🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Right, I love B&W photos.
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Right, I love B&W photos.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Just today my dad got hit with two-factor authentication when he tried to log into my Prime account and that’s never happened before. It didn’t matter, I just sent him the code, but I figured it might be the first volley in a sharing crackdown.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
It so frustrating! At least in the 80s and 90s when people were freaking out about crime it actually was increasing. 🙄
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I took Gender Studies in college in 1992. 😂🤣
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Facts are woke. 🤷🏼🙄
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
😂🤢
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
This! 🤤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Mushroom leather? Count me in!
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
All but two of the Etsy stores I followed have vanished. 😕
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
David Bowie Sound + Vision tour second row of an open admission concert It’s one of my favorite memories and an experience I’m *very* glad I had as a teenager because I’d die if I tried that shit now. 😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Abso-fuckin-lutely! I want fiction to be escapist and inspirational, if I wanted realism I wouldn’t be reading fiction, and superheroes are one of my long time emotional support genres.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Fuck me. Thanks for the warning though.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
My fantasies regarding him are much worse, and more detailed. But I already know I’m a terrible person. 🤷🏼
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Wolverine Jubilee Rogue Nightcrawler Gambit
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
And just pay for things like insurance and legal protections the rest of us need a legal marriage contract to access.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Laughs in ‘I was around for the casting of Michael Keaton’. 👵🏻
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
*Drugs (use, dealing, trafficking) recreational and vigilante violence, drunk driving, street racing, shoplifting, B&E, trespassing, defacing public property, grand theft boat, and probably statutory rape…I’m telling you it was a different world back then.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I have friends who literally participated in crime* in the 80s/90s who are convinced that things are so much worse now despite also criticizing teenagers for always being on the computer. 👵🏻🙄
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I was obsessed when I was younger…I blame growing up in Seattle in the 80s and seeing serial killers on the news constantly…but it wasn’t literally everywhere back then and what I found was generally more academic and less sensationalized.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
There’s definitely an argument for that, though I think the argument for Boomers being the worst is still strong. 🫤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
I bought this book figuring it would be another in a very long list of interesting social sciences books I’d read over the years and nothing more. Instead I cried my way through long sections of it having never had anyone describe my experience of life so accurately.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
Individually or as a group? Because if the latter sports is clearly the answer simply by virtue of numbers. But if we’re judging by individuals, comics fans have a real shot at the top spot. 😒
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
That’s fair and nobody expects prescience. But every Boomer I know can reminisce about how there was more snow when they were kids one minute and flat out deny that global warming is happening the next.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Unfortunately few outside of the politically obsessed even heard that, let alone believed it. All the typical Republican voter heard was ‘MAGA…for me and not them’.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
That’s the same argument that’s used to prevent minorities from moving into ‘white’ neighborhoods. It may be accurate, but it only helps those who already live there while making things worse for everybody else.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Who, while better on social issues, were still part of the neoliberal project. Anybody telling Boomers they had to sacrifice *anything* lost big…even when it came to the literal future of the planet. 😕 Not that GenX has turned out much better, it just took us longer. 🫠
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
True, but the Boomers absolutely started the downhill slide with their enthusiastic embrace of Reagan and the neoliberal fantasy.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
And every Boomer I personally know seal clapped the whole damn time.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah, but my boomer parents (and their friends and relatives) didn’t object to any of that because anything that drives up *their* property values is good. 🙄
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Unfortunately this *is* what too many of them signed up for. All of the worst assholes from my high school went into the military…and half of them became cops after that. 😬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I’m jealous. 💜
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
We’re the generation who brags about how shitty our parents were…so of course we learned all the wrong things from that. 😐
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Seattle is a little obsessed with serial killers. It hearkens back to the 80s when there was one or another active in the area for most of the decade. I have vivid memories of Green River task force updates on the local news.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
And this will go just as well as uneducated jackasses who feed their young kids unhealthy vegan diets. I’m related to someone who did this in the 80s and nearly lost her kids because they were so malnourished. 🤬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Except Newsome would just let whatever Trump does continue because he actively dislikes homeless and trans people so he won’t ‘waste’ any time or energy or political capital on our survival.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
People like her are allergic to nuance. 🫤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
It took longer into our lives for us to shift conservative than it did for the Boomers…but damn it’s been a vicious swing. 🫤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
The one that sent me was the month I got constant ads for a traveling ‘revival ministry’ on all of my aggressively atheistic podcasts. 🤨😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I came here to say this but I knew I was too late. 😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Right up until that database is inevitably breached - because there’s no incentive for those ID companies to spend money on security - and everybody’s info is out there on the open net.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I was raised around 1970s nudists and it was no big deal. The only consequence was that I knew real bodies are universally funny looking and judged myself less harshly as a teen. Nudity is not inherently sexual.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Pre internet anybody you met could give you any name they wanted IRL and you had no way of knowing if they lied or tracking them down…not to mention how common nicknames were. So why does everybody suddenly feel entitled to everybody else’s legal ID now?
