My Facebook DMs are full of fans like Chris Elliot. Know what I do when I get a message like this? I spend the time to track them down and then send the message to their mothers and sisters and daughters. If you’ve got the energy to send this shit to me, I’ve got the energy to out you.
Disgusting. So sorry, Jess.
Good!
You go girl! So clever, thank you!
I did that a lot during the first reign of terror
It's OK. WE love you.
👍👍
Who knew the guy from "Cabin Boy" was such a jerk?
Brava, Jess!🔥 Call out the cowards for who and what they are. Fucking loser!
I fuckin love your commitment ❤️
Maybe the A’s would also be interested to know if this guy was a season ticket holder?
How did you go about finding him?
Brilliant.
I'm sure their employer would also find this interesting.
I’m sorry these a-holes are like this to you—but very happy and encouraged by your responses! :)
Yep. Exactly what I do. Any decent person with associated with them gets to witness their true character just like I did. It’s only fair.
My favorite is when they call me a pagan because Christians can't be Democrats, then can only quote Old Testament scripture to back what they spew.
Yeah. They think quoting the OT shows they’re Christians. They forget the other part of the Bible, that introduces Jesus.
They are line mean middle school kids - they can’t handle it when a person doesn’t agree with them!!! Ignore them!!
For someone who supports the Braves, he’s not. But you are Jess @piperformissouri.bsky.social
that has to be so satisfying.
Intelligent nice lady working for us in the midwest.
These people are infantile losers.
How did that go? Did the family femmes respond?
yassss! This is the way 😎
Mike Johnson keeps saying he's making them get jobs but...
chris elliot ….i hope the internet does its wonderful sleuthing…and this is shared with your boss also. And I hope karma is immediate and you get fired.
GOOD ON YA!
Good for you! This Canadian thinks you’re such a strong voice for your country!
Excellent work!
Mouth breathers that wouldn’t have a collective brain cell.
Absolutely brilliant revenge strategy, Jess. If it wouldn't be too much work to add their employers, you could make top dollar on the speaking circuit.
Sorry for the hateful comments you’re receiving.
Seems very typical of people in MO who are incapable of having a rational back and forth conversation. Full of hate and ignorance. I am from rural Missouri and I appreciate all that you do. Thank you.
Love this!
Good for you.
NFL - this is who you want to represent you? It's the product commercials that fund > the NFL. In most US Households, females control the largest majority of discretionary purchases. FEMALES this guy is insulting are the ones who decide which products to buy AND WHICH COIMPANIES TO BOYCOTT.
Love the Democrat pettiness 💙
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Brilliant 💕
Good for you! Call out the fxxxing trolls!
Well done. Drag these id'jits into the light! Maybe his mom will stuff a bar of ivory into his mouth.
That’s awesome …. Good for you! 👏👏
Now there's an idea. The person who started cyberstalking me on X back in November 2023 found me on here last week (The shit he pulled cost me two of my Bluesky friendships). I called him out in a thread with receipts. I am sure his family people would love to see some of his handiwork.
Have any of the women that you have shared these hateful messages with ever responded back to you? I hope that at least some of them have rallied to your defense🤞🏼
You’re amazing!
Republicans have no shame. But maybe our women folk do, maybe
Brilliant. And thank you for holding a mirror up to haters!
Good on you, lady.Those assholes were(sadly)brought up by mothers who are(by deduction,‘cos who else?)likely to have instilled those delightful traits in their sons. But they should definitely be shown just what assholes they raised.good hunting.
oh, he’s just talking about his mom
What a punk
Love you Jess. ❤️🩹💟 carry on🫡✊🏼💪🏼
😎😂
👍 Hateful, ignorant cowrds
cowards 🤦
One of the best things about bluesky is that nobody would have corrected you ♡ An edit button would be nice but no nazis here, grammar or otherwise.
😀 👍
Both work 😉 I guess getting that twitty check mark is More important than the "edit" button we've asked for... ... so looooooong now 🤨
Good idea 👍🏻
We need more of your energy! Keep up the good work, my friend!!! 💝
Awesome!:) karma's a bitch ;)
You go Girl !
I run a queer event company, I have been running ad campaigns for 10 years. I run the same ad on Instagram. Facebook specifically gets lots of horrific comments on them. Facebook admitted in support they're using my money to show my ad to homophobe trolls. Happy to post screenshots.
