People love the drama. They’re just bored, but instead of finding excitement in a positive way they feed off of others.
People love the drama. They’re just bored, but instead of finding excitement in a positive way they feed off of others.
I’d like to feed off your cheese!
I know, M’Lord. I know.
Thou art the Triscuit of life: a little snack, best with cheese on it.
You have cheese?
Always.
What kind of cheese
All of them.
Don't toy with my emotions 😭😭😭
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Like, I've tried the "even-handed" dating profile. The whole "I am a human being. I am stable, I own my own place, and I pay my bills. Please watch sitcoms with me." But people don't want human beings. They want "partners in crime" who jump out of airplanes.
No one's looking for a roommate. They're looking for passion, fire, excitement, romance, connection, compatibility, meaning. They want Scott the Super Human!
That's my alt account.
This is my alt account ;)
Oh, I wonder if we know each other in our alternate online life. Maybe we're soulmates.
See, you do have a romance streak :) Unleash the beast!
I need to take a breath before I let the bitterness consume me... Remember what my life coach taught me... "Don't hate the player, hate the game."
You need to meet someone at a farmers market. Seems wholesome.
Not gonna lie, I have felt drawn to farmers markets lately. The lure of fresh Honeycrisp apples...
Don’t forget the delicious cheese.
Maybe I can use women's love of cheese to my advantage. Yes... I have a cunning plan...
To begin with people like notable gestures. Not expensive. Literally listening and recalling something someone said two weeks later. Multiply it by 100x for planning an evening where her only decision is shawl or no shawl.
It's the notion that you're special to someone. Even if it doesn't workout, it would be positive. That's all the advice I have.
*when I say plan an evening, I hope I don't have to specify something mutually enjoyable because you've talked enough to discover that she likes honey ham
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Please specify all you can. I need all the help I can get.
Let me say, I've been on way too many last dates where it was apparent that not only did he pick the thing he likes so he could talk at me about his interests the entire time, it actually felt like he didn't listen/care enough to understand very basic things about me like I'm not into ultraviolence
John Wick* may be the one exception. But I discovered that on Netflix. It's totally different going out on a date for a fun evening and getting traumatized instead.
I get it. I'm not into horror, but there are a few horror projects that are so well done on an artistic level that they win me over (Get Out, Walking Dead comic).
Not on a date with a new person 🤣❤️
Chiming in late, but I went to see Civil War on a third date which ended up a last date. I had bought the tickets well in advance, and it was my last day in town before a trip, so I just asked if she wanted to come with. Damn was that movie traumatizing… Got dumped upon landing in France. :/
That's interesting. My mom will get to a point where she refuses to pick a restaurant when we're deciding. The decision fatigue is real.