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
Today? Mini Thins! 🤧
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
The Original Grimms’ Fairy Tales. I found the book on my grandparents’ shelf when I was 6 or 7 and it ruined the Disney animated versions. 😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I have limited experience with chickens, but what I do have tells me that there is no way to change their little poultry minds about *anything* so you might as well go with the flow. 😂
toilet bones (@toiletbones.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
for my specific style of Totally Normal Brain, a person acting weirdly fawning and inexplicably congratulatory like an llm would make me immediately skeptical of anything they say, so llms emulating that behavior as an intentional design choice is like wow i fucking hate this.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
I’m pretty sure that this is the first sci-fi (as opposed to fantasy) I ever read. I think I read it the year it was published, which would mean I was 7 or 8.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Amen! 😬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Privledged gay men have always assumed their money would protect them from legal fallout. And unfortunately they’re right.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
My father taught me this when he was teaching me how to drive. Now he gets pissed off that I don’t speed. 😂🤣
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
🫂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
Legend Ridiculously 80s but still some of the best classical fantasy visuals I’ve ever seen on film. Plus Tim Curry playing the devil.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I’ve had good results recommending Discworld, The Belgariad, and Dragonlance to tweens who are already avid readers…though they’ll all need to re-read Prachett in a few years to truly appreciate his genius.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I like this idea in theory but giving up control of a vehicle I’m legally responsible for is unnerving and I have questions regarding implementation and security.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
🤮
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Marion Zimmer Bradley. And yes, attempting to normalize pedophilia is a political stance. In fact during the post war era it was all wrapped up with mostly good philosophies preaching freedom and self determination. 😬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I’ve avoided getting t-boned twice by slamming the gas and getting through the intersection in time to avoid a stop sign running asshole…but that was out in the boonies, not somewhere highly trafficked where this kind of speed limitation would make the most sense.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Have you considered that escapism and nihilism are normal reactions to the fact that we’ve chosen to both literally and figuratively set their futures on fire? 🫠
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
If we want more people out of cars we need as many other options as possible for those who have physical or environmental limitations. 🤷🏼
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I’m spending much less time on all social media than I was before 1/20/25 and I’m far from the only one. There’s only so much bad news I can handle in a given day. 🫣🤬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I’m sure much similar research is already being done other places, but the projects that US researchers have been doing can’t continue without permission from the organizations that were doing them…so we’re losing years at least. And then there’s the question of money.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah, that’s because Fox News thinks queer people deserve whatever abuse we are subjected to. 🤬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
When I first heard that song my only touchstones for Bette Davis were Return from Witch Mountain and The Watcher in the Woods…and you better believe I had the wrong impression about it. 😂🤣
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
First thought: ‘Damn, I wish reading made *my* tits smaller.’ 😂🙄
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
How likely it is to contain potato. 😁
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
If they made one of those for me it would smell like a 1994 7-Eleven (cigarettes, overcooked hot dogs, rancid cheese sauce, cheap coffee, soda syrup) because it was working graveyards at one that got me hooked on Coast to Coast. 😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Same. 🫤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Nothing’s perfect. But my issues with streaming go beyond environmental issues and into how it has affected culture…and I can’t boil all of that down into a reasonable number of skeets.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh no, it was alive and well in the 80s. It was more specifically a bar scene back then, where you’d go to places known for that if it’s was what you were looking for, but it was a lively one.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Ridiculous song…but it did really capture the ‘one night stand’ culture of the era.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