TikTok is happy to show my liberal content to all of MAGA
This should go to the media, they’re deliberately having the trolls attacks you for income. Ugh
I've escalated to a manager, I'm making sure to get everything in writing. I will keep escalating until I get an answer why homophobes are deliberately being shown my queer content. If it turns out they are doing it for engagement then I'll go to the media since it is costing queer businesses money.
I don’t even get income. They just mercilessly troll me
I am not active on fb. Not worth it
You’re right. It’s not. I have fb for family and friends and that’s the only reason I have it
I get my rage out by posting on an local tv news person page , he is maga , I use a fake name , don’t know why he hasn’t blocked me
I get back at them by denying them a platform. You do realize when you fight with them that’s all they’re after? You’re feeding the machine and rewarding fb for hate engagement
I left their comments up while the ticket is ongoing but I delete the comments normally, it scares my customers away thinking it will not be a safe place to attend and will be targeted.
I’m sorry. The way things went pear shaped so fast, we never really stopped being a country of AHs
That’s why I stopped cold turkey and that’s brilliant
I don’t see that way, I have some people rendered speechless and deny being maga , if I can shake anyone out their stupor is worthy
Yeah you’d be wrong. Educate yourself on psychology of punching down. Also psychology of catharsis
Punching down ? They are all fkng bullies , expect me to back down cuz I am a woman , I got my method, block the utterly stupid and keep posting facts and buh bye no need or want “advice “
Ewwww muting
Carry On! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Awesome!
I would read an entire book of these exchanges. Just for the psychology of it all. I’ll bet you get a mix of defensiveness and apologists.
Braves fan. Nuff said.
Good for you! I’m beyond sick of keyboard warriors being so terrible to complete strangers.
Get them👏👏👏👏👏
Yes!
Mom would be SO proud! 🤣🤣🤣
OH FUCK YEAH ❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
....me waiting to see the expressions on the faces of their women folk
I'm waiting to hear the slap his grandmother gives him the next time she sees him.
Bonus points for using a gif of *the* Chris Elliott
Again: Bravo @piperformissouri.bsky.social
Bravo! @jesspiperfanpage.bsky.social
I bet his mom was a really proud.
Good for you! Accountability is a great thing Chris.
Consider sending it to their employer too.
Sadly, his behavior is likely a reflection of how his mother raised him
I like your style and approach Jess!!!
I LOVE THAT!....good for you, fuck 'em
Nice!
Good for you!
Add their wives/partners to your list of recipients.
Way to go. Like your style
🔥💪go, you and 💯 make them own it IRL. FAFO
Hoho Chris!! You go, girl! I am such a fan of that, putting it back on the asshole man😂😂
Yesssssssss
🤛 🤛 🤛
They don't like accountability
🙌💜💪
Why are they so triggered? It’s a mystery to me.
You’re a national treasure, Jess, keep fighting the good fight!
Horrible
Fantastic strategy!
This has earned you a follow my friend! LOL
And employers?
Employers? Stop it!
That’s my kind of petty😂
FUCK yes
It sounds like the Nazis are scared of you and working to scare you away. That means you're doing the right thing.
Brilliant! This sounds like a good idea for a startup. Someone could offer hunting down their family and employers as a service.
Please make it women-owned!
How do the women respond I wonder?
I’d be willing to bet he’s called them worse, and they either don’t care or think it’s funny.
....or they get smacked around for being "mouthy" 😔
I'm shocked. I didn't think anyone was on Facebook these days.
He's projecting.....
Good going Jess! Yes!
👏👏👏
Totally rad!! I do the same…time is overrated…
Chris was just explaining who he is.
Go Jess! Perfect response.
Go get ‘em, Jess!
Smart plan! 👏🏼
It might shock a lot of men how often women get hateful DMs after simply expressing an opinion online. Death threats, SA threats, body shaming, comments about our appearance, suggestions that we off ourselves - the list goes on. I'm not as active as Jess, so I'm sure what I get pales in comparison!
That is why I left tictok. Women get threatened and when they report it it is ignored. When we fight back we got punished. It made me angry. I left Twitter and tictok after the election.
It's getting more and more volatile out there, especially now that so many tech bosses have vowed fealty to a dictator! I'm genuinely scared for the next generation of kids to not social media.
Join* social media
You are my hero!
