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Roxane Gay

@roxanegay.bsky.social

https://linktr.ee/roxanegay Writer, editor, publisher, professor. Some people call me a bad feminist and by some people I mean me.

created April 28, 2023

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Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I understand the need for hope so do as you want but, what that we know about the president would ever make us think he would resign as the most powerful person in the world?

2/9/2025, 3:58:54 AM | 570 23 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

If you're in LA on 9/30, you can see me in conversation with Alexandra Grant at Occidental College. Free tickets, here: www.eventbrite.com/e/oxy-live-a...

2/9/2025, 2:20:38 AM | 129 19 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

He is wonderful.

1/9/2025, 10:39:35 PM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

LOL. Tressie. The accuracy.

1/9/2025, 10:37:39 PM | 42 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Stanley cups everywhere

1/9/2025, 10:35:17 PM | 35 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

But I don’t understand people who go on these shows acting all naive. It is frustrating. Like Andie, bless their heart, why are they acting so brand new? It’s a game called Traitors. What did you think was going to happen?

1/9/2025, 10:34:02 PM | 130 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Y’all told me to watch Traitors and I wasn’t sure but lol the ending of season 1! Oh my goodness.

1/9/2025, 10:32:01 PM | 284 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

There is a whole class of pseudo-leftists who have decided that what radicalizes people is experiencing the mildest discomfort. They are just telling on themselves.

1/9/2025, 10:07:32 PM | 261 29 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

That this even had to be said is just so ridiculous.

1/9/2025, 9:54:52 PM | 170 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Yes. I think they think that’s what will keep viewers watching but it isn’t! Give us closure. We are watching to see how the contestants will rise to the each challenge occasion.

31/8/2025, 1:37:18 AM | 52 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Indeed not!

31/8/2025, 1:35:45 AM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I also find their self righteousness frustrating. They think highly of themselves, which is fine but it isn’t necessarily justified.

30/8/2025, 11:19:20 PM | 47 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I keep wondering who is this for. There are some really talented designers this season but the twins aren’t in my top 10.

30/8/2025, 11:11:27 PM | 38 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

They are. I appreciate Law being so honest with contestants. They need to hear it! Some of them need to develop more taste! And manners.

30/8/2025, 11:02:03 PM | 105 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh boy.

30/8/2025, 10:58:46 PM | 12 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stone Cold Jane Austen (@abbyhiggs.bsky.social) reposted

RFK Jr looks like he’s been sampling the diseases at the CDC

29/8/2025, 11:04:20 PM | 16151 2742 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

She’s right! They do have an unfair advantage.

30/8/2025, 10:49:12 PM | 90 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Does he think we don’t know?

30/8/2025, 7:57:01 PM | 349 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

New author photo just dropped

30/8/2025, 6:44:19 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Like…. It’s 2025!

30/8/2025, 5:11:42 AM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

And?

30/8/2025, 4:58:02 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks everyone. From your lips to Beyoncé’s ear

30/8/2025, 4:52:37 AM | 565 9 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I don’t give a fuck. I will absolutely celebrate. I will be joyous. And while Vance is dangerous he has no charisma. He is disliked. We will have a battle to fight. But it will be much easier without the figurehead. So. Yes. We will be celebrating.

30/8/2025, 4:47:20 AM | 79 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I’ve been busy today. Why does everyone think what we are all hoping for is imminent?

30/8/2025, 4:42:03 AM | 838 30 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Two out of three ain't bad

29/8/2025, 12:10:39 AM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Everyone is texting me about an imminent book release and I just have to laugh. I read it months ago so I had time to process. Welcome!

28/8/2025, 11:54:00 PM | 197 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I have no idea what this means.

28/8/2025, 4:54:12 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

So rare

28/8/2025, 8:45:25 AM | 25 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Tonight, I will be in conversation with Parvati Shallow about her new memoir Nice Girls Don't Win. We'll be talking about the book, her stints on Survivor and much more. You can register here: us02web.zoom.us/webinar/regi...

28/8/2025, 8:35:29 AM | 123 13 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Will text you. My agent sent me the info.

28/8/2025, 1:24:49 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Lesbian TikTok drama is just so supreme.

28/8/2025, 1:24:17 AM | 158 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

What an idea

28/8/2025, 12:24:06 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Oh well. I am making my claim and every author should.

28/8/2025, 12:19:46 AM | 1786 373 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I put this on every single elected official that continues to offer thoughts and prayers while human beings bleed to death from gunshot wounds in churches, schools, concerts, night clubs, community parades, and the list goes on.

27/8/2025, 7:13:59 PM | 677 94 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

They don't need prayers. They were literally in church. What they need are laws that prevent this kind of senseless yet quotidian violence. And you know, this Ted.

