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Holy shit!
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Holy shit!
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I won’t check them out from the library either!
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I am being threatened with a good time!
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Many nurses exposed themselves as crackpots during the worst of the COVID pandemic. So this surprises me.
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Anyone else planned for the disposal of their remains? I'm working on it. I want my ashes interred at Hollywood Forever and it's not as much $ as I thought for a niche. I need to visit and pick a location. They have a lot of choices!
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Are they driving him around the block a few times now, like they did when he had COVID?
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He’ll tell us all about it in his new book when it comes out in four years.
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Welcome to San Diego!
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Charles Munger Jr
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I’m in San Diego and I noticed a bunch of huge American flags at half staff at a couple of the car dealerships. Then I realized they were for that crook Randy Duke Cunningham. Note to self: don’t ever buy a car from those particular dealerships!
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Just like LA during Coachella!
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I know this is real, but it’s so weird! “Here’s the press release about my car accident, but since we’re here, let me tell you about the great deed I did prior to getting in said accident!”
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There are only consequences if you or I lie to the judge. Drew Ensign can lie to a judge on behalf of DHS everyday and it's fine!
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"The lens you choose." Did I choose PTSD and to live a life controlled by trauma? I spent my 30s in therapy trying to fix myself, only to have it essentially do nothing. Did I choose that? The idea that there is CHOICE in play is insulting.
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Most of these children don’t have reliable guardians to be reunited with.
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How REFRESHING to read about someone suffering a medical error during cancer treatment (among other omissions)! I have a responsibility as a cancer survivor to repeat until I am dead that many of us are harmed, to an irreparable degree, by mistakes & carelessness. It's not a fairy tale! #CanSky
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Don't know how to defeat a paywall or just making a bad joke at someone else's expense?
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This freak show is another reason to keep abortion legal.
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Sporadic update on the books I’m reading. I had been reading “No More Tears,” an encyclopedic accounting of the evil that is Johnson & Johnson. I had to dip out because it was triggering my medical trauma. Now I’m reading, “Yoko: A Biography.” It is illuminating and much more enjoyable.
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Many of those Ivy Leaguers are always looking for new ways to cheat and cut corners, so I’m not surprised they may be the ones who love AI the most.
Haymarket Books (@haymarketbooks.org) reposted
Remembering Fred Hampton born Aug. 30, 1948, assassinated Dec. 4, 1969 by Chicago police and the FBI
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The fact they’ve all lived for so long speaks to two things: they don’t do that much work and they have the best healthcare money can buy in this country.
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Shamone!
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It’s kind of insane people are asking you that. This picture has been making the rounds for a decade!
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2011 was long ago!
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Lazarus
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I tend to agree with you. I remember when he had COVID, a long, long time ago!
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I cried when I read this article. American Experience is a great series.
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Womp womp
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I lived in Sacramento for three years. I felt three earthquakes. Maybe she felt the same three? All I know is it’s not at a serious risk of experiencing severe shaking, but it’s not immune. I’m not an engineer or geologist. Just a native Californian and a nerd.
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Prediction: Vance is going to be fired as VP. Maybe not tomorrow, but soon.
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I thought this con artist died years ago. Another one of North County's fine congressional representatives!
ProPublica (@propublica.org) reposted
NEW: More than two decades after victims and families of the 9/11 attacks began trying to hold the Saudi government responsible for aiding the Qaida terrorists who carried out the plot, a judge has ruled that a lawsuit against the kingdom can go to trial.
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“Loose Republicans?” if you’re shooting your mouth off on the Internet and you can’t spell lose vs. loose correctly, you’re not credible. The distinction is elementary school level English.
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He’s turning into a carrot before our very eyes.
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Charles Munger Jr is funding those. I’m getting them too.
Ian Boudreau (@ianboudreau.com) reposted
Are vaccines safe? Let's ask this guy who sounds like a dying refrigerator compressor
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I swear to god until just new I thought Patricia Lockwood was an old lady with a gray bun.
Manny Ramos (@mannyramos.bsky.social) reposted
There is a lot going on in the world, but I am popping back in this space to share a yearlong investigation we published today about a hospital on Chicago's Northwest Side that some call the "Death Hospital." Here's why: blockclubchicago.org/2025/08/27/s...
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Doing my physical therapy exercises, cha cha cha! Patient harm is fun! I get countless appointments, imaging studies, and now physical therapy. While UCSD suffers no consequences .
