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Thank you Jan! No idea what it will bring but Iโm ready for a โSeptember resetโ! xx
๐ฌ๐ง ๐๐ณ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ช๐ค ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ด๐ช๐จ๐ฏ, ๐ข๐ณ๐ต + ๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฐ๐จ๐ณ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฉ๐บ; ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ข๐บ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ง๐ญ๐ถ๐ต๐ฆ + ๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐บ; ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ๐ด ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ท๐ฆ, ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ช๐ค๐ฌ ๐ธ๐ช๐ต + ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฏ-๐ง๐ถ. ๐ฉท ๐๐ฆ๐ด๐ถ๐ด, ๐ฉ๐ถ๐ด๐ฃ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ, ๐ค๐ข๐ต๐ด, ๐ด๐ถ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ, ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ฆ๐ด, ๐จ๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด, ๐จ๐ช๐ฏ, ๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ, ๐ธ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ๐ดโฆ ๐ข ๐ค๐ถ๐ณ๐ญ๐บ-๐ฉ๐ข๐ช๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ค ๐ค๐บ๐ฏ๐ช๐ค. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ธ.
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Thank you Jan! No idea what it will bring but Iโm ready for a โSeptember resetโ! xx
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Hello ๐๐ผ I will be pausing my acc for the next 21 days as part of a fast with my church. While I canโt shut down all social media in the run up to Open Studios, I will be taking a break from here + my main FB + insta accounts. Hope September is kind to you! See you in 3 weeks! xxx
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Oh my goodness - are you OK? ๐ฉท
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So yesterday we waited til Mum got home and took her for lunch. She was in a much better frame of mind than we had anticipated which was such a relief. ๐ฉท
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I surprised myself! ๐
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Strands #546 โUp the hillโ ๐ก๐ต๐ต๐ต ๐ต๐ต๐ต๐ต
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Oooh Wordle 1,534 2/6 ๐ฉ๐จ๐จ๐จ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
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Thanks - Iโll have a read up x
Lo (@loneyjane.bsky.social) reposted
Just seen these things on Insta (thank you @carasometimes.bsky.social!); sharing them for anyone who wants to pass them on. I spent a few minutes fact checking them and from what I can see, theyโre based in truth.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Ooh what do you mean by audiovisual entertainment? Stuff specifically for stress / anxiety? x
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regular socialising, yes. Too much time on her hands. And I wonโt go into the extension the neighbours built that has caused upset and paranoia all along. She hates them now when they used to get on. What to do?
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โฆbut knowing her current state of mind is constantly negative and illogical at times, part of me wants to run away before she gets here. I think my sis is a bit traumatised from last week even though Mum stayed in a B&B. Sis hadnโt realised how bad she is. Donโt think itโs dementia though. Lack of
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โฆmainly due to Mumโs mobility issues. She seems to be very discombobulated at the moment too. Think itโs stress. She could do with seeing GP for counselling / CBT but personally Iโd also recommend a low dose of antidepressants, but she wants to avoid that. We are hanging about til she gets hereโฆ
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Mum was due to leave Wales yesterday but her car broke down (in car park fortunately). A massive faff later, she ended up staying with sis + fam while it was fixed. Iโd gone back home am so Mr P and I had to hot-foot it back to hers last night to catsit another night. House hunt was not a successโฆ
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Created by Simon Harris, FB.
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Thank you, me too.
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Off to bedโฆ. donโt know details but seems sis has had a v trying time with mum for the 2nd day of house hunting. I can only imagine, knowing her poor mobility, negativity + the chip she seems to carry - such a worry. Think sis has only recently seen her like this. I lived with it and it triggers me.
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Wow! Thatโs nice he did that.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
So frustrating!
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
I love @eddavey.libdems.org.uk for this. ๐๐ผ๐๐ผ๐๐ผ www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...
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Good night! (Gets torch to read under the cover)โฆ ๐ฅฑ๐ค
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It was. Itโs also a very hard part of loving them - doing the best by them so they donโt suffer at the end. You *definitely* did your best. I do know how difficult it is not to feel guilty in some way for signing that paper, the realisation that we canโt save them. Letting go feels horrible.
