Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
I understand the need for hope so do as you want but, what that we know about the president would ever make us think he would resign as the most powerful person in the world?
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I understand the need for hope so do as you want but, what that we know about the president would ever make us think he would resign as the most powerful person in the world?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
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Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
He is wonderful.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
LOL. Tressie. The accuracy.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Stanley cups everywhere
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
But I don’t understand people who go on these shows acting all naive. It is frustrating. Like Andie, bless their heart, why are they acting so brand new? It’s a game called Traitors. What did you think was going to happen?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Y’all told me to watch Traitors and I wasn’t sure but lol the ending of season 1! Oh my goodness.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
There is a whole class of pseudo-leftists who have decided that what radicalizes people is experiencing the mildest discomfort. They are just telling on themselves.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
That this even had to be said is just so ridiculous.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes. I think they think that’s what will keep viewers watching but it isn’t! Give us closure. We are watching to see how the contestants will rise to the each challenge occasion.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Indeed not!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I also find their self righteousness frustrating. They think highly of themselves, which is fine but it isn’t necessarily justified.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I keep wondering who is this for. There are some really talented designers this season but the twins aren’t in my top 10.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
They are. I appreciate Law being so honest with contestants. They need to hear it! Some of them need to develop more taste! And manners.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh boy.
Stone Cold Jane Austen (@abbyhiggs.bsky.social) reposted
RFK Jr looks like he’s been sampling the diseases at the CDC
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
She’s right! They do have an unfair advantage.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Does he think we don’t know?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
New author photo just dropped
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Like…. It’s 2025!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
And?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Thanks everyone. From your lips to Beyoncé’s ear
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I don’t give a fuck. I will absolutely celebrate. I will be joyous. And while Vance is dangerous he has no charisma. He is disliked. We will have a battle to fight. But it will be much easier without the figurehead. So. Yes. We will be celebrating.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
I’ve been busy today. Why does everyone think what we are all hoping for is imminent?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Two out of three ain't bad
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Everyone is texting me about an imminent book release and I just have to laugh. I read it months ago so I had time to process. Welcome!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I have no idea what this means.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
So rare
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Tonight, I will be in conversation with Parvati Shallow about her new memoir Nice Girls Don't Win. We'll be talking about the book, her stints on Survivor and much more. You can register here: us02web.zoom.us/webinar/regi...
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Will text you. My agent sent me the info.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Lesbian TikTok drama is just so supreme.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
What an idea
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Oh well. I am making my claim and every author should.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
I put this on every single elected official that continues to offer thoughts and prayers while human beings bleed to death from gunshot wounds in churches, schools, concerts, night clubs, community parades, and the list goes on.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
They don't need prayers. They were literally in church. What they need are laws that prevent this kind of senseless yet quotidian violence. And you know, this Ted.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
I have a book imprint & this week a new title is out, an essay collection about living with PTSD and moving forward from trauma but it’s also about being young, misadventure, motherhood and opening up to love again. The Answer Is in the Wound by Kelly Sundberg, out now: bookshop.org/a/112057/978...
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Waffle House. Next question.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Isn’t Cracker Barrel’s real problem that they serve bad food?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
We have season tickets!!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Jia Tolentino writes some really funny lines. " On social media, many of the most chaotic and emotionally lawless people you’ve ever known are posting on a regular basis about having at long last achieved inner peace."