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I use Google Scholar to conduct literature reviews on my cancer every six months. Classic papillary thyroid but with an asterisk: I still have detectable levels of a possible surrogate tumor marker after surgery/radiation, but no evidence of macro disease. What that means is TBD. #CanSky
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Nooooooooo
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Idiotic and impaired.
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So should we try to get the last booster again? It’s obvious this is where this has been headed! Other vaccines will follow.
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Quite a few of us survived being low income throughout middle and high school without a phone since they didn’t exist.
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He was great in Rescue Me and as Shirley MacLaine’s love interest in “In Her Shoes!” Really enjoyed his work.
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For the first time in three months, I had no pain in my idiot doctor injured left arm yesterday. A tiny, so tiny, little victory. Because today it hurts again.
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Me too! I once drove that late at night coming back to LA from Joshua Tree and my grip on the wheel was TIGHT! It was even more nerve wracking in the dark.
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That's also the really windy part of the 60/10 where people always crash on those tight curves....yikes!
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No one's been a bigger ally to anti-women, pro birth legislation in red states than coward physicians, so I am a little surprised to see this.
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A few of these wars undoubtedly took place in the McDonald's drive thru.
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"Purchased from Michaels and spray painted out back."
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I watched "Fit for TV," the doc about The Biggest Loser. I thought it was weaksauce. Maybe they are in fear of legal action. I'd like to see another streaming service make a doc about this show too. Question: why do the Dr. & the producer look embalmed? Is it Botox? The Dr. always had that look!
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Yes. It's a reflection of the sad state of the party.
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I call Gavin the GILF for a reason. He's hella problematic but his socials have been amusing this week. I appreciate the chuckle when everything sucks.
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Tom had the right idea though! I bet he is cool as shit. He sold it, took the money, and went home to live a quiet life.
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I start physical therapy on Monday for my IV-injured arm. It took me almost 3 months from the day it happened to get a proper evaluation. I've had 2 ultrasounds, 1 CT scan, 1 ortho appointment, & EMG is pending. UCSD weaponized my PTSD & labeled me "overly sensitive." So I had to switch med groups.
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Or therapy! I had 4 therapists in my 30s. They looked at me like I had 3 heads once I told them The Story! They had NO IDEA how to help me & likely didn't believe me. CBT didn't cut it, but other modalities like EMDR don't take insurance.
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Clearly I need a start my own newsletter. Anyway, it's so wild when I read about medical trauma & there's talk of a support system. Not one person can handle that convo! I melted down on the phone with my BFF last week & I never do that. Haven't heard a word from her since, which is unusual.
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The surgeon says I need to my gallbladder removed imminently because a gallstone is stuck in the gallbladder neck. I reviewed my medical records. There’s been a gallstone stuck in my gallbladder neck since at least 2015. I’ve been fine. I can’t lose any more pieces of myself to medical trauma.
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I guess those balls weren't as big as he thought.
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I’ve never thought about it in depth, believe it or not! I might have to look it up now. See if there’s any info out there. But ADHD makes sense.
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Yes, I do this! I’ve done it since I was a kid. Do we know what it means?
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My point, is that both times when I have been injured getting healthcare in San Diego, in April 2008 and last May, I was just under 200 pounds. Obese on the pointless BMI and apparently subhuman to medical professionals. 6/6 #medsky
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This is a mistake that could be fatal or disabling! Is it a judgement made based on my weight or BMI? Probably! I previously under-ate so I'd be 30 lbs thinner than I am now. I was so committed to it because I was treated well by doctors when thinner & felt my life depended on that. 5/
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I finally have been diagnosed with cubital tunnel syndrome, after diagnosing myself with it 6 weeks ago. I now need physical therapy. The gallbladder is in danger of becoming an emergency. The surgeon seemed okay but then I found a major mistake: pre-op instructions said I have diabetes. Nope! 4/
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I was 28 years old. I had nightmares weekly for more than a year. I've (mostly) been able to get health care since I lived elsewhere. But this is too much, especially coming on the heels of UCSD's gaslighting & weaponizing of this trauma to try to discredit my arm injury. 3/
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I experience Scripps Green as an existential threat. I fear they will kill me. Why not? Consequences don't exist! They told 4 different stories about what happened, including blaming me, "no one remembers." Didn't document their failures in my med record, didn't refer me for trauma counseling. 2/
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It's incredible to watch one mistake cascade into many problems. Moved back to SD-->Arm injured by UCSD Health/denied me care for it-->Return to Scripps for help/w arm -->Need gallbladder removed ASAP but it will be done at hospital that botched my anesthesia when I had cancer surgery 17 yrs ago. 1/
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Man oh man I just had to go to the health care facility where I was sexually assaulted & endured medical error 17 years ago. Hadn't been inside in 15 years. Surgeon told me what I already know: that waiting for this to become an emergency will be much worse for me psychologically.