27/8/2025, 7:00:36 PM | 157 8 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I have a book imprint & this week a new title is out, an essay collection about living with PTSD and moving forward from trauma but it’s also about being young, misadventure, motherhood and opening up to love again. The Answer Is in the Wound by Kelly Sundberg, out now: bookshop.org/a/112057/978...

27/8/2025, 6:44:49 PM | 260 28 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Waffle House. Next question.

27/8/2025, 6:26:48 AM | 572 22 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Isn’t Cracker Barrel’s real problem that they serve bad food?

27/8/2025, 5:38:08 AM | 8553 603 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

We have season tickets!!

27/8/2025, 5:28:32 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Jia Tolentino writes some really funny lines. " On social media, many of the most chaotic and emotionally lawless people you’ve ever known are posting on a regular basis about having at long last achieved inner peace."

26/8/2025, 10:17:51 PM | 465 34 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Horror movie in the works.

26/8/2025, 9:14:41 PM | 35 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Charlie Kirk isn't even charge of his hairline. We shan't be listening to him about anything.

26/8/2025, 8:55:52 PM | 1619 126 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Being married to a designer, you can bet I’ve heard many thoughts about this today.

26/8/2025, 5:10:52 AM | 277 11 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

We are creating a Spanish language section on The Rumpus, for original creative work written in Spanish and are looking for a volunteer editor for this section. If this could be you, please send a brief letter of interest to roxane@therumpus.net by Tuesday, September 2nd!

26/8/2025, 1:54:35 AM | 420 146 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Fascinating choice.

25/8/2025, 8:33:06 PM | 76 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

People reveal themselves in the most bizarre ways. The pride in having disdain for people who make the world livable. My god.

25/8/2025, 8:14:55 PM | 246 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

One of my nieces is auditioning for a school play today and asked Debbje and Into help her pick a monologue so we suggested the cerulean blue monologue from devil wears Prada. Last night she rehearsed for us and we gave notes and omg. She nailed it! I hope she gets the part!!!!

25/8/2025, 4:43:29 PM | 853 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Like, congratulations, Maggie. You're like, so much better than the rest of us!

25/8/2025, 2:26:33 AM | 595 10 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

The keeping track part, I’ve learned in recent years, is particularly challenging. One of my nieces loses everything. She can’t help it. Going no phone would thrill her I think.

25/8/2025, 12:12:05 AM | 45 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

But he does offer solutions. This is one event. It’s not his entire campaign. You don’t have to like or vote for him but pretending he hasn’t been very vocal about policy is complete BS.

25/8/2025, 12:02:45 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

LOL. This is not new behavior from this man but it’s very funny that drugs are great but lesbians are a bridge too far.

24/8/2025, 11:59:22 PM | 1291 129 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

We will see tomorrow. But don’t hold your breath.

24/8/2025, 11:51:09 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

You’re clearly cooler than the rest of us Maggie. Congrats? Like. What is your Purpose here?

24/8/2025, 11:49:07 PM | 180 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I encourage you to have this convo elsewhere. It matters but as I said originally this is just a space to enjoy something enjoyable. We aren’t ignoring reality we are sitting in one moment.

24/8/2025, 11:46:58 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Because it’s currently happening?

24/8/2025, 9:56:15 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I also wish establishment dems would take some notes! Stop listening to consultants and pollsters. Talk to constituents!

24/8/2025, 7:01:33 PM | 931 75 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

And it’s fine if you hate it or have some desperate need to be a Negative Nicholas. I shan’t partake of that. And perhaps you can do that elsewhere.

24/8/2025, 6:55:37 PM | 624 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

This scavenger hunt is so charming and smart and actively engaging. It gets New Yorkers out and about, exploring the city, talking to one another, taking advantage of public transportation and working toward a common cause. The levels! It’s just so great.

24/8/2025, 6:55:37 PM | 7948 890 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I like this 11-year old already!!!!

24/8/2025, 5:36:18 AM | 55 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Amazing what basic facts can do

23/8/2025, 11:11:28 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Truly. Just opining based on vibes.

23/8/2025, 10:53:37 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Sometimes when you see a professional troll talking nonsense, it can be… elucidating to look up their book sales.

23/8/2025, 8:45:11 PM | 605 41 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

*rent-stabilized.

23/8/2025, 8:35:03 PM | 186 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh! You’re a troll. Okay. Have a nice day.

23/8/2025, 8:34:43 PM | 12 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

You should maybe just focus on London if you don’t know enough about NY and the US. There is a lot you don’t see.

23/8/2025, 8:33:30 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Robert Cameron (@robertcameron.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Every military base in the USA has a government supermarket. They’re called commissaries. Soldiers love them.

23/8/2025, 8:31:41 PM | 310 32 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

London is one of the most expensive cities in the world. Please stop smoking crack.

