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New Savage Love Quickies column up now at Savage.love!
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.advocate.com/news/owner-v...
This week on the pod! A man's 80-year-old father is getting scammed by a findom! And, is it a consent violation to walk around town with come on your face? On the Magnum, a concerned mom wonders how to steer her teenagers toward ethical porn. We bring on Erika Lust to discuss! buff.ly/sBJf8Fe
ITMFA — Is The Mother Fucker Alive, @dansavage.bsky.social ?
You guys see where this is going? Right?
Not the obituary I wanted to ready today. www.nytimes.com/2025/08/27/d...
I appreciate being brought in! Just interviewed a lovely person with a sneezing kink. Haven't talked with a burb kinkster — but makes sense. Anything that makes a person lose control of their body, even momentarily, is going to become a kink for some. We are a kink-seeking species.
You in the witness protection program with Rahm now?
Read it and weep. www.theatlantic.com/politics/arc...
She and Dan chat about cowardly politicians, sex-positivity, and share a little advice column trick. Also, what exactly do gay men DO with vibrators? Listen at buff.ly/OES0hxA or wherever you get podcasts!
All Hail E. Jean Carroll! We are thrilled and honored to welcome E. Jean Carroll to the show. Meet the woman who beat Donald Trump twice and faced her ordeal with courage and humor.
Would've preferred to read this one on July 3, 1981.
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2025/08/21/u...
I had a great time talking to Dan about The Payback, dystopian novels generally, fashion, the student debt crisis, and of course, setting boundaries in kink.
As a fellow nipple shadow caster, wondering why @dansavage.bsky.social told us on The Lovecast which episode to watch the alleged dissapointing pegging scene but not the timestamp(s?) of said nipple shadows being cast so that I don’t have to actually watch the Hunter Wives. 👀🧐🤭
New ep! How to be a convincing Dom when you don't look like one. A newly out pan man is ready to dive into gay culture. But he isn't quite ready to shave his pubes! Does he have to? On the Magnum, Dan chats with the writer of The Survivalists and The Payback—Kashana Cauley. Listen at buff.ly/JvFnqRd
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2025/08/17/m...
Imagine if they’d had sandwiches. 🥪
Like @dansavage.bsky.social often says, if clowns raped kids as often as Christians do, circuses would be illegal.
here's today's post: "Gavin Newsom, fuck yeah" — California’s Governor is through playing games. thanks for reading, and please sign up for my daily newsletter so you never miss a post —
While I have plenty of beef with other stuff Newsom has done, this is exactly what we need right now
Still true after all these years.
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/d...
And Dan chats with Mexican queer artist/writer Leo Herrera about gay-only spaces, AI porn, and sex robots. Subscribe for the full interview at buff.ly/nxySm9Q
This week on the pod! He's had three wives and three vasectomies—let's discuss. Hear the heart-warming tale of how a woman spiced up her sex life by creating an OnlyFans account for only one fan: her husband. Listen now at buff.ly/GVPCYW9
Pigs. And each other.
First, there's a pegging scene that everyone tells me I have to see. And second, men with nipples that cast shadows are underrepresented in film and television and I think representation is important and so I will keep watching.
The show is terrible but I’m going to keep watching it for two reasons.
This is why it's important to have someone in the writers' room who was actually closeted at some point in their lives. I didn't get caught sucking dick when I was closeted because I was very careful not to suck dick where I might get caught.
I mean, if I didn't want anyone to know I was eating pussy I wouldn't eat pussy in front of my huge picture window where I could be seen eating pussy by anyone who happened to drive by or by anyone who happened to look out the picture window of their own McMansion on cul-de-sac where I live.
Watching Hunting Wives and all I have to say is... never have so many people with something to hide insisted on doing that very something in front of enormous picture windows.
Hunting Wives
I wrote about my conversation with Andry, John McCain's tribute to Bud Lee, unimaginable grace in contrast with the pettiest grievances, and learning about character from those who have been tormented. "Can We Ever Repair This Moral Rot" www.thebulwark.com/p/can-we-eve...
Once again I successfully slipped past @dansavage.bsky.social's security and barged onto his Savage LoveCast! Listen to me rant and rave about vibrators and cup holders for masturbation sleeves on this week's episode: savage.love/lovecast/202...
New Savage Love Quickies column up now — 20 snappy questions, 20 snappy answers! savage.love/savagelove/2...
New episode out now! A woman grapples with the ethics of financial domination. An After-Action Report to curl your toes. And on the Magnum, we welcome Erika Moen, the cartoonist behind Oh Joy Sex Toy, to help a woman choose a new vibrator after her dog ate the old one. buff.ly/fmSjYEH
A few times this year I’ve remembered @dansavage.bsky.social ’s Urban Archipelago, which liberals broadly hated at the time. We are all now begging for this level of fight. www.thestranger.com/news/2004/11...
She was my last crush on a girl.
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2025/08/03/a...
"Austin rents have fallen for nearly two years." www.texastribune.org/2025/01/22/a...
Exactly the wrong thing to do — as we've seen in CA, housing has to be crammed down the throats of "local leaders." They have too much power, not too little.
We've been running this "hey, let's make it nearly impossible to build new housing" experiment for decades and the results are in: Barring housing construction is to the left what tax cuts are to the right: a policy that hasn't worked and will never work but they keep pushing regardless.
