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this left vs right thing has got to end.
CANADIAN. Former freelance web content writer, author of books for Christian midlife women, creator of art, gardener. Senior. Retired. Married. New Nana. Mild #ME/CFS https://www.facebook.com/ArtRosalieGarde instagram.com/rosaliegarde
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this left vs right thing has got to end.
Dr. Margot Burnell (@drmargotburnell.bsky.social) reposted
Childhood vaccines prevent illness and save lives. The CMA stands with America's doctors to call on Florida to reverse its plans to end vaccine mandates, including those required for school attendance. Vaccines are one of the safest, most effective tools in the fight against preventable diseases.
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Wants to tell his side of the story. So there is a story to be had. Always 2 sides to be heard.
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She waited until September to report it?
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He is a loser 70 times over.
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Liars and cheats.
Ekaputra Tupamahu (@ekaputrat.bsky.social) reposted
NBC News investigates sex abuse allegations in the Assemblies of God, the world's largest Pentecostal denomination. www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news...
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Wow, this is very revealing.
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Having a @chapmans.ca made in Canada Great Canadian Grizzly Cone chocolate with peanuts called Yukon.
Bradley P. Moss (@bradmossesq.bsky.social) reposted
As always, RFK makes stuff up. He says there havenโt been long term studies. There have been studies. Plenty of them. He just doesnโt like that they donโt align with his views.
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This is a good list of suggestions.
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that need attention.
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That being said, his discontentment will not easily vanish. A midlife crisis is something to be walked through. What not to do is make life changing drastic decisions. Itโs a natural developmental stage with a period of questioning, transition, and re-evaluation. Feel the feelings & identify areas
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same with my roomba vacuum, I do not need to turn it on remotely.
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Yes, quite striving, embrace acceptance, trust you are where God wants you. Embrace your hobbies to find enjoyment elsewhere. Break strongholds of fantasies of a pastor life that hold no value. Believe in God who works through you. It's not up to you to be the star of the show.
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Same for special diets for weight loss. Sorry, nope. Not doing it.
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I prevent discouragement by looking at each day as a new day. Letting the worries of yesterday stay in the past. It's very biblical. I also release my cares to God as much as is humanly possible. Taking thoughts captive is very biblical too.
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You could say the memory of looking young too. Fact is, we all age.
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guns
The Bible Newsletter (@thebiblenewsletter.org) reposted
Overthinking can steal your peace. Anxiety can paralyze your progress. God never asked us to carry it all alone. "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." โ 1 Peter 5:7 ๐ Mindset shift: โ Focus on what you can control โ Let go of the rest
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The problem is, if they would see the reason for separation of state & religion, they would quit seeing elected leaders as 'pastors' who convert, but leaders who lead with the smarts God has given them.A mayor or other leader is not gonna try to force his religion on others if he does his job right.
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but the people voted for him under God's authority. Deal with it dude.
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promising his presence with them until the end of the age. Then ask them, "Isn't it convenient they come to you and you don't have to be a missionary in their country?" Then ask, "Can a brown-skinned Indian person be converted and become an ambassador for Christ?"
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Ask them if they really believe in 'making disciples of all nations", the passage where Jesus gives his followers the command to go, make disciples from all ethnic groups (not just Israel), baptize them, and teach them to obey everything he commanded,
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I have met many Christians who have immigrated from India.
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Can a family not share the digital subscription? It never lets me log onto my browser. Just husband can.
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I try to live each day new & not bring yesterday's concerns into today. It's about mental health and wellness. Only one problem with that for those who get PEM from #ME/CFS: We often try to recall what we did the day before that put us into the 12-24 hr PEM window causing the new day's fatigue.
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Difficult decisions. What did you choose?
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I often want another dog, but life is challenging enough. I feel for you, hope it brings more joy than energy drain.
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Yes, time and energy limits.
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I have had red light therapy done by a visiting PT who brought equipment. I do think it works. Is this unit expensive?
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Thanks for sharing. Iโve actually had good luck with cardboard in my big beds. I just cut around the plants, and they seem to thrive while the weeds are somewhat held back. The weeds here are just so persistent in rural beds, itโs always an ongoing experiment and the older I get the lower my energy.
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What is Trump's plan? Destroy America from within for Putin then take off with his pals to live in Russia for as long as he lives? It all just doesn't make sense. He is destroying businesses, livelihoods, hope, making people sick, stopping progress on important research. USA is no longer a LEADER.
