...so I dont lose track of it. (I only use the T pass maybe once a month at most) BUT we recently "straightened up" - cuz the NT world tells us ND people we need to keep our stuff "tidy" - so now I can't find the pass. A brief panicked search reveals it's location. Whew! Back down stairs...6/16
...to the front door where I see (!!!!) the door slightly ajar and one my cats peeking their head outside! (Indoor only cats) One of the items I dropped on the porch prevented the door from closing all the way. I chase the cat back in but now we have to look around and make sure...7/16
...the other cat didn't get out. Find Cat 2, we're good, OK back out the door. Fortunately, I have learned to give myself extra extra time because stuff like this happens ALL THE TIME when you're #ADHD. So I still managed to get to the train station with time to spare. But the fun continues...8/16
...As noted earlier, I have not ingested enough caffeine. Hit the coffee shop in the station and get a large coffee and a breakfast sandwich. Sit down in the terminal to eat my sandwich but they dont believe in flat surfaces in train stations so I have to put my coffee on the floor by my feet...9/16
...my fellow #neurodivergent folks know where this is going. I eat my sandwich, then get up to throw out the wrapper. In the time it takes to walk to the trash and back I have completely forgotten about my cup of coffee and I kick it over. Now there's a giant pool of coffee rapidly spreading...10/16
...across the floor heading right for all my stuff. Frantically move things away from the puddle while dropping the handful of napkins I have to absorb some of the damage. Now I need to inform the custodial staff cuz this was a full 20oz beverage & will require a mop. Go find the info booth...11/16
...apologize profusely for creating a huge mess and dropping it i their lap. Walk away feeling like a total A-hole. Now, I still need caffeine! Amazingly, I still have time before my train arrives- cuz again, this is not my first rodeo - so back to the coffee shop I go. So here I am...12/16
...sitting on the train I managed to catch In spite of the disastrous morning and typing this on @bsky.app for folks to read. Why? Because I want you to share this with your neurotypical family & friends to help them understand what our days are like. Spread the word about The #ADHD Snowball...13/16
...all these "little" things we do aren't so little. Our systems, our routines, our quirks... they help hold our lives together. And when they get thrown off, even a little, things can snowball quickly and our whole day can crumble. This is why we have anxiety. This why...14/16
...we freak out over "little" things. This is why I put certain objects in the same place evey day with religious zeal. This is why I don't stop to chit-chat. This is why it seems like I'm not paying attention. The slightest disruption or distraction can have big consequences. So...15/16
...have a bit of grace and understanding for the #neurodivergent #adhd #autistic #AuDHD person in your life. Its a daily grind for us. We're coping, handling our biz as best we can with the tools we have available. But things still breakdown from time to time. Have patience. 16/16