Way better and more ethical than doxxing. "Momming"?
Bravo ... a lot of the very dumb right wing posters are teens. Great of you to send the messages to their parents to see how stupid and rude their own children have become under Trump.
Good for you!!! Out all those hateful, ignorant POS's!👏👏👏
You have my complete admiration, Jess, thank you for standing up and being you.
You are a hero! If my kid was sending garbage like this I would want to know.
Love it! What a great idea.
👏👏👏👏👏
Happy to help!
I know you're busy, so happy to help you in your outing efforts!
👌
💪
I work in cybersecurity and would be more than happy to help.
This is real allyship right here 🙌🏻
Same! More than happy to help!
📌
Thanks we need more friends like you….. to make them eat their words so to speak
That is a genuinely nice gesture.
That is so nice of you
👏👏👏👏 Don’t take that crap
Good, Jess! That's the way to do it!
Chances are he lives by me got an address?
I love the way you think!
Proud of you!
Sorry you have to deal with such low moral scum bags!
I love this
he meant to send that to Pam BRIBE-di
Here in southern Mo some of those women would be proud he did that. Women in oppressed societies are actually shittier to women in more progressive societies. The misogyny from other women here was a surprise to me.
It's not surprising when the culture teaches them self-hatred, from birth.
It's internalized misogyny.
Yep
I'm in southern MO as well, and I agree 100%. Most of the worst offenders here are other women. The patriarchy rules here. My own mother defended my dad's bigotry to me bc "he's in chronic pain". So grateful I got myself "a woke education" (according to them 😂) and learned that shit is not normal.
Right there with you both, in the same part of the state. (I’m more than ready to leave the area).
If I could afford to I would leave in a heartbeat. I miss intelligent adults.
Yeah, me too!!
Absolutely! Hoping to do just that, at some point.
I'm counting on it. I've done ever mental trick I can think of to like it here and what I mainly like has nothing to do with the people. I love the rural areas and wildlife. That's it.
I’ve done the same. There are a few things that’ll always remind me of “home,” but I’m ready for a new area….I guess we’ll see.
I live in MO. I can't believe how women are treated here in the last couple decades. It getting worse. I want to move to another state
Random men in my age group have acted bossy with me at times and I laugh at them. They expect to be obeyed and respected. My amusement doesn't amuse them. I don't care.
Good for you! You don’t owe them anything. That would get old, really quickly.
I’m sorry. I’d like to move too.
I can't argue with that. One of the worst, most hateful experiences of my life was working in an all-female run office in the Deep South. Had a better experience in junior high (in the North). While structural misogyny runs deep here, most men have been more respectful face-to-face.
It's really disappointing because I value female friendships.
Same, a thousand times same. I walked into it all, "yay girl power". I walked out with cat scratches all over my soul. I'm *a lot* more discerning now.
Nice. That deserves a follow. 😝
🫶🫶🫶🫶
Wholly approve.
Noice!
Well said. I've had a bit of this crap today, not as serious as that though!
Why would you stay on FB? This is what Zuckerberg has engineered - all his platforms are being used like X to sew division and hatred.
That makes me happy 😊
🤣🤣🤣
I think you’re beautiful, Jess. Don’t waste your positive energy on this loser.
Brilliant.
Just get off Meta and all that disappears. I left on Inauguration Day and no regrets.
Nearly 3 years for me and it's been amazing. This is my only social media and not my real name 😉
Nice!
The world may be falling apart, but my personal life has dramatically improved since I quit fb at end of 2024.
And really, all the friends I care about keeping in touch with find me. My social life has been robust since I got off it.
Yes! Same here! Not one regret. I just disappeared. It was fantastic!
Same! It feels so freeing!
I quit in 2020 when dumb maga c*nts were arguing about BLM protest video validity and saying they were racists against whites
What a time to be alive that was. 😑
Literally I’ve told them all to fk off. I can’t. The worst was someone saying our country isn’t racist…I’m like Bye B*tch …Zuckerberg sucks too…mofo just shut down 2 schools he founded in the Bay Area! He is a terrible human
I know, I live in the Bay Area. He’s a terrible neighbor.
He is a terrible human so he’d be a terrible neighbor anywhere he calls home…maybe Bezos can launch him to Mars
I’m all for that!
Got off FB years ago. It sux
I’m so glad to be off.
But how will I donate my free time to big tech going forward?
