 11:12 pm • 0 0 • view
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Nicki Stephens @nicki2910.bsky.social

Hilarious!

sep 16, 2025, 3:22 pm • 0 0 • view
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MBR @flame89.bsky.social

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sep 16, 2025, 1:16 pm • 28 0 • view
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tarhoosier @tarhoosier.bsky.social

I read this about Jon Hamm also.

sep 16, 2025, 1:28 pm • 2 0 • view
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Rita @rsilins-bsky.bsky.social

and still, as ridiculously handsome as he was, he seemed so very normal, and totally unimpressed by his looks and also impressive for what he was on the inside--kind, creative, involved in his community, doing good.

sep 17, 2025, 6:38 pm • 1 0 • view
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Ashland Forest Dweller @vaforestdweller.bsky.social

If Robert Redford had been cast in "The Graduate," he probably would've ended up with Anne Bancroft on and off screen. Sorry Mel.

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sep 16, 2025, 2:46 pm • 9 0 • view
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mccraephilosophies.bsky.social @mccraephilosophies.bsky.social

Who actually has something negative to say about the man? Nobody? There is nothing positive to be said about Trump and very little about the rest of them. What a difference between them and RR.

sep 17, 2025, 1:41 pm • 0 0 • view
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Beck @beckjoinyourunion.bsky.social

An incredibly swoon worthy man, even in his 80s. Rest in peace, man who never struck out.

sep 16, 2025, 1:13 pm • 17 0 • view
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Dovewoman 💙 🇺🇦 💙 @dovewoman.bsky.social

I’d never heard this. I’m smiling… Ty

sep 17, 2025, 12:07 am • 0 0 • view
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Bodach (baw-ditch) @imbodach.bsky.social

lol

sep 17, 2025, 4:03 am • 0 0 • view
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anniefitz12.bsky.social @anniefitz12.bsky.social

I see this story is making the rounds. It's pretty shallow. There are so many better stories to remember him by. Rest In Peace Mr. Redford. 🩷

sep 16, 2025, 9:26 pm • 2 0 • view
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Craig Calcaterra @craigcalcaterra.bsky.social

So when someone says “my favorite” it’s not an invitation to tell people they’re wrong about their own opinions.

sep 16, 2025, 9:59 pm • 8 0 • view
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Lisa ☮️ @lisaslaughing.bsky.social

You posted this as if it was your story. Phony.

sep 16, 2025, 11:14 pm • 1 0 • view
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anniefitz12.bsky.social @anniefitz12.bsky.social

Exactly

sep 17, 2025, 12:00 am • 1 0 • view
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anniefitz12.bsky.social @anniefitz12.bsky.social

Who said you were WRONG?

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freeworld99🍁🌻📎 @freeworld99.bsky.social

I'd luv to hear one.

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freeworld99🍁🌻📎 @freeworld99.bsky.social

🤭

sep 16, 2025, 1:11 pm • 5 0 • view
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freeworld99🍁🌻📎 @freeworld99.bsky.social

The ONLY time its not an advantage to being gorgeous. 🤫🤣

sep 16, 2025, 1:19 pm • 8 0 • view
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Cycle. And Recycle. @blackstormrise.bsky.social

😄

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sukih.bsky.social @sukih.bsky.social

Oh dear.

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NaNaNaNa ™ ❌💩👑 @heyheygoodbye.bsky.social

😅

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Rusty @rusty-baxter.bsky.social

Reminds me of ME.

sep 16, 2025, 7:26 pm • 2 0 • view
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Devin @metaldad666.bsky.social

😆

sep 16, 2025, 1:07 pm • 1 0 • view
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Chuck Groundhog @only-si-chuck.bsky.social

Yup. That wouldn’t work.

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Time to FAFO @phillipse16.bsky.social

sep 16, 2025, 1:23 pm • 4 0 • view
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Petal Lu Ⓥ 🌱💙🌎 @petallu.bsky.social

Omg 😂

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Gerard MacDonell @gmacdonell.bsky.social

We would all carry that burden, eh? Just couldn't act it

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mayandmee.bsky.social @mayandmee.bsky.social

What did he mean, I don’t understand that?

sep 16, 2025, 4:27 pm • 1 0 • view
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Jesse Schotter @schotter.bsky.social

I’m teaching The Graduate tomorrow and I always mention that (fantastic) anecdote.

sep 16, 2025, 1:25 pm • 20 0 • view
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MalcomJ (Who?/Me?)🇺🇲🇬🇧🇨🇦 @malcomj.bsky.social

Nichols' first choice - Doris Day - would have followed the book more closely.

sep 16, 2025, 1:28 pm • 8 1 • view
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Clubfoot Dance Club @clubfootdanceclub.bsky.social

So I - I mean we - might have had a chance to see Doris Day in (and momentarily out) of her undies?? Making REAL pillow talk?? Thanks for braking my brain.

sep 16, 2025, 4:37 pm • 1 0 • view
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MalcomJ (Who?/Me?)🇺🇲🇬🇧🇨🇦 @malcomj.bsky.social

And...the song "Mrs. Robinson" was originally entitled "Mrs. Roosevelt." There you go!

sep 16, 2025, 4:45 pm • 3 0 • view
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Clubfoot Dance Club @clubfootdanceclub.bsky.social

😂😂😂 3/3

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The Benj! @thebenj.bsky.social

He waved Doris to play the Dustin Hoffman part? Would have been bold.

sep 16, 2025, 9:58 pm • 7 0 • view
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The Benj! @thebenj.bsky.social

WANTED. Damnit.

sep 17, 2025, 5:23 am • 1 0 • view
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FilmAlicia @filmalicia.bsky.social

It seems to be everybody’s favorite story about him.

sep 16, 2025, 4:45 pm • 5 0 • view
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David McKinney @davidmckinney59.bsky.social

Anne Bancroft's loss.

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Meggie Z: Midlife Crisis Edition @nutmeggles.bsky.social

Damn, early RIP to Dustin Hoffman too

sep 16, 2025, 1:34 pm • 9 0 • view
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Possibly Kimberly @possiblykim123.bsky.social

Whew. You made me look! Dustin Hoffman just turned 88 in August.

sep 16, 2025, 3:06 pm • 6 0 • view
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Meggie Z: Midlife Crisis Edition @nutmeggles.bsky.social

This was just a joke about the Graduate 😂

sep 16, 2025, 3:29 pm • 5 0 • view
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Possibly Kimberly @possiblykim123.bsky.social

I may have over waked and baked this morning… 

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Meggie Z: Midlife Crisis Edition @nutmeggles.bsky.social

No worries at all 🥰

sep 16, 2025, 3:32 pm • 2 0 • view