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Bajamama03 @bajamama03.bsky.social

That is a very personal choice. I get that. Just a reminder: You being kidnapped would affect your kids. Your safety has to take priority so you can continue to protect them. Stay safe, good soul.

aug 24, 2025, 1:58 am • 4 0

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Millie, or Mills if we’re friends @millie29.bsky.social

No it’s not a choice. It’s hardwiring. Any time I’m attacked I freeze. I hate it. But it’s what I do. The only time I haven’t is when the kids were in some kind of danger or perceived danger. It’s not a moral choice. It’s biology 🤷🏼‍♀️

aug 24, 2025, 2:01 am • 2 0 • view
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Arabella @arabellaspireship.bsky.social

Me too. Rabbit in the headlights. When my sister had broken her ankle I lost the power of speech as well as freezing.

aug 24, 2025, 2:11 am • 1 0 • view