23/8/2025, 8:31:23 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Who cares that it isn’t a great idea? At least it’s an idea that would help some people. It’s an idea that will evolve once implemented. It’s an idea that will work in conjunction with other community-oriented ideas. I really need all of us to step it up here.

23/8/2025, 8:26:51 PM | 299 13 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I don’t care. I think he is great and interesting and if the US can own 10% of Intel (!?!?), sure NYC can run a small number of grocery stores so people can buy affordable food. He lives in a rent-controlled apartment and everyone should be able to!

23/8/2025, 7:51:53 PM | 1487 123 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

*out in the world

23/8/2025, 7:43:19 PM | 58 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

This looks like all those video clips of 98 Degrees performing, present day. I would be mortified to have video like this out j. The world. They really don’t have any shame! None!

23/8/2025, 7:41:44 PM | 343 20 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Tressie McMillan Cottom (@tressiemcphd.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

You don’t need to send me a story about how it saved you an hour at work or helped you solve a math riddle or even self-diagnose a medical ailment. My thinking will be the same. That is nice and it is still not worth the societal costs.

23/8/2025, 7:05:47 PM | 1163 148 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks!

23/8/2025, 12:43:09 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

The absolute audacity of it.

23/8/2025, 12:42:24 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I honestly want to rescue the child. It’s so distressing.

23/8/2025, 12:10:05 AM | 36 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

A. Men.

22/8/2025, 11:47:45 PM | 83 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Wait until you hear about her Black daughter.

22/8/2025, 11:46:19 PM | 158 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I like the dynamic BUT the newbies are being disingenuous. They’ve had 26 seasons of the show. They know how it has been played. Why are they pretending they’re brand new???

22/8/2025, 11:41:59 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

What, exactly, are you trying to do here? I am curious.

22/8/2025, 11:30:08 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Don’t watch it if you don’t care for it. Entertainment is always optional. No one is forced to partake.

22/8/2025, 11:19:05 PM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

Ok

22/8/2025, 10:54:05 PM | 231 12 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I would love to watch it. Where could I find it?

22/8/2025, 9:30:46 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Lauren is impossible! She cannot make a decision. How is she still in the game? All that crying. My goodness.

22/8/2025, 9:21:45 PM | 65 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I haven’t watched yet. I will get on that!

22/8/2025, 8:17:51 PM | 17 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Clint Smith (@clintsmithiii.bsky.social) reposted

I debated writing this. It can feel tempting, upon encountering yet another instance of this administration’s racism, to let it be. How many ways can you say the same thing over and over again? And yet we have to write it down, if for nothing else, so those who come after us know we were against it.

22/8/2025, 4:20:14 PM | 3798 1453 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I love Amazing Race, Too Chef, and Survivor. I don’t understand the love island shows at all so I don’t watch them.

22/8/2025, 7:58:25 PM | 26 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh I do! And it's so weird to watch these children acting so put out when game things happen. It's not a summer tea party. GROW UP! Rachel deserves to win just for tolerating these people.

22/8/2025, 7:48:31 PM | 59 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

This season of Big Brother is just so ridiculous. Rachel, who is amazing, has to play this dumb game with toddlers (other than Will) who have no idea what they are doing.

22/8/2025, 7:43:20 PM | 336 25 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Sherrilyn Ifill (@sifill.bsky.social) reposted

The only thing I can say about this paragraph is read it. Sit with it. Read it again. @michaelharriot.bsky.social

22/8/2025, 4:20:08 AM | 8203 3173 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

So comfortable!

22/8/2025, 1:21:04 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

The way this just made me laugh.

22/8/2025, 1:20:19 AM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

So many of you are explaining to me that there is no hell like this is a catechism class. Like. Be less literal. The point here is so obvious.

21/8/2025, 6:49:09 PM | 558 7 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Ok yoda.

21/8/2025, 6:46:58 PM | 21 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

May James Dobson burn and rot below for all eternity. A cruel, venal man who caused grave harm with every breath he took.

21/8/2025, 5:39:58 PM | 3538 386 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I talk all things sartorial over at Big Undies, one of my favorite newsletters: bigundies.substack.com/p/at-my-big-...

20/8/2025, 10:31:35 PM | 617 53 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Protect your peace.

20/8/2025, 1:38:05 AM | 25 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

I find muting threads to work nicely.

19/8/2025, 11:59:20 PM | 35 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social) reply parent

Correct.

19/8/2025, 11:57:13 PM | 121 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Roxane Gay (@roxanegay.bsky.social)

I refuse to believe we are going to relitigate slavery. SLAVERY. It’s too much.

19/8/2025, 11:48:08 PM | 13693 2206 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Chanda Prescod-Weinstein 🌌 (@chanda.bsky.social) reposted

I read and appreciate every email I get from people who read The Disordered Cosmos and liked it! Thank you! Also while I’m here I might as well remind you all that preorders really help authors and my new book is available for preorders! www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/746817...

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