😂🤣
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I’d be thrilled if streaming ceased to exist…but at least Netflix provides the service it claims to and isn’t being literally forced on people in a vain attempt to make it profitable.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Unfortunately at that point there’s going to be much bigger problems and there’s not going to be enough money to rebuild things like this. 😕
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Human well being includes clean drinking water and the ability to discern truth from lies…both of which AI is destroying.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social)
This was, inevitably, under a story about gaming as a girl…but damn if it doesn’t put something into good words that I’ve been flailing at for years.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Except there could be shootings and bombings…they just wouldn’t be in the news because nobody would be allowed to talk about them without ending up in prison. 🙄
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
As somebody who experienced it as ritual humiliation when I was a student…thank you for saying that from an instructors perspective.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Yikes! 😬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I have serious food limitations (celiac, allergies to legumes and nightshades) and I can’t afford the kinds of places it might be safe for me to eat…so I just don’t go out. It’s frustrating and isolating, but I would never dream of bringing my own food to a restaurant.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Being a non-math autistic can be very annoying, what with the STEM genius stereotype and all. 🫤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Seattle’s reputation for rain is based on number of days per year it rains, not volume.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
This has been a pattern since Reagan. They promise things that are literally impossible, deflect when it doesn’t happen, then double down. But Trump has taken this pattern to new lows.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I know it’s not a bad thing that kids these days would faint if they encountered 1994 Cap Hill…it means violence isn’t as normalized…but I can’t help but have a kneejerk ‘back in my day’ response to this shit. 👵🏻
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
The queer community did regarding Reagan.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Of the hits…Free Fallin’ Obscure…Zombie Zoo (I was a 90s goth so I found this one hilarious at the time and highly nostalgic now)
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Absolutely. And everybody I’ve ever met from the 501st has been great. But that’s what I mean by complicated…sometimes it’s cool and sometimes it’s really not and you can only judge by getting to know someone.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Probably won’t be much longer now that it’s brought attention to itself by being useful. 🫤
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
A decent simplification is ‘something that could not be made in a home kitchen using whole ingredients’.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
There is a certain degree of idolization of villains that I consider a red flag…but it’s way more complicated than simply enjoying/creating media or playing an evil character in an RPG.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
You are not the only one.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Not officially.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
I was *obsessed* with those books when I was in high school and this made me literally LOL. 😂
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Lifelong resident of Western Washington here and those buggers still freak me the hell out! 🫣😬
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Expecting people who have no experience with this kind of situation to effectively intervene is ridiculous. Your average person will panic and either freeze or flee.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
But leaded gasoline smelled so good! 🤪 Yes, I am one of those GenX kids who would roll down the window at the gas station but I’m not one who says ‘I turned out fine’ because I clearly didn’t.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Sadly she’s probably legally correct and it’s Acosta’s fault.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Sorry, but what’s going on right now is really triggering for those of us who live with religious trauma and sometimes we don’t handle it well. But ‘not all Christians’ is no different from ‘not all men’…inarguably true but mostly used to try to silence abuse survivors.
🏳️🌈TamLyn12🏳️🌈 (@tamlyn12.bsky.social) reply parent
Unfortunately she’s got a legitimate point…and Acosta (or whoever was pulling his strings) is who’s to blame for this one.