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I'm so tired of the tools of patriarchy and gender-based violence.
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Good. 300 square foot ADUs that cost $3K/month are not affordable housing. What is a "Chalcifica?"
Meg Pillow (@megpillow.bsky.social) reposted
My essay is up at @literaryhub.bsky.social about the late, great Lana Clarkson and other promising young women whose lives have been derailed or destroyed by men. It’s also about my childhood sexual abuse and how I have tried, and failed, to reckon with it. lithub.com/on-promising...
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What’s with the big booty air sketch?
Flying Mezerkis (@bananapantz.bsky.social) reposted
We should eliminate the male vote until we can figure out why men are so emotional and easily fooled by this con man.
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GenX here. I was in GATE in the 1980s. Chronically unemployed father who was illiterate and mom in a clerical job. I was bullied out of the program in 4th grade by the teacher and other kids. Tried again in 6th. Same result!
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If you're dead in the morgue because your physicians fucked up and you were afraid to question them, they still get to go home at night. There will be no consequences for them. They don't care about you, no matter how "nice" they are. It's a business transaction: fee for service. Treat it like one.
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If you're dead in the morgue because your physicians fucked up and you were afraid to question them, they still get to go home at night. There will be no consequences for them. They don't care about you, no matter how "nice" they are. It's a business transaction: fee for service. Treat it like one.
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Railroad Daddy!!!!!!!!!
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How hard did you look? It was reported in every major San Diego media outlet.
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This has nothing to do with the Bay Area, but thanks for telling us why you’d never live there?
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This is in San Diego. These are residents of Mission Hills protesting a proposed 14 story apartment building nearby. It was widely reported in all of the local media outlets.
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Welcome to San Diego!
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The woman is done. She is done. She is done. She is done.
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Isn’t this the crusade of that Asian kid and his dad who worked for Google who are aggrieved that he didn’t get into any top schools?
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Epic/MyChart is sitting on the motherload. I imagine they'll upload it & patients will have no say. There's also public health tools like the California Cancer Registry, which anyone who's had cancer is on. I doubt MAHA thinks well of young people who've had cancer, since they love eugenics.
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“Is this really a good time to sign a new one year lease?” I ask myself this everyday.
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I thought he was dunzo. Yet here he is, hitting the Ozempic and shooting his mouth off.
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"Unindicted Sex Offender #1"
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As I continue to get my IV injured arm evaluated, I am encountering more systemic barriers. This week, I've been referred to the wrong office twice by my PCP's office. That's another step where I have to send a message and tell them the right place. The incompetence has to be on purpose, right?
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Jamming five story low rises on random lots in North Park hasn’t really paid off, has it? Except for the developers, of course. Let’s start dropping the same low rises on random lots in University City and see how it goes. If it’s good enough for North Park, it’s good enough for University City.
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If Mossad is as good as we’ve always been told they are, then they knew all about it for a long time.
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A mysterious orange shape? Huh. Sounds like a convicted felon we all know of.
Prof. Diego Melgar (@diegosismologo.bsky.social) reposted reply parent
In 2004, it took many, many days to produce detailed tsunami models after the devastating Sumatra earthquake. Last night? Slip models were being produced and shared within hours. That’s federally funded science in action.
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My MAGA-pilled neighbor just excitedly told me EVERYTHING is coming out about Epstein because his niece is going to tell all. Since she's protected by the Green Berets now, she feels safe enough to come forward.
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Update: she also ordered an EMG but referred me to the wrong clinic. I called the number on the referral and they said, "We don't do that here." The incompetence is staggering. I am exhausted. That's another message sent, another wall I am banging my head against.
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I'm going to lose my ever-loving mind. My new provider ordered THE SAME VASCULAR ULTRASOUND I JUST HAD!!!!!! I sent her a message and asked, what are we doing here? ITS NOT A BLOOD CLOT. ITS NERVE DAMAGE. I SELF DIAGNOSED SIX MONTHS AGO!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD