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@jessicabess.bsky.social

middle-aged-momcore. very california.

created October 18, 2023

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Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Why does Thiel have to take his self-hatred out on the rest of us?

2/9/2025, 8:16:52 PM | 9 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

May I join you? I'll bring books.

2/9/2025, 8:15:01 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Ariel Edwards-Levy (@aedwardslevy.bsky.social) reposted

somewhere in iowa, an erstwhile senate challenger is sadly folding up their "IMPORTANCE OF BEATING ERNST" campaign shirts

2/9/2025, 7:36:58 PM | 181 13 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture PavelšŸ€ (@spavel.bsky.social) reposted

I love that the 2 responses to this, in roughly equal proportion, are: - what this describes isn't actually sabotage - it is good that people are sabotaging AI and they should actually be doing it even harder

2/9/2025, 5:54:10 PM | 33 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture mtsw (@mtsw.bsky.social) reposted

we would probably have more kids in my family if it were possible to buy a 3BR condo or townhouse in my city for less than a million bucks. also we paid $50k to have two kids in daycare last year

2/9/2025, 4:18:51 PM | 281 19 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Hey, thanks for the pertinent example!

2/9/2025, 5:19:30 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Still can’t do a pull up and I hate group exercise

2/9/2025, 2:43:26 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I will say no one who I might have respected ever yelled at me in the old place. Here I’ve been attacked a couple of times by party line Dems for having criticisms of Democrats in leadership. It’s pretty annoying and it’s not going to win hearts and minds.

2/9/2025, 2:34:54 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I ran into David on the street recently and he told me how great you are so maybe that’s something?

2/9/2025, 2:24:31 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Democratic cities to be redeveloped as golf courses

2/9/2025, 3:28:52 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

A classic episode!

2/9/2025, 3:26:26 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Would make a great Monk setting too.

2/9/2025, 2:04:35 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Greg Pak (@gregpak.net) reposted

Also a pretty fair guess that someone who talks about "the West" and any threats to it is a big racist.

2/9/2025, 1:58:53 AM | 300 42 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Find the River

2/9/2025, 12:38:36 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Bobby Big Wheel (@kleinman.bsky.social) reposted

Wishing all the parents out there good luck on their new class WhatsApp chats

2/9/2025, 12:30:14 AM | 161 13 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

That was an excellent book - still very relevant.

2/9/2025, 12:34:31 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I’m not surprised it has blown up. They are advertising the heck out of it.

1/9/2025, 4:07:27 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Brendan Nyhan (@brendannyhan.bsky.social) reposted

Children with brain cancer

30/8/2025, 3:46:02 PM | 770 323 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Chanda Prescod-Weinstein 🌌 (@chanda.bsky.social) reposted

That’s two reported ChatGPT suicides in one week, plus the grandpa who died trying to meet Meta’s chatbot which had arranged an in-person meeting All going really well

29/8/2025, 2:36:33 AM | 1776 664 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

This is important.

28/8/2025, 10:58:59 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Max Kennerly (@maxkennerly.bsky.social) reposted

From a Constitutional standpoint, Vance's claim is *far more radical* than, say, expanding SCOTUS, gun control, or a wealth tax. Under Art I § 8, coining/borrowing money has always been up to Congress, not POTUS, and Congress set up the Fed to run the way it does. Vance wants all of that scrapped.

28/8/2025, 10:37:48 PM | 568 162 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Run for Something (@runforsomething.net) reposted

Another community mourns due to America’s gun crisis. Kids deserve safety not fear. We need leaders who will act. Leaders who will pass common-sense gun laws, protect our schools, and put people over politics. The leaders who got us here won’t get us out. Change can’t wait.

28/8/2025, 8:38:50 PM | 31 11 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Definitely a DILF

28/8/2025, 6:26:28 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture post malone ergo propter malone (@proptermalone.bsky.social) reposted

I’m gonna just say it straight out, the women of my personal experience have not been MAGAized by either marriage or especially motherhood; the opposite, if anything

28/8/2025, 4:12:19 PM | 517 32 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

the ft in it's clickbait era

28/8/2025, 6:22:46 PM | 16 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

okay but putting aligning the text so it sits on the lines doesn't have to be a spectrum this is not the extra headache i need

28/8/2025, 6:17:44 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

It pays less.