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Thatโs the hardest part in a wayโฆ that โlack of presenceโ which feels so strong still. Be kind to yourselves x
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Perhaps (hopefully) itโs to cushion the blowโฆ ๐คญ
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How are you doing today, buddy?
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๐๐คญ
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
I enjoyed my crossfit this afternoon. Sorry, I meant croissant.
Glennyrodge (@glennyrodge.bsky.social) reposted
The flags arenโt the problem. Itโs the people waving these flags and what they are trying to make these flags represent; with these people itโs not about pride; itโs about hate, the exclusion of people not like them, and a sense that theyโre better. Thatโs the problem.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Iโm in a Rachmaninov state of mind this morning.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
I suppose I better try some sleep again.
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๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
To me, my nationโs flag ๐ฌ๐ง (& the English St Georgeโs element) represents being part of a UNITED kingdom; unity, kindness, respect, a welcome to strangers and a celebration of our God-given diversity. It is NOT a symbol of hate & racism as some ignorant, angry individuals & groups would have it.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Ooh yay Wordle 1,530 3/6 ๐ฉ๐จโฌโฌ๐จ ๐ฉโฌ๐จ๐ฉ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
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This.
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Thatโs betterโฆ I do miss having kitties. One day. Nanight from me and Elmo ๐พ Hugs/purrs from us both to anyone recently bereaved of a beloved fur family member x
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Cat is in. Cat flap is locked. Cat is beating up cat flap.
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Thank you x
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Thank you x
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Edit. Called him and he came out from the undergrowth. Just a tad dampโฆ *finds towel*
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So, Iโm at Mumโs for a few days while she house hunts in Wales. I am meant to be cat-sitting. I am sitting (working) but there is as yet no cat and it has just started raining! ๐
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
4 years ago I got married after thinking I likely never would given my past romantic unsuccesses. We actually knew each other at uni (but I was infatuated with someone else!)โฆ if youโd told me then weโd end up together I would laughed! Life is a funny thing.
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Iโm glad they are happy together now โบ๏ธ Sending gentle hugs on what has no doubt been a tough day. Hope the happy memories soon surpass that horrible loss x
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Only just seen your news. My heart goes out to you. What a sad time. ๐ซถ๐ป xx
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Saw 15 cats on tonightโs later-than-normal walk! Met the 3 black ones we regularly see. Met their owner, Debs, who says she has 6! Such a good way to meet the neighbours! ๐
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I have no concept of days this weekend - that really threw me! ๐
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Something โwentโ yesterday in the fat palm part below my thumb. It did it once before and took weeks to heal - was never right. Found my splint so it stops me moving it and catching the โouchโ. I have full movement so maybe a strain. No idea how I did it. I was sitting at my desk at the time! ๐
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Fun!
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I was very surprised! ๐
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Started with a word I donโt usually use! Wordle 1,528 3/6 ๐จ๐จโฌ๐จโฌ ๐ฉโฌโฌ๐ฉ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
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c20 mins walk - saw 16 cats! Said hello to a few, and met Max who moved into a neighbourโs! Beats previous record of 14 from a couple of weeks ago!
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No, but a friend was. The kidnappers left de brie everywhere so they were easy to traceโฆ
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Look fab! ๐
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The Black Eyed Peas can SING us a song ... But the chick peas can only hummus one.
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Aww thanks guys! I love painting water (also a challenge!) x
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Here are my 3 plein-air oil paintings from Tue-Thu last week (all need finishing or a tweak)โฆ
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Silly woman.
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Good morning! x
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Day 1/3 plein-air days done - should have been in bed an hour ago ๐ด Who knew painting could be so exhausting! Must be the fresh air (+ walking, lugging kit, standing for hours, c1h drive each way)โฆ ๐๐ฉท A bit of a longer drive tomoz but thankful itโs the school hols (traffic is a so much better!). ๐
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Lovely moth!