I’m sure you’ll find a way as you can see their need is great. 😉😄
I pulled out of meta in Feb.
Feels good, huh?
I deleted everything in meta. I don’t need a platform to make money selling my data. It was no longer an enjoyable place to be and the personal cost too high.
❤️
They clearly have no idea what they’re up against. Cowards to the core who would never say this shit to your face, sitting in mommy’s basement never having had a date.
Part of the problem is people like Joe Rogan, who have radicalized an entire generation of young men who think they’re entitled to talk to us this way I got news for them. Anybody says that shit to me I’m right back in their face. I do not take shit from anybody you got a problem?
Oh Chris, you haven't heard about our menopausal power packed fury, have you? Keep up Skippy!
Note to self: Make a sign with those words for next protest march or town hall where failing Iowa maga Republicans can't be bothered to show up...!
I saw a post, months ago, that I fell in love with … “I identify as a post menopausal woman. My pronoun is Try Me”.
Great
Need to find that on a t-shirt!
💖✨💖✨💖✨
The mouth filter thins with age, at the age of 69 I have no qualms about setting someone straight if they’re being an asshole
I'd love this in a cross stitch. 💙
I wanted to find a GIF to your perfect comment, but I couldn’t find a good laugh. There wasn’t a good GIF of a woman laughing well, except for Shirley Temple when she was a little girl.
💪🤣
Almost makes me look forward to menopause…
Me too. 😂
I’m now in love with this. As an angry perimenopausal woman this is me
Anger is the fuel to get us out marching!
Oh I’m sure I could try them and make them cry
Nice!
You win the internet today!😅🤣😂👍👊👏👏👏
I copied this onto my homepage. Thank you. It is perfect.
Love it and ain’t that the truth.
Amen to that.
Followed for menopausal power packed fury. 😂🙌
I feel these words in the depths of my soul 🔥Menopausal Power Packed Fury🔥
This comment is pure gold!!
Laughed out loud!!! menopausal power packed fury is awesome 💥
We don't even warn. We just stomp and hose off the debris.
Oh, how I love a good belly laugh on a Monday. Thank you! 💙
People have no idea. The hot flashes are just fuel that helps our rage.
Oh my gosh, can I use this?!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I don't know you but with very little research I can confidently say you are none of those things.
Chris Elliott no way!
👍 Good! Well done!!!! 👏💃👍🇺🇸💙
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👊🏼
Bravo Jess great idea.
Do the messages to the mothers go "Do you know where your son says things like this?"
Then you message him back and say "I went ahead and forwarded this to your mom since I'm sure she was the intended recipient"
Good for you, just an appalling shame that you have to!
I like that approach.
I love that you do that! A great way to hold them accountable!
Same here…I cannot find whoever signed me up for the Heritage foundation newsletter though …dirty bastard
Ohh Shyte 😡 can we help? 💙
I cannot tell you how that lightened my mood. Good girl! Is that the professional baseball team A’s?
Yes! We must mirror their energy.
WHAAA? Messed up.
That is a great way to handle this crap
Yes yes yes
Bet his dad is the same way...Sad!
Way to go.
I wish I had that time but instead I am petty by putting them all in my YouTube videos. Not many watch now but the thought of 300+ episodes and these men have no idea which ones theirs will show up in and if one day it trends, their family, bosses or future g/f/ wife... #Petty is #delicious.
Wow! I could t take fb anymore, I’ve been off since the end of January
That’s not the Letterman guy, I assume.
Not “Cabin Boy”!
I hope not. It’s a fairly common name.
Excellent! This is the way we win. We pressure family and friends...or press charges against those that are following illegal orders.
Wow! Jess, is this the same person as the actor Chris Elliot? If not, sorry.
Oh God, no. The Oscar winning star of get a life would never say such a thing.
Oh good! I like him! I’m not much of a sports buff, he is the only one I knew of. TYSM for replying.
Don’t ya just love the keyboard warrior just wreaks of insecure male energy,coward!
He was the sole reason I stopped watching Schitt’s Creek.
Yeah, but he was awesome in Get a Life
that's just horrible. I wonder if they are as abusive in their ordinary lives?
The worst one I ever got was from a guy that read my profile, and noticed it said widow. He said my husband probably committed suicide to get away from me.
What a fragile ass man.