28/8/2025, 6:16:45 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

What are the other four?

28/8/2025, 6:15:03 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I think we should start talking about all gun crime, but especially school shootings, as Trumps murders.

28/8/2025, 2:59:05 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Thank you! I get attacked on here from D dems who think we should t be critical of how the party does business. Or fails to do it.

28/8/2025, 2:34:02 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

ā€œYou gotta be a human about thisā€ is spot on.

28/8/2025, 2:32:39 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Gregg Gonsalves (@gregggonsalves.bsky.social) reposted

#NIH is hanging by a thread. The #CDC has been decimated. #RFK Jr. and Russell #Vought are psychopaths--I don't say this frivolously--they are cold, calculating, inflicting violence on millions through public policy. It is where we are right now. These men are not normal. 1/

28/8/2025, 9:55:52 AM | 6546 2575 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Gregg Gonsalves (@gregggonsalves.bsky.social) reposted

All together now: DUMP RFK Jr.

28/8/2025, 12:54:40 AM | 1259 267 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Can someone explain wtf a mitochondrial challenge is? Are they fighting with the other organelles?

28/8/2025, 2:03:19 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

YouTube is a cesspit.

28/8/2025, 1:54:56 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Does he see kids who are worried about being shot at school?

28/8/2025, 12:38:15 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I kinda can’t wait

27/8/2025, 9:21:23 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

There was an Elizabeth Gilbert thing?

27/8/2025, 9:04:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

The guy barely cared when someone shot at him!

27/8/2025, 6:24:40 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

It was nice when the grandparents could send birthday and holiday gifts.

27/8/2025, 6:15:45 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

"Democrats at least understand that the internet exists now" is the quote of the week.

27/8/2025, 6:13:59 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Less than none.

27/8/2025, 6:11:40 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Julia Carrie Wong (@joolia.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

an appropriate response to your product killing a child after months of psychological manipulation and torture is to take the product off the market before it kills again and the fact that this isn’t universally accepted right now is incredibly frightening

27/8/2025, 1:39:57 AM | 8064 1871 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

The fun thing about being middle aged is that sometimes when I put my night guard in I make pouty faces at myself to imagine what I’d look like with lip filler and then I stick out my tongue at the asshole in the mirror.

27/8/2025, 4:54:35 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Were they paid by Big Credit Monitoring?

27/8/2025, 2:12:54 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Pretty sure they do think voting is woke, and would like to prevent people from doing it

26/8/2025, 11:01:01 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Yes! Give blood! I can't because they throw my blood away. Why? Occasionally it tests false positive for Hep C. I do not have Hep C. It's very confusing and I wish I could give blood.

26/8/2025, 8:09:00 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

This government is so embarrassing.

26/8/2025, 8:04:40 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Rolling Stone (@rollingstone.com) reposted

Donald Trump is waging a fascist takeover of the United States. Democrats are responding the only way they know how: by heeding the advice of the wonks who helped get them into this situation — and whose advice is to avoid discussing what Trump is doing. More: www.rollingstone.com/politics/pol...

26/8/2025, 4:14:37 PM | 2554 954 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Would that we had a Supreme Court willing to tell him no.

26/8/2025, 7:51:08 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I have been wondering whether you're allowed to just burn shit. Like, do you have to use the BBQ grates or something? (And yes, I realize this isn't the point.)

26/8/2025, 7:49:42 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

These people continue to be so, so, so very weird.

26/8/2025, 7:48:27 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Why not both?

26/8/2025, 1:39:46 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Jeff Sharlet (@jeffsharlet.bsky.social) reposted

If you saw the clip, watch the whole 12 minutes. This is it. Electeds—everyone around Pritzker is knowingly putting themselves at risk—meeting the moment. It’s not glib, it’s not a meme, it’s clear-eyed, brave, & necessary. www.msnbc.com/deadline-whi...

26/8/2025, 1:00:48 AM | 1964 588 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Kai Ryssdal (@kairyssdal.bsky.social) reposted

It’s hard to overstate how big a deal this is - for the economy (ours and globally), for the rule of law, and for the proper and efficient function of government. www.nytimes.com/live/2025/08...

