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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

Bc sex has to do with genitals so ppl have a right to know what genitals you have before literally allowing you to do sexual things w them?

aug 22, 2025, 2:07 pm • 0 0

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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

Like that’s not the same as coloring a person’s hair? & again, we all know this guys is not being genuine.

aug 22, 2025, 2:08 pm • 0 0 • view
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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

He knew she was trans, someone probs found out she sucked him off & this is how he’s saving his own fave among his transphobic friends.

aug 22, 2025, 2:08 pm • 0 0 • view
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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

The issue is she lied, which opened her up to this charge. That is why im focusing on her lying. If she had not lied, & he had sex w her, & realized later she was trans, that’s on him for not asking before sex if it was that much of a deal breaker for him. Ppl are allowed to have deal breakers.

aug 22, 2025, 2:09 pm • 0 0 • view
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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

If your claim is that ppl aren’t allowed to have a deal breaker before consenting to sex, that’s not a safe sex mindset.

aug 22, 2025, 2:10 pm • 0 0 • view
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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

But again, this guy is being disingenuous, this was obviously not a deal breaker for him bc she admits she wasn’t passing.

aug 22, 2025, 2:11 pm • 0 0 • view
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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

That’s why i haven’t engaged w the deal breaker part bc it wasnt a deal breaker for him. Her mistake was lying & if we let her get away w it bc this asshole can’t get over himself, then lying to get sex is the new okayed precedent for everyone.

aug 22, 2025, 2:12 pm • 0 0 • view
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Spiffy @spiffypeach.bsky.social

So either they need to prove he knew she was trans before having sex despite her lying & admitting she lied, or she has to take the fall to protect what will happen if lying to get sex becomes protected.

aug 22, 2025, 2:13 pm • 0 0 • view