monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Pretty sure if this was the first thing I saw after surgery, I'd think I didn't make it and was in the 8th circle of Dante's inferno. 😵💫
Product designer. Writer. Bookish. Crazy dog lady. https://aerialbooks.com/
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Pretty sure if this was the first thing I saw after surgery, I'd think I didn't make it and was in the 8th circle of Dante's inferno. 😵💫
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
…and Kentucky
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
So very sorry for your loss.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Ok, stop yur bragging! 😜
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes. It feels like a binary statement: save self at the expense of others, but it's not like that, for me, anyway. I learned that small actions of self-care, carving out my space, helped me show up more solid for my dad and family. Leaning on others to help support and lift me up was also healing.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I can't believe we're still talking about bullet number 1, but here we are. I've always been an advocate of continuous research that guides the product roadmap. I've often had product and design folks nodding in enthusiastic agreement, but when the rubber meets the proverbial road...
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I’m so sorry. Dementia takes such a toll on loved ones. Take care of yourself.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
This is the kind of fundamental shift that radicalizes communities. Scary times.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Why isn't congress fighting back?
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Example 7,092 of why LI is insufferable
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
omg. what was that???
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Penalizing business travelers? Well, that seems dumb.
Rabbi Jill Zimmerman (@rabbijill.bsky.social) reposted
Rep Simon on fire. Listen to her. Do you think her fellow congresspeople will walk with her? I’ll make them dinner. @replsimon.bsky.social
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Damn. You are brave. Shingles and COVID shots at once? Oof! Hope you feel better soon.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
WTF?! That's it. That covers all my detailed questions.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Omg. How awful.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
If the do something’s would target that energy towards gop congress, particularly the ones who aren’t full blown maga, it might have some impact.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
This seems to be what everyone and their cousin are doing with AI.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Poor baby. Sending healing energy and well wishes for a quick recovery!
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I didn't realize the Peter Principle was referring to ole Pete but how perfect
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
So sorry for your loss
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
We essentially have a used car salesman as president
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Agree. After stepping in to lead product, it made me wonder what the point of a design director role is. Just put design under product and be done. It's more honest.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Hey, it's not April Fools anymore! 😜
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I think most states do (Massachusetts definitely does) but I believe they rely heavily on federal funding.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
One of my harder career lessons. You can have a toolbox full of the best mechanisms and frameworks but they won't work if they don't embody your team's thinking and ethos. Thanks for sharing. I think this is probably one of the biggest pitfalls design leaders can fall into.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
So sorry for your loss.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Agreed. I'm also concerned about Bernie using this to promote Medicare for All right now. I'm no political science expert but can we start with saving Medicare and our democracy that's currently hanging by a fingernail off a cliff?
Mark Cuban (@mcuban.bsky.social) reposted
From 2010 to 2016 (latest data I have ), NIH research contributed to EVERY drug approved by the FDA
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
THIS! You nailed it. We’re seeing this play out with AOC and the enthusiasm with these big stadium rallies. I’m all for AOC and her work but can she motivate Americans to do more than show up at rallies and talk on social media about how she’s the one to save us? 🤷♀️
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
You know I'm not. I hope you're not studying to be a lawyer.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
This is not a good faith question. It's also not on topic. However, you as a private citizen can go into public service and dedicate your life to trying to stop all of these horrors and make the world a better place. I hope you do so.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Your entitlement is the most American thing ever. Maybe you should get out there and run for office. Organize and go after congress. Yelling at others to go do something ain't it.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Why isn't this heat put towards the Republican congress who could stop this right now? Obama, Clinton, Harris all warned us what would happen and white voters voted for this anyway. And just what do you think Obama could do? They've sacrificed so much already. We need to stop being lazy Americans.
Mark Cuban (@mcuban.bsky.social) reposted
The administration is removing phone support for Soc Security recipients. Making it more difficult for seniors to get their checks. It’s a back door way to cut SS benefits. Horrific. If you know anyone who is impacted, please help them get online to get their benefits approved
Joyce White Vance (@joycewhitevance.bsky.social) reposted
This.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I really hate it there. I’ve been unemployed so felt I had to hold my nose but soon I’m out.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
me too! Seriously!
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
They're like a bunch of petulant 5 year olds who've run away from home and have banned brushing their teeth and declare cookies what's for dinner. The willful stupidity is amazing.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
In reality, hope is the worst of all evils, because it prolongs man's torment. - Nietzsche I'm reading his Human, All Too Human: A Book for Free Spirits, and so much is very timely to what we're experiencing.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I've been feeling this so much lately
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Patricia Arquette really showed her chops in this episode. She’s phenomenal! And Jane Alexander was perfect!
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
It's really difficult for me to find my empathy for people who were all in on others being hurt but when it turns on them, they're simply aghast!
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Who could've guessed this would happen...I mean, besides everybody? 🙄
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I have a surfboard coffee table! But it doesn't have those joints. It's teak. Love it!
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
The word "smeared" is doing a lot of work here
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
So glad I never bought a Tesla. I considered it when I lived in Seattle but there were so many on the road that it felt like the official tech bro car. I'm quite happy in my lil volvo.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social)
I woke up to find my Threads and Instagram accounts suspended. My last post was about the economic boycott. Really? 🤷♀️
Joyce White Vance (@joycewhitevance.bsky.social) reposted
The Trump administration is canceling presentations including book talks on important civil rights issues at the Carter Center & possibly elsewhere. Let’s celebrate these authors by buying & reading their books. www.nytimes.com/2025/02/22/a...