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I'd love to hire a weeder. I haven't had luck. I also don't trust everyone to know the difference between a native plant, perennial flower and a weed. Lost decorative grass once when I hired a guy. He must have pulled it out. #Gardening #weeds What do you do? (rural residence, tons of weeds!)
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Goal for property: to weed-proof it enough that I don't have so many weeds next year. My fatigue issues can't handle all the work in a timely manner. Will this be possible? Layers of cardboard, plastic, tarp, mulch are what I'm putting in problematic areas. Oh, what a chore it is. #ME/CFS #gardening
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So what does one do about their blood flow in the brain?
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I report my activity & fatigue into an AI tool. It tells me I have layered reasons for fatigue today. Blood sugar was normal after 1.5 hr gardening, but likely in a drop. #Diabetes2 I should have had more protein before gardening. Carb spike & drop could be an issue I have more than rapid PEM.
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Things have turned backwards. May God intervene soon.
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I have a sister like that--always busy, always talking. she would freak out if she heard I slept in until 12 noon today.
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You just need to click on the hashtag I shared above.
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I feel ya. We are all different. Celebrate their stories of their activities and appreciate you are different and enjoy couch time :) Wishing you the best.
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Can you just not feel the need to explain it and just accommodate yourself as you need to? I was told last week "It's just aging". I didn't take the bait, I disengaged.
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Well done. I have very mild #CFS which the doctor isn't diagnosing yet before we try a few more things for my fatigue. But here I've posted what I call #ME/CFSHacks you may want to look at.
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It is very very difficult. I feel like as long as I'm flat on my back, I will keep falling back to sleep. It's a tough call of forcing oneself to get up to actually change course.
Bruce D. Cowherd (@brucedc77.bsky.social) reposted
Whistling Gardens Botanical Garden, Wilsonville, Ontario Festival of Fountains ~ Night Gardens August 23, 29, 30 ~ September 5, 6, 12, 13 #cdnpoli #Canada ๐จ๐ฆ #onpoli #Ontario #CanadaSky #CanadaProud #ElbowsUpCanada ๐ #ExploreCanada #BuyCanadian #ViveLeCanada
R๐ (@rgarde.bsky.social) reply parent
ah, yes, we visited this lovely place years ago. Thanks for sharing.
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Yes, they are very delicious.
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Clearly American Christianity (the woke terminology)๐. IIRC, the churches of the 70s 80s were highly numbers oriented. And then, pastors were told they had to have "target numbers" and show "results", and get bonuses if they achieved them. Must have been a bunch of corporates on their boards.
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I have been creating this type of art too but simply called it #DoodleArt or #NoveltyArt but your hashtags have opened my eyes. I may use these now #contemporaryArt #intuitiveArt #expressiveDrawing #surrealAutomatism (capitalizing the 2nd word is for those who use robot readers)
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Yes, I have several muted that are triggering for me. Like "shooter".
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...where is the part, "and we will keep ICE out"?
Brian Kaylor (@briankaylor.bsky.social) reposted
If DHS really means it, they should start by reinstating the rule blocking immigration raids at houses of worship & by stopping their targeting of clergy! publicwitness.wordandway.org/p/when-trump...
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gate in the churches? USA is militant.
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unfortunately, sometimes it does. Like school shootings.
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PS. many of us are praying for their blind eyes to open and for Trump to . . .
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very strange for a gov org to post such.
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I think every narcissist is different. Time for this old hippy to burn out. Canada banned him. He doesn't play by rules.
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๐ like a (blankety-blank-blank) hippy. LOL.
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He is an attention seeker. Let them have their party alone. Don't amplify him.
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bsky.app/profile/matt...
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Miracles do happen ๐ . Former dishwasher, dishes were coming out as rejects. We had to pre-wash or rewash. Got a new Bosch & the messiest dishes come out perfect! No scrubbing. My mood is better. No sink full of rejects. (Husband says that commercial: it's your detergent not your washer, is BS). ๐๐
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Thank you. I discovered last spring that barometer changes can be a trigger for me (cold wet weather), and that Sudafed with Advil in it may help. Wow, took 2 today, and after 1 hr, the pain dissipated!! Thankful.
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btw, this is in my back yard
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Thankful for Canada's gun laws.
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Did I show this pathway yet? I'm standing on a path taking the photo and the Black Eyed Susans, Fleabane, and Hollyhocks are a little raised in the rock garden. #Garden #BloomScrolling #Gardening #Nature
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Paul, "What was the thorn in your side?"
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www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FRl...
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A real leader. The leader we need at this time in Canada. Thank you Prime Minister Carney!๐
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good video!