If not building new housing prevented gentrification and kept housing prices down... SF would be least gentrified city with the lowest average rents in the country.
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nytimes.com/2025/07/31/w...
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For the record: I am not the Daniel whose spaniel has it now.
In more honor of the late, great Tom Lehrer. I got the idea from YouTuber @honest2betsy.bsky.social who, I presume, got it from Agnes.
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Melissa Febos, bestselling author of "The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex." Subscribe for access to the full interview at savage.love/subscribe
While tidying up after some AirBnB guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he offer to send it back? And, a woman called the show a year ago, and Dan told her to break up with her bf. She didn't listen. Should she tell him about it? Listen now! buff.ly/KLDaDnN
“Remember why the good lord made your eyes, so don’t shade your eyes, but plagiarize! Plagiarize! Plagiarize!”
Wernher Von Braun, Gustav Mahler, Alma Mahler-Werfel, the Elements, Hubert Humphrey, George Murphy, Oedipus Rex, Lena Horne, Vatican Two, Sexually-Transmitted Infections and masochism — just a few things I learned about obsessively listening to Tom Leher albums starting when I was 10.
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.bbc.com/news/article...
The crazy thing is... sometimes it does.
True of all relationships, open and closed. We don't ban monogamous relationships because some people have been hurt in them.
Seems to me poly is one way to fight displacement.
It’s often people who can’t make one relationship work that have strongest opinions about people who can make more than one work. Also: What?
I'll have what he's having.
Maybe Andrew Callaghan is the "Joe Rogan of the left" that the left has been looking for? www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv...
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcn...
And, a mother wonders if there are dildos designed for trans men that won't induce dysphoria. Listen now at buff.ly/Y87TfEW or wherever you get podcasts!
New episode out! A couple are into CNC scenarios. But when he asked her to drug him, have her way with him and share him with her friends, it gave her pause. On the Magnum, hear from @arielledomb.bsky.social, the writer who spent the evening in a Berlin sex doll hotel with "Techno Babe."
Not the obituary I wanted to read today. variety.com/2025/music/o...
And, after her husband's car accident that left him using a wheelchair, a woman agonizes over how to bring sex back into their life. Dan enlists queer disabilities rights activist Andrew Gurza to advise, plus the Funny Dom returns! Listen now at buff.ly/EucmIpJ
On this week’s Savage Lovecast- An accidental pregnancy: a woman might have to hide her abortion from her own damn husband. Accidental kink misbehavior: hear two different tales of consent violations. (Do better, please.)
Hearing that means so much to me. Thank you.
I will take it.
Test puts hair on your chest, T puts teeth out of your mouth.
Every time I read this... "The Democratic Party lost ground in the 2024 election among almost all demographic groups — white people, Black people, Latinos, the young, rural and exurban voters..." I wanna repost this: www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-...
And on the Magnum, our guest is Jena Martin of the "Memory Hole" podcast. She is on to talk about the resurgent myth of repressed memories. Listen now at buff.ly/6a2GoCx
New ep! A woman wishes she could flick her tongue like her partner can. But she cannot! A Grindr user wonders, does "T" stand for "Tina" (meth) or "testosterone?" And, if a woman in her 40s hasn't been sexual with a lady since her wild college days, and really likes dick, can she call herself queer?
This is also true.
Senate seats can’t be gerrymandered.
I hear you. But you can’t gerrymander a Senate seat.
And voters in Texas will keep sending him back to the Senate. www.joemygod.com/2025/07/cruz...
Love this.
There’s just one I’m looking forward to. Just the one. But this one will tide me over.
2025 feels like being awake during surgery
This is why it’s ok to compare you to nazis btw
The entire Latino population in the U.S. is 65 million. She means all of us.
Where is he? If we stop asking, stop demanding his return, we are complicit in his disappearance.
There are PUDs in this show? I'm gonna have to watch.
Nope — but it’ll tide me over.
And on the Magnum, welcome to the world of competitive masturbation. Meet Colby Jaxxx, a professional gooner and winner of s2 of The Great BateWorld BateOff™! Colby talks to us about this niche gig, poppers, dating another gooner, and the presence of "girlie gooners." Subscribe at buff.ly/BjoMx4b
On this week’s Savage Lovecast, Dan is joined by Ask A Sub's podcast host Lina Dune to help a kinky new mom navigate toddler questions like, “Why isn't daddy allowed to sit on the couch?” Listen now at buff.ly/NrXiZZO
Not the obituary I wanted to ready today... but it'll have to do. www.nola.com/baton_rouge/...
I intend to rage gracefully.
Tribunal: "'I find it was in the public interest for the respondent to share the applicant’s images with her employer,' the decision reads."
Any lawyers out there wanna tell me whether this exception — it's not revenge porn if your ex sends dirty pics you took at work to your employer (in the hopes of getting you fired) — would be made under US revenge porn statutes? This seems, frankly, nuts. www.ctvnews.ca/vancouver/ar...
Not the obituary the Star Tribune wanted me read today.
Please leave me out of this.
American LGBT people need take notes. www.joemygod.com/2025/06/live...
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Just saw 28 Years Later after avoiding the reviews… and… um… don’t wanna spoil it for anyone else. So, I’ll say… that image of a purified England… was something. Purified by what of what… yeah. Um. Yeah.
I'm going to try and communicate with my Republican colleagues in a new way.