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
PMs building prototypes...what could go wrong? 🤷
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social)
LinkedIn is really becoming a cesspool. We really need a better professional community space.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I did that after moving a few times and getting sick of hauling all of my books. Had a 1 bookcase rule and everything else was digital. Now I have my own digital bookstore and am considering a brick & mortar bookstore. There's nothing more comforting to me than being surrounded by books.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
What's that saying? Give me the confidence of a mediocre white man! Never fails.
Dr. Ironclad, Brunch Democrat (@feclad.bsky.social) reposted
An easy way to protest peeps...You have time to stock up now. LFG!
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I’m of the mind that every single person living in the US right now could benefit from therapy! I found a grief therapist who helped me navigate, process. Therapy didn’t fix me but helped me not implode on myself.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Probably the same designer who complains on LinkedIn about designers having no voice or seat at the table.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
welp. I recently applied there...scratching that one off the list. 😑
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Sorry you're going through this with your father. My dad was in hospice in 2019 and I was in a similar situation. In retrospect, I should've taken FLMA because I was a barely functioning foggy mess of a human for a while. Self care right now is everything.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I appreciate you too! It helped me to see your post about how anyone can focus. I woke up feeling that way too and felt some comfort to know it's not just me.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
It’s exhausting
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Keep telling yourself that
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Rich people who golf? Because no way 🟠 hasn't already considered a big, beautiful...the best...golf course overlooking the water.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes, we all can see this with our bloodshot eyeballs. What are you, the congressman who is representing your constituents going to do. We need leadership and a plan, not social media posts of things we're already stressed out about.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Yaas...and design is hard when you don't really do the work but demand others pull up a seat at the table for you.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Did this happen? I'm limiting my news intake to some NPR and Heather Cox Richardson so haven't heard anything.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I spent part of my day drafting a business plan for an indie bookstore/community space. There's a part of me that wants to get off social media (LinkedIn, I'm looking at you!) and spend more time in the tangible world. Am I crazy? Yes, I am.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
For real! I’m focusing on self growth and nurturing relationships and community.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
This is what worries me most about AI at the moment. Before AI, "engagement" was already ethically questionable. Now with AI, the race for eyeballs and "engagement" seems dangerous.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
That would be great. I'm not even sure I have chapters so much as segments. It's something though.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes! I've been working on a memoir for [mumble mumble] years. Committed to getting back to it this year. Much more worthy writing about other things than tech (though I appreciate your shared insights/pov.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Yup
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I have introduced myself that way many times. Though I may have said “Amhole”.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social)
I just saw a post on LinkedIn that mentioned "the future of critical thinking"...
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
windmills drive whales crazy...I did not have 'Trump becomes an environmentalist' on my bingo card.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
This shouldn’t be surprising as AI models are trained on our cultural inputs.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Those are on my list as well, especially woodworking.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes! Never too late. I started doing encaustic painting a few years ago because I wanted to do something physical, explore creativity as a beginner (I really loathe not knowing things), and wanted something that forced me to slow down and be comfortable with the process. Helped my work work so much.
Charlie Jane "Lessons in Magic and Disaster" Anders 🏳️⚧ (@charliejane.bsky.social) reposted
Now that the holiday shopping season is coming to an end, indie bookstores could really really use your help. Your local independent bookstore is a treasure and a crucial part of the neighborhood. And you KNOW you need some good reading during this cold winter season as you digest all that turkey.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
"You'll be visited by three spirits." The three spirits: (I mean, it seems so obvious!)
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social)
My stove has wifi. Why can't it reset its own clock after a power outage? Seems like the least it could do.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social)
I'm excited for this posthumous fiction debut from Gail Milissa Grant. The Sable Cloak, an historical novel is set in the South and Midwest during the time of Jim Crow that reveals a little-known part of American pre-civil rights history of Black intrigue and power. bookshop.org/a/81311/9781...
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Definitely photoshopped
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
But he would be 2nd in line for president and only natural born citizens can be president, no?
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Aren’t these things a type of form?
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Hey! That's my idea. Well, not the board game outlet but for sure the wine bar, puppy daycare, bookstore, ceramics studio.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
In a time when we need authenticity and connection more than ever, I say do it. What a touching gift. She shared something intimate with you about her life so I imagine she'll appreciate that you cared enough to think of her.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
If only he'd been in a position to do something about it... 🙄
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I wish you would.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I hadn't thought of myself as a book pusher, but ok. Here I am. :) aerialbooks.com
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
Nope. But if you were in a MS meeting, you must know what I'm talking about. I hope the culture has changed but there was a strong bias towards trying to be the smartest person in the room.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
El Tesoro Reposado
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
"performative smartness" - that so perfectly names it. That's every Microsoft meeting I was in. I do feel like I have to post there because I'm job hunting but I try to at least post about things I'm genuinely thinking about (usually AI-based). But design LinkedIn is generally pretty tedious IMO.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
It's all fun and cuddles until they bring back someone's kitteh back to the nest for dinner. 🤯
NPR (@npr.org) reposted
The Icelandic pop star Björk's new installation at Centre Pompidou in Paris uses animal sounds to help people understand what's lost and what we stand to lose as a result of human-caused climate change.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
You can support Bookshop.org. They support independent bookstores, including mine. :)
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social)
I've always loved Sturgill Simpson but I love him even more now.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm trying to tune it out and take care of my mental health. This is going to be a marathon of chaos and awfulness. We need to protect ourselves as best we can.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
We will not understand until we feel it in real time. I think there's still a lot of denial flying around.
monkishine.bsky.social (@monkishine.bsky.social) reply parent
I cannot.