I would like to believe that but my time in this very purple state indicates otherwise. Forgive my lack of optimism on how this ends

The pessimism is understandable. Things WILL get worse before they get better, unfortunately. But if this comes down to an actual conflict they WILL lose.

There will be conflict no doubt, and they will lose, but it will be a hard fought bloody victory that permanently redraws this nation

The last time was a hard fought bloody victory and it didn't permanently redraw the nation. The bigots just passed their bigotry down to kids and grandkids and called it religion and 'common sense'.

This time I think is different with respect to the mobility of people in modernity that Status quo ante bellum cannot be achieved

I would argue that the status quo antebellum already exists. The fact that so many people are willing to help cover up the Epstein list is evidence of that.