Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Make sure it’s in the golf course - next to Ivana
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Make sure it’s in the golf course - next to Ivana
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
This comes to mind - from Blazing Saddles, a great film by the inimitable Mel Brooks @officialmelbrooks.bsky.social )
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Or Bob Ross: “Let’s put a happy cloud right here”
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
This should never be normalized
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
What a patient man. He’s a keeper
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I remember reading that some younger adults (under 25) have no concept that doing something dangerous might have consequences. Plus the allure in an off-limits area? Nobody else will be covering it on SM so they’ll get more likes. Too many deaths already from influencers at waterfalls, etc.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social)
A newsworthy cat. Happy Caturday! #caturday #happycaturday #cats
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Huh? Is he saying we need to be a bunch of gun-toting MapleMagas defending our property? This just sounds so un-Canadian to me (and he loves to play on the myth of so much crime in Canada, right?)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
💯 Or rushing with the list to the public library 📚 📚 📚
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Jaws?!? Okay, there is an affair but I don’t recall the scenes as being “explicit sexual content”. Good thing the kids still have access to the public library, right? I hope the banning motivates them to sign out the “banned” books from the public library (b/c if they’re banned, the must be good 😉)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
My brain doesn’t do well with audio books. And I prefer hard books so I can easily re-read portions, or flip to the photos or maps. I’ve checked and my local library doesn’t have them so I may have to buy them 😉 If we don’t study and learn from history, it has a habit of repeating itself
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And books about servile tradwives 🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I think I’ll have to read those - they sound interesting
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
We’ve had a few hot dry summers the last few years here on the West Coast (not much of our typical rain) and started seeing this then. Distressing to see. Have observed the trees can bounce back later - they protect themselves by dropping the leaves.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
We used to say with disgust “How could the Germans let the Nazis take over?” Now we’re seeing it in real time, and it’s terrifying. Even concentration camps 🐊 The bigger question is how do you take this down? It’s not just Trump - it’s the entire network behind him.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I bet PP is having a toxic field day over there (I avoid the place, for obvious reasons)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
They also banned Brave New World and 1984, which I read when I was in high school. Agree this is about trying to control ideas and independent thought. Hope the kids think “Hey, if it’s banned, it must be good” and source them from the public library 😉
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
By deifying an insurgent, Trump is setting up for the next treasonous revolt. Not only will there be no consequences (you’ll be pardoned!), if you fight and are killed, we’ll immortalize you and make you a martyr. It’ll make it easier to recruit them next time.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Haha - thought it had to be Canada because it was Tim Horton’s 🤣
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I’m around your age. When we were kids, nobody talked about this stuff. It was going on, but nobody knew. With Epstein, brave women came forward and told us - which is why we know what he and Maxwell did. (Or some of it, anyway.) And it makes me feel physically ill, too
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I saw the Filthy Rich doc as well. I think whatever has been uncovered to date is just the tip of the iceberg. I saw something on YouTube this morning - Johnny Rotten talking about Jimmy Saville. So many covered up for him and his horrible activities. What world are we in that protects abusers?
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
It’s a huge, international web - they were bringing in “models” from Russia and Eastern Europe (cough cough). Lots of powerful, incredibly rich men are being protected. And the abuse is sickening. Depravity. They don’t want us to know. And Epstein - suicide? I’m tending to think not 🤔
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Or at Walmart 🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I really hope the Epstein files will be to Trump what tax evasion was to Al Capone. And I recommend reading this book by @jkbjournalist.bsky.social - her great reporting led to the NY charges against Epstein. She names some names and yes, that includes Trump.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
The Dunsmuirs?
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Hatley Castle has been featured in a number of films, including X-Men and Little Women (the 1994 version). And many years ago, an episode of 21 Jump Street. I know someone who worked there at the time and met Johnny Depp. Beautiful place, lovely gardens.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I call it a “non-ology”. No apology at all (and it really means “You are too sensitive and I don’t give a darn”). I was married to someone who used that all the time. There’s a reason he’s my ex 🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Love is love 💕
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Lucky he wasn’t hit by the vehicle when he started running - looks pretty close from this angle
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Probably will take some time for them to get used to it. And with ours, you can throw in pizza boxes, meat and carcasses, etc. Really cuts down on the stinky garbage going to the landfill. Ahh, yes! My first visit to Montreal was in October - I remember seeing brown bins ❤️
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Have you had it long? We’ve had it for several years here (I love it!) but TBH, I don’t know the participation rates
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Good Dad 🥰
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I have the gene that makes cilantro taste like dirty old sweat socks
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Agreed - but I think that amongst this awful, anxiety-inducing and never-ending bad news cycle, some people (ie - Swifties) like to see a little joy. And it’ll only be for a day
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Sometimes you have to stay and fight. And as I’ve said, moving isn’t always an option - an Americans trying to move to 🇨🇦 have discovered. Where would you move to?