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Horror movie in the works.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Charlie Kirk isn't even charge of his hairline. We shan't be listening to him about anything.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Being married to a designer, you can bet I’ve heard many thoughts about this today.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
We are creating a Spanish language section on The Rumpus, for original creative work written in Spanish and are looking for a volunteer editor for this section. If this could be you, please send a brief letter of interest to roxane@therumpus.net by Tuesday, September 2nd!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Fascinating choice.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
People reveal themselves in the most bizarre ways. The pride in having disdain for people who make the world livable. My god.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
One of my nieces is auditioning for a school play today and asked Debbje and Into help her pick a monologue so we suggested the cerulean blue monologue from devil wears Prada. Last night she rehearsed for us and we gave notes and omg. She nailed it! I hope she gets the part!!!!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Like, congratulations, Maggie. You're like, so much better than the rest of us!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
The keeping track part, I’ve learned in recent years, is particularly challenging. One of my nieces loses everything. She can’t help it. Going no phone would thrill her I think.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
But he does offer solutions. This is one event. It’s not his entire campaign. You don’t have to like or vote for him but pretending he hasn’t been very vocal about policy is complete BS.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
LOL. This is not new behavior from this man but it’s very funny that drugs are great but lesbians are a bridge too far.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
We will see tomorrow. But don’t hold your breath.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
You’re clearly cooler than the rest of us Maggie. Congrats? Like. What is your Purpose here?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I encourage you to have this convo elsewhere. It matters but as I said originally this is just a space to enjoy something enjoyable. We aren’t ignoring reality we are sitting in one moment.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Because it’s currently happening?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I also wish establishment dems would take some notes! Stop listening to consultants and pollsters. Talk to constituents!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
And it’s fine if you hate it or have some desperate need to be a Negative Nicholas. I shan’t partake of that. And perhaps you can do that elsewhere.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
This scavenger hunt is so charming and smart and actively engaging. It gets New Yorkers out and about, exploring the city, talking to one another, taking advantage of public transportation and working toward a common cause. The levels! It’s just so great.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I like this 11-year old already!!!!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Amazing what basic facts can do
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Truly. Just opining based on vibes.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Sometimes when you see a professional troll talking nonsense, it can be… elucidating to look up their book sales.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
*rent-stabilized.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh! You’re a troll. Okay. Have a nice day.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
You should maybe just focus on London if you don’t know enough about NY and the US. There is a lot you don’t see.
Robert Cameron (@robertcameron.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
Every military base in the USA has a government supermarket. They’re called commissaries. Soldiers love them.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
London is one of the most expensive cities in the world. Please stop smoking crack.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Who cares that it isn’t a great idea? At least it’s an idea that would help some people. It’s an idea that will evolve once implemented. It’s an idea that will work in conjunction with other community-oriented ideas. I really need all of us to step it up here.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
I don’t care. I think he is great and interesting and if the US can own 10% of Intel (!?!?), sure NYC can run a small number of grocery stores so people can buy affordable food. He lives in a rent-controlled apartment and everyone should be able to!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
*out in the world
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
This looks like all those video clips of 98 Degrees performing, present day. I would be mortified to have video like this out j. The world. They really don’t have any shame! None!
Tressie McMillan Cottom (@tressiemcphd.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
You don’t need to send me a story about how it saved you an hour at work or helped you solve a math riddle or even self-diagnose a medical ailment. My thinking will be the same. That is nice and it is still not worth the societal costs.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Thanks!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
The absolute audacity of it.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I honestly want to rescue the child. It’s so distressing.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
A. Men.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Wait until you hear about her Black daughter.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I like the dynamic BUT the newbies are being disingenuous. They’ve had 26 seasons of the show. They know how it has been played. Why are they pretending they’re brand new???
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
What, exactly, are you trying to do here? I am curious.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Don’t watch it if you don’t care for it. Entertainment is always optional. No one is forced to partake.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
Ok
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I would love to watch it. Where could I find it?
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Lauren is impossible! She cannot make a decision. How is she still in the game? All that crying. My goodness.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I haven’t watched yet. I will get on that!
Clint Smith (@clintsmithiii.bsky.social) reposted
I debated writing this. It can feel tempting, upon encountering yet another instance of this administration’s racism, to let it be. How many ways can you say the same thing over and over again? And yet we have to write it down, if for nothing else, so those who come after us know we were against it.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I love Amazing Race, Too Chef, and Survivor. I don’t understand the love island shows at all so I don’t watch them.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh I do! And it's so weird to watch these children acting so put out when game things happen. It's not a summer tea party. GROW UP! Rachel deserves to win just for tolerating these people.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
This season of Big Brother is just so ridiculous. Rachel, who is amazing, has to play this dumb game with toddlers (other than Will) who have no idea what they are doing.
Sherrilyn Ifill (@sifill.bsky.social) reposted
The only thing I can say about this paragraph is read it. Sit with it. Read it again. @michaelharriot.bsky.social
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
So comfortable!
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
The way this just made me laugh.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
So many of you are explaining to me that there is no hell like this is a catechism class. Like. Be less literal. The point here is so obvious.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Ok yoda.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
May James Dobson burn and rot below for all eternity. A cruel, venal man who caused grave harm with every breath he took.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
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Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Protect your peace.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
I find muting threads to work nicely.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent
Correct.
Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)
I refuse to believe we are going to relitigate slavery. SLAVERY. It’s too much.
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