avatar
zyfersystems.bsky.social @zyfersystems.bsky.social

There’s another side to that issue as well. I was abandoned by my entire family. I don’t have many close relationships because I’ve prioritized financial independence. I am better off without them for sure, but it’s not always as simple as just owning it. Everyone has their own story and reasons.

sep 8, 2025, 11:39 pm • 2 0

Replies

avatar
Jon Zajdel @falderalmalarky.bsky.social

As someone who was disowned, I hear you.

sep 8, 2025, 11:40 pm • 1 0 • view
avatar
zyfersystems.bsky.social @zyfersystems.bsky.social

Thank you. I was disowned, disinherited and abandoned. My mom stoped calling to cops to tell me when family dies so every now and again I search my own name to see if I show up in an obituary. That’s how I found out my uncle passed away.

sep 8, 2025, 11:53 pm • 2 0 • view
avatar
zyfersystems.bsky.social @zyfersystems.bsky.social

I’m sure we all have stories. I try not to judge because there is a whole world of information we don’t know anything about. Sending warm wishes your way.

sep 8, 2025, 11:56 pm • 2 0 • view
avatar
Jon Zajdel @falderalmalarky.bsky.social

Likewise my fellow traveler

sep 8, 2025, 11:58 pm • 2 0 • view
avatar
zyfersystems.bsky.social @zyfersystems.bsky.social

Stay safe

sep 8, 2025, 11:59 pm • 1 0 • view