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Where else would I go? Not to the US. And my children are here. It’s not that easy to emigrate to another country. And besides losing jobs, homes and family ties in 🇨🇦, many people would not have been able to afford to move.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
If Carney hadn’t stepped in to run, and if the NDP voters hadn’t voted Liberal to prevent vote-splitting, we would likely have had PP as our Prime Minister. We were a squeak away
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Haha - I forgot about that!
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I used to do that - have since learned to use trays in a drawer and stick my spices in there alphabetically. Sounds dorky but otherwise I’d be spending 20 minutes rooting around. Also re-use small jam jars to hold the spices that come in bags - easier to dip my tablespoon in. Label with masking tape
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I enjoyed that show - but he did go grocery shopping, as I recall, and sometimes bought special cooking items (pots). I remember one show where he was working with the wife to make a surprise dinner for her hubby, and she was obviously besotted with Stone 😬 (Can’t say I blame her, though)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes! My daughter and I tried one with both of us working full-out. Took us more than an hour. And the text was so dense that it was difficult to read. Have not tried that cookbook again. (And read that his “Meals in 30 Minutes” was reprinted as “Meals in Minutes” 🤣)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I’ve been to the UK three times now and loved it. Will have to come back for cheese toast ❤️ (and to see all the amazing places I didn’t get a chance to see!)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Not far from Seattle - I live in a suburb of Vancouver, B.C. We’re having a bit of a hot spell right now - much higher than our usual temps
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Ohh, that sounds wonderful- thank you! I’ll have to try it once our weather cools down (31 Celsius today)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Clinton was also a pal of Epstein’s. Let the chips fall where they may.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Also Blazing Saddles - my kids loved it. Mel Brooks was so ahead of his time on the subject of racism (brilliant!) and it has an excellent cast, which includes Gene Wilder. Still resonates today - perhaps even more now
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Is that a cheese toastie? (A genuine question as I live in 🇨🇦) If so, didn’t know Worcestershire sauce was the secret ingredient. It looks amazing!
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
The other cool thing: the confluence of indigenous and African-American music. Did not know that connection ❤️ For Canadians out there, it’s free on CBC Gem 🇨🇦
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
It does run deeper. Epstein had an international sex trafficking ring. Lots of rich and powerful men involved. It goes deeper than we know. Recommended reading: Perversion of Justice by @jkbjournalist.bsky.social. Her story led to the NY charges against Epstein. I think it’s the tip of the iceberg
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Canada is right next door and Putin wants control of the Arctic - all of it 🇨🇦
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I read the (very long) list. I’m boycotting most of those things anyway. As to the others (appliances, for example) we wouldn’t want to see tariffs on those 💰 💰. PM Carney knows what he’s doing - lifting the tariffs won’t hurt us. And won’t really help the US. Keep buying Canadian 🇨🇦 💪 😘
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
When I was little, I used to imagine that the musicians were somehow inside that big thing. (Ours was a stereo only, no TV.) Bonus: it played 78s and we had my grandparents’ collection of 78s from the 1930s and ‘40s. Benny Goodman or Glenn Miller, anyone? 🎶 💕
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Just read this excellent book by @jkbjournalist.bsky.social and Brown reports that Maxwell basically went “shopping” for victims, hitting spas, etc. to recruit women to “work” for Epstein. What was in it for her? Money. Power. Epstein’s approval. She didn’t care a flying fig about the victims.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
At first glance, I thought that was an amazing poster on your wall
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And per the article, the masked men shot first; the homeowner fired in self-defence. Which seems reasonable in this situation - matching their weaponry with the same. Unfortunately for them, he was a better shot
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And read the labels. Two grocery stores I go to say Compliments brand is Canadian, but many of their labels say “produced for Compliments” or “imported by”. And I’ve found products made in Canada for Canadian companies that aren’t being flagged as 🇨🇦. Check. Always. You might be surprised.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Good job, Mom! I used to read to my kids and was disappointed when they told me they didn’t need that anymore; they were going to read on their own, thank you 😭 Flash forward: they are now 28 and 29 and still big readers. You have set your baby up for life 😘
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And - a lot of the items on the list is stuff we’re boycotting anyway. Keep shopping Canadian! 🇨🇦
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Arrogance. We always knew that, right? 😉 🇨🇦
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I just read this excellent book by @jkbjournalist.bsky.social and what becomes pretty clear is the power, wealth, corruption runs deep. She does name some names (wealthy and powerful men) and I think what we know to date is just the tip of the iceberg. Big enough to have Epstein killed
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I need to get it done, too, for the same reason, same age bracket. By the time I started Grade 1 (didn’t do kindergarten) measles was pretty much done so I sure didn’t get additional immunity through exposure.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Same - and when I look at film/pictures and what women wore in the 1950s 👠👜 I think with the pandemic, I came to choose comfort over fashion and darn, but it’s hard to turn back! 👚👖👟