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Yay! So glad you saved her!!!!
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I donโt do Halloweโen ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
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This made me giggle when looking for images last week. It was one of two I came across in the same hour that had poorly-spelled descriptions! @shutterstock really need to use their spell check more often!
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God sounds a bit of a sarky bruiser but I loved it! I also like to think God has a catโฆ ๐
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Sleepy and achy (and a bit pink despite factor 50 sunscreen) after a full day in the garden Doing Jobs. Working from home tomorrow so will hopefully be less of a beacon soon!
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Just heading that way, although being made to listen to cockwombles racing up and down a parallel road.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Neighbour has just passed my husband a โpedigreeโ* cucumber and 2 tomatoes over the fence. Made me think of when operating theatre staff hand over someoneโs cut-off body parts for disposal. *surplus grown by a friend. Looked a bit rude. ๐คญ
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Nice story! Doesnโt always work out so well.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Gardening* today and enjoying the sunshine and no rushing around. *Decanting no-show pots of soil for new things! Lots to sort out. Waiting for the early evening when itโs cooler to move things about.
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Fascinating thread - thank you!
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Went for a short local walk with Mr P after our BBQ. Noticed a neighbour holding a little kitty. Turns out to be a 4-month old British Blue called Toby! And I had a cuddle - he was so placid and soft!!!! ๐ฅฐ
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TDKs!
Glennyrodge (@glennyrodge.bsky.social) reposted
I hear the president of the United States has travelled to Alaska to meet with Donald Trump.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Not quite the BBQ weather we were expecting, but hardy Brits nonetheless!
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
So Orange Felon 47 failed then; as if Pootin was ever going to be reasonable. Well done for managing to piss off the Ukrainians, Alaskans and Alaska Natives, as well as most of the world. Now get your bloated beak out of things clearly beyond your ability. Starmer can stop the brown-nosing too.
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It did seem extreme as I didnโt feel bad, just nasty flashes. I had no stroke symptoms. I appreciate the care but glad they changed tack. Grateful of course ๐๐ผ
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Morning sir! ๐ค
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Love Bertโs - weโre lucky to have them!
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Entertaining myself with Vulfmonโs โDisco Snailsโ before bed, as you do. ๐ถ๐ชฉ๐
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Fabulous escapade!
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Sweet dreams x
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Never took to it.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
I do feel a bit โwashed outโ but looking forward to a BBQ and glass of wine! ๐ท
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Mine was just dull and has now gone I think. Mind you, you have plenty else to be dealing with x
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Thanks all - and sorry you know what these things are like. Ugh. I feel much better for a snooze and the dull headache seems to have lifted. Mr P says Iโm really bad at taking screen breaks and Iโve worked a lot of extra time in the last two weeks. Iโll have to keep an eye on my bad habits.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
Could be any of that. Iโve had a snooze and feel much better.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social) reply parent
It was a bit like this in my left vision, but less colourful and the lines of the triangles were moving.
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Now drinking some more water and took 2 paracetamol as instructed. About to have a nap. The zig zag aura thing has worn off. Anyone else ever had that? In other news, apparently the ambulance was queued up for 137 call-outs!!!!!!!!!!! No way would I have allowed one to come to โcheck me overโ ๐๐ฑ.
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Then a nice guy rang from the ambulance service to triage me and we agreed to him not sending an ambulance (I didnโt think it was that serious?). He spent a lot of time chatting with me. Think I am probably dehydrated, tired and had been looking at my screen too longโฆ yay, me.
๐๐ฎ๐ต โจ (@meloremipsum.bsky.social)
Yikes. I am not a headachy person but earlier felt very dizzy & started getting zig zag flashing lines in my vision. Made me feel very disorientated / nauseous. Had a look online and was recommended to call 111. After a short convo they decided to send an ambulance to check me over. ๐ณ
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Itโs supposed to be 34ยฐC today but currently raining with lightning and the odd rumble. Hopefully it will clear some of the humidity.
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Cosy!
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Yes, in my world, and Iโm happy about that! ๐