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Iโm sorry youโre going through this. Living with new daily neurological issues must be hard. Youโre not alone in feeling like itโs endless. Today I have trigeminal nerve pain in my face. PEM is always dif. Look for tiny sparks of good (a kind word, peace, butterfly) as proof itโs still worth it.
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even nuts are mostly imported
Matthew D. Taylor (@matthewdtaylor.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
It's tempting to give Feucht a big, boisterous counterprotest to show him he's "not welcome in Seattle," but that plays into his and his allies' hands. If there's no hubbub, no violence, no big reaction, then Sean's just another dude singing in a park, and that's the last thing he wants. 9/
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The Hollyhocks are finished. A sign of change. Time to chop 'em down. #Garden #Gardening #Flowers
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First night of using my apnea/Gerd bed wedge. It is comfortable. My apnea doesn't qualify for anything else. I don't think I have Gerd, but if so, it can disrupt sleep. Did I awake refreshed? No. But let's give it time. It was comfortable, shockingly. #ME/CFSHacks #CFS
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Lots of prayers for America. Righteous anger is allowed. Injustice is my trigger. We await your redemption! ๐๐ฏ
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AND now late at night scrolling, could he be implying my fatigue is from being vaxxed? If so, he is an ass. I had fatigue before the pandemic. It's recorded in my journals.
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๐ฅHope you rebound.
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you did not say location at all? Check your Kinsmen club, where I live they give a bed to homeless people who have had surgery. This is probably unhelpful.
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This is what Cracker Barrel is in Canada. I had a slice today. www.crackerbarrel.ca?gad_source=1...
David Fitch (@fitchest.bsky.social) reposted
YOU DON'T HAVE TO TAKE THE BAIT (friendly reminder) ... or defend yourself in every argument. Nehemiah responds to threats & unfair accusations with: โWhy should I stop the good work Iโm doing to argue with you? Nothing youโre saying is true. Youโre making it up.โ Nehemiah 6:3,8.
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for sure!
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I hate tripping over my words when socializing! Geesh!
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yes, pee and more pee
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I dunno, but I do know they go on far too long. My mom called them 7/11 (we have 7/11 convenience store here in Canada). What she meant was the same 7 words 11 times. ๐
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I wonder if the Democrats should change their name to "New Democrats" and speak about bread and butter issues that are less divisive than the hotter topics like gender, etc. and stop the 'us' versus 'them' mentality/marketing? #Democracy
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Every worker deserves the freedom to bargain for fair wages, safe conditions, and dignity on the job. Standing together with labor, democrats will protect the right to organize. The right to stand together for fairness at work is sacred. Sacred, I say! It is about the people not politicians!
Ken Martin (@kenmartin.bsky.social) reposted
Trump started with federal workers, but make no mistake, Trump's goal is to eliminate labor unions everywhere. The right to organize a union is sacred, and Democrats, along with @mnaflcio.org and AFGE, will continue to fight Trumpโs attacks on labor until the battle is won.
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64% of independents now disapprove of Trump (good news!) Signs of a shift. The tide turns when citizens choose peace over chaos, and then turnout!
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Another sibling at the gathering yesterday whom I asked if he has trouble getting up early or possible CFS replied, "No, cause I don't vax." How disappointing. He had COVID pretty badly '21. but refused to say it was Covid. Red pill Fox news had tainted his ability to think. I am grieved.
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*not 'you', "me". I gave her no further chance to undermine me.
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#ME/CFS is a very nuanced illness. Not the same for all. Much goes into managing our fatigue so we can have good days or at least a few good hours!
R๐ (@rgarde.bsky.social) reply parent
By walking away, I gave her what she wanted most โ space to talk about herself โ without giving her what she often seeks โ a chance to dismiss, argue, or undermine you.
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Then said, "It's called AGING." Ah, I expected as much. Dismissing me as per her modus operandi. Enough to call into question if I really have CFS. But it was not the place to discuss more or educate her. It was time to say goodbye and let her have the last word...
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At the end of the event, as usual, a narcissistic sibling wanted to weigh in. (Many of you with CFS know this kind of dismissal.) She told me I seemed to be good with no fatigue. I replied that I would likely crash later. She told me how she would crash too. She gave me examples...
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Update. Let me qualify this by saying: Iโm being investigated for possible CFS, but in the meantime, I manage my fatigue as though I have #CFS. Had an event yesterday. I went with energy. I felt good in a pretty new dress. I had told the hosts I was unsure if I'd make it due to my #CFS...
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You are learning and employing valuable life tools. Wallow when you need to but you're learning and doing what you need to do for you.
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naps can be sacred, yes.