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
No mess - just a life well-lived 💕
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I believe it goes way deeper and further than we currently know. But there’s so much corruption at so many levels that the truth may never fully come out.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
The article says 40 escorts over four days 🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I just don’t buy the US produce for obvious reasons 🇨🇦 💪 Local stuff always tastes so much better, too- it wasn’t travelling for a long time to get here. And our peaches? 😘
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I remember my Mom using a wringer when I was little (around 1965). You can see one in the clip above the washing machine. She’d put the wet item in one side, turn a handle continually, and the item would be squeezed through the rollers to wring it out before it goes on the line. Lots of work 🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Have you read the books? They’re excellent
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Seconded by another Canadian family law lawyer 🇨🇦
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And I remember that if you lost your spouse at the mall, you’d be walking all over trying to find them (unless you’d been smart enough to pre-plan an arranged meeting place and time). Ah, that pain is real.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
That could be. And with art, sometimes the public has to “grow into it” in order to fully appreciate it, because the artist was so far ahead of their time (ex - Van Gogh). Or perhaps the theme of death and suicide was too close to the losses from the war, as you say - triggering for people
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
It’s hard to believe - from where we sit now, all these decades later - that It’s a Wonderful Life bombed in movie theatres. I’d read that it’s long run time was a big contributing factor
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I was always confused by it, too
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Nope, that’s David Cassidy
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
It sounded like “vodker runtonicks” to me
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Libraries are a great source for DVDs!
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
BC actors - Michael J. Fox, Carrie-Anne Moss, Ryan Reynolds, Seth Rogan, Joshua Jackson, Jason Priestly, Cobie Smulders, James Doohan (Scotty in the original StarTrek) - just to name a few 😉
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social)
Chillaxin’ #Caturday #Happycaturday #cats #catsofbluesky #serenity
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I discovered that years ago when I started watching BBC World News. Totally different perspective. North American news focuses on us; BBC focused on more of the world. We miss so much of the world news here
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Can you share this with that outrageous Maine senator who invited us to join the US? Because this so clearly defines who we are as a nation - plus all those other rights: universal healthcare, same-sex marriage, legal abortion care. We have so much more than they will ever have. Not giving that up
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And be grumpy towards any cute little dogs that may approach or follow you 🐶
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
It’s a love gift 💕
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
And read what you like, and don’t be apologetic about it! I have an English degree and like British murder mysteries 😁
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Aren’t these those cute little Swiss sheep? I think they’re called Valais Blacknose. Cutest sheep ever
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Each time I see these people saying “You aren’t gonna tell me what to do! Freedom!!!”, I hear oppositional defiant disorder (not that I’m qualified to make a diagnosis) 😉
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I was surprised, too. He definitely made an error in judgment with this one 😬
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
He’s also lost his job (the sub thrower, that is) Pam Bondi fires man accused of throwing sandwich at federal agent during Trump DC intervention www.ctvnews.ca/world/articl...
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I think she’s pointing out that contrary to what that poster suggested, Mark Carney has a very impressive pre-MP CV (unlike PP)
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I have a huge TBR pile but I may have to make room for another book!
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I love that film! It has one of the most beautiful scenes in film history: a scene that silently said so much about ‘ability’, as opposed to ‘disability’. Stunning.
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I believe they’re simply ignorant about us - except for the border states that we like to visit. Lots of Americans really don’t give a second thought to Canadians
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Agreed - I’ve believed from day 1 that orca will win 🏆
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
It is all meant to be a distraction from the bigger criminals and Epstein/ Maxwell/ Trump - “Look over there, folks - don’t look over here!” 🙄
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
An idiot who hasn’t experienced the terror of wildfires
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
If it happens (which would be atrocious) come to Canada and get married here 💕 🌈 🇨🇦
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I used to watch the Bugs Bunny Roadrunner Hour - on the West Coast, it was on at 5:00 pm, then Hockey Night in Canada started at 6:00
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
I believe it’s based on Elizabeth Zimmerman’s sweater recipes - Budd took the math and put everything into a handy chart, which is lovely (I found EZ’s approach to be very confusing, as I am mathematically challenged).
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
If those are Hawkin’s Cheezies - chef’s kiss!
Kate H 🇨🇦 (@quietvoice.bsky.social) reply parent
Love how you can see his photo on the wall at the end of the clip