26/8/2025, 1:08:10 AM | 3917 1153 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture The Athletic (@theathletic.com) reposted

1997: First U.S. Open appearance (17 years old) 2025: 25th U.S. Open appearance (45 years old) VENUS WILLIAMS.

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25/8/2025, 11:56:15 PM | 498 64 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

More likely. I'm in a real spiral about America today. I wish Newsom was less ... himself.

25/8/2025, 11:58:38 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Olga Nesterova (@onestpress.onestnetwork.com) reposted reply parent

After this, he was arrested by the US Secret Service.

25/8/2025, 11:30:43 PM | 516 182 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Jonathan Ladd (@jonmladd.bsky.social) reposted

This is what you do if you want the Democratic nomination for president (and that’s healthy). Democrats should compete over who looks like they will most vigorously undo Trump’s policies and most effectively defeat J.D. Vance.

25/8/2025, 11:25:20 PM | 2300 372 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Elizabeth Jacobs, PhD (@elizabethjacobs.bsky.social) reposted

I’ve been posting this periodically for months, and I’ll say it again. It’s imperative to stock up on N95, KN95, or KF94 masks, especially if you are in a group that is vulnerable to severe COVID19.

25/8/2025, 8:00:21 PM | 235 90 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Elad Nehorai (@eladn.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Pritzker deserves so much credit for his fight against Trump. And bonus, he doesn’t throw other minority groups off the bus for supposed gains. bsky.app/profile/govp...

25/8/2025, 8:04:35 PM | 135 32 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Does that signal a grudging respect for Pritzker? He seems to be doing a good job.

25/8/2025, 8:16:36 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Governor Gavin Newsom (@governor.ca.gov) reposted

California is supporting students and their families this back-to-school season with: 🄪 Universal free, nutritious school meals šŸ“š 800+ schools with literacy coaches and universal K-2 screenings šŸ‘§ Universal TK with a year of free learning šŸ« Free before-, after-, and summer school

25/8/2025, 8:08:57 PM | 1708 362 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Didn't go past 6th grade. I also still remember the version of the pledge in In the Year of the Boar and Jackie Robinson.

25/8/2025, 7:07:25 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

This poor man and his family—it is sickening what the government is doing to them.

25/8/2025, 7:01:35 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Yes! We did nuclear war drills. We had horrible smog. People smoked indoors everywhere, even on planes. Did the Berlin Wall come down? Yeah. That was good.

25/8/2025, 7:00:57 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

I really hate that the best idea Democrats have to fight for Democracy is to redraw districts in order to... subvert Democracy.

25/8/2025, 6:58:42 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

This is not making us safer.

25/8/2025, 6:52:54 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

New ways to waste taxpayer $$ every day

25/8/2025, 6:38:36 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture ian bremmer (@ianbremmer.com) reposted

new analysis from the new yorker tries to estimate how much trump has made during his time in politics: $3.4 billion

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12/8/2025, 9:12:00 PM | 186 80 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

never been to a cracker barrel no idea what this is all about

25/8/2025, 5:17:26 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Kyle Griffin (@kylegriffin1.bsky.social) reposted

Gov. Pritzker: "There is no emergency that warrants the President of the U.S. federalizing the Illinois National Guard." "Trump is attempting to manufacture a crisis, politicize Americans who serve in uniform, and continue abusing his power to distract from the pain he is causing working families."

24/8/2025, 4:55:32 PM | 3398 1031 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Lauren MacIvor Thompson (@lmacthompson1.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

We are not journalists or political commentators. We can't predict the future either. But we are informed and are careful scholars. I know no other historians (and I know a lot, across the nation and abroad) who are MAGA or open Trump supporters. We don't deal in lies so it makes it impossible.

24/8/2025, 12:01:24 PM | 310 62 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Lauren MacIvor Thompson (@lmacthompson1.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Believe me when I say that often the sources show the opposite of what I wish they did. But it is my job to say, "this is the history. It is not an analog. It may not map onto the present in the way you wish."

24/8/2025, 12:01:24 PM | 203 15 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Mark Copelovitch (@mcopelov.bsky.social) reposted

The coverage of the 2024 election, only nine months on, looks even more obscene & deeply unserious in retrospect than it did to so many of us at the time.

24/8/2025, 4:53:38 PM | 291 85 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I understand.

24/8/2025, 4:53:56 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

No one’s asking us to run around and introduce ourselves like, hi, I’m Jessica and I’m cis.ā€ It’s very contextual.

24/8/2025, 4:18:39 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I do think that if we were less obsessed as a culture with othering trans people right now, you’d probably hear the word cis a lot less, because it is mostly used in a context where folks are talking about people who are trans.

24/8/2025, 3:57:18 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I’m biased toward assuming most of these conversations are in good faith and it’s kind of self-defeating.

24/8/2025, 3:47:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Did you mean others should not get to determine what they should be called? This is a little confusing.

24/8/2025, 3:43:40 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

I think awareness and comfort with these terms can depend a lot on your community and experience. My point was just that it’s not so hard to learn to use new-to-you words.

24/8/2025, 3:40:07 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Tyler King (@tyleraking.com) reposted

basically we picked the perfect time to invent a meme generator that runs on potable water

24/8/2025, 4:22:04 AM | 44 18 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Cool cool cool cool cool

24/8/2025, 4:23:19 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Place of serious business vs. showy throne room

24/8/2025, 4:22:27 AM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

From Angel Island, today. Worked out for some.

Park bench on Angel Island from the family of German immigrants who moved to the US in the 40s, with the words Thank You America.
24/8/2025, 4:21:19 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Long as I can keep my Zoloft

24/8/2025, 4:18:59 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Ugh

24/8/2025, 4:16:49 AM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Just here to say my 5-year-old can use ā€œcisgenderā€ accurately and finds it totally normal.

24/8/2025, 3:44:18 AM | 199 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Mallory Yu (@malloryyu.bsky.social) reposted

Growing up fat in the 90s/2000s was hell. This show was 10000000% a part of that -- I was literally told by a bully that I should audition for it lmao

21/8/2025, 5:47:14 PM | 99 14 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh, this is most definitely a brag.

23/8/2025, 4:05:21 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Media: pretend it’s normal

23/8/2025, 3:54:30 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

Except, of course, in San Francisco, where we are freezing.

23/8/2025, 3:46:24 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social)

The layout of this document is atrocious and is filled with extraneous spaces.

22/8/2025, 1:01:01 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

We have friends who moved away earlier in the year because they were afraid that seeking gender affirming care for their child would be criminalized. So yes, that’s the scheme.

21/8/2025, 2:58:22 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Tom Coates (@tomcoates.bsky.social) reposted

This is fucking terrifying. Genuinely truly terrifying. What’s their scheme? To prosecute parents? Doctors? To take people’s treatments away? Absolutely no way this can end well.

21/8/2025, 4:19:19 AM | 871 292 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture The American Academy of Pediatrics (@ameracadpeds.bsky.social) reposted

AAP's immunization recommendations are based only in the science, the needs of children, and the care that pediatricians have for the children in every community. If you have any questions about our recommended schedule, reach out to your pediatrician. aao.org

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20/8/2025, 2:34:04 PM | 109 51 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jessbess (@jessicabess.bsky.social) reply parent

Recommendations?

21/8/2025, 2:05:04 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Mueller, She Wrote (@muellershewrote.com) reposted

The numbers are in. The new maps republicans just passed in Texas reduce Hispanic Texans to one-third of a white person and Black Texans to one-fifth of a white person.

21/8/2025, 12:12:31 AM | 4969 2787 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Japanese American National Museum (@jamuseum.bsky.social) reposted

Join us for a Day of Action to defend the truth of WWIl Japanese American incarceration history. Hear from incarceration survivors, community activists, and allies to honor our history and demand that this injustice never happens again. #ProtectEveryPark Saturday, August 23, 10am @ JANM Plaza

Black and white photograph of a young Japanese woman holding a baby in her arms. They both have tags hanging from their coats as they await a bus ride that will take them to a concentration camp.
20/8/2025, 10:18:55 PM | 271 126 | View on Bluesky | view