Considering the number of men who said the same thing when Aubrey Plaza's husband committed suicide, I'm not surprised. Too many of them cannot take responsibility for their own emotional states.
The guy is an ass.
That is truly awful. I hope that guy is eaten by the understanding of how repulsive he is/that he gets therapy and becomes a decent human.
That guy was such an asshole.
I had that happen, too. They go for the throat.
I'm sorry for your loss. 🥺
I am sure he is employed somewhere. Maybe we can find his employer
"With fans like Chris..."
Excellent work! Keep it up!
👏👏👏
You go girl! I once had two teen boys call me a fat bitch and drive away. I followed them home and explained to one kid’s mother and another was completely shocked to see me at his front door. This stuff is nonsense. Our administration is filled with people with unchecked behaviour. Grow up!
It'd be even more useful with BOTH parents, because boys often inherit their immature attitudes from dad.
Very true. I wish that the dads were around. You are right- a lot of boys are simply mimicking what they have seen their dads do. We need men to be positive role models for our boys. That is one of the reasons I have never liked DJT- he is rude and angry and degrades people. So wrong!
What did you say to the mom? I'm at a loss as to what I would say in similar circumstances.
I told her the truth. I was at the bank drive thru when your son and his friend drove up and called me a fat bitch snd drove off laughing. I don’t know your son. We have never spoken. I wanted you to know how your son acts when you are not around. Let him know the next person might not be as nice.
" wanted you to know how your son acts when you are not around. Let him know the next person might not be as nice." Perfect. Thanks
In my 20s on a plane before it took off, I told a snooty businessman sitting next to me to put it away his porn. He smiled & kept looking at it. The plane was full. I stood up & said, “This man won’t put away his porn magazine. Can a gentleman change seats with me?” Love shaming sexists & bigots!
Love That You Did That! What sickening behaviour!
My neighbor’s go-to response to seeing boys in the neighborhood doing things they shouldn’t be doing was to call out to them that she knew their mothers. She never knew who these boys were, let alone their mothers, but the looks on their faces and their quick retreat was always priceless.
If we won't tolerate bad behavior from juveniles. why should we tolerate bad juvenile behavior from adults?
100% agree!!!
I got groped when I was out for a run in the middle of the day. I went to the young man’s house and told his mother. (He didn’t know I recognized him from the neighborhood.) Let’s just say she was NOT pleased with him.
By the way, this incident took place years ago. If I had to do it all over again, I should have gone to the police instead of letting his Mom deal with it. I often wonder if my kindness averted any future efforts by the teen or if he saw it as a sign that he could “get away” with battery.
As a male, I am both embarrassed and angry that this happened to you and also to any other person out there who experiences this type of bull$h1t. Luckily, not all men are like this and the ones who are need a swift kick in the 🌰 🌰.
Don't go down that road. You can't change the past. You were strong for doing anything when it would have been easier to let it slide. I remind myself, "I'm just doing the best I can. I will have brand new opportunities to screw up and disappoint myself today. I don't need to revisit old ones"🤔🤪
Thank you for your support. Wise words!
Cops tend to not take groping very seriously, and years ago it was even worse. Going to his mom was a good idea. If that had been reported to me about my son, the consequences would have been greater than what the criminal justice system metes out!
I think you did the right thing. Going to the police, especially years ago, it's a coin toss whether they would help or just " boys will be boys" the situation. Going to Mom it's 80/20 he learned a lesson.
I lived in small Ca town & stopped to help distressed driver on 101 & he was masturbating! POd I continued to town to get my mail. Telling the female clerks what happened as he drove by... "That's Mrs __ son" & called his 80yo Mama to tell her about it. We laughed thinking of his homecoming!
I think the important thing is that it wasn’t tolerated; you fought back. He was called out, and I bet he was not met with kindness by his mother. Good for you!
Thank you for your kind words. I did the best I could at the time.
That’s right!
Moms can be harder than cops... I'd just learned to ride my bike. I pulled out in front of a car. He stopped threatening to spank me if I did it again. My mom leaned out the door & yelled, when you do I'll give you $5! This was in the early 60s! (About $49.50 by today's standards)
Love the stories - but who is Chris Elliot!?!?
I hope it's not the comedian I first thought of, who'd come up from under the audience to berate Dave Letterman in his early shows.
You'd have to ask the original writer on this. Apparently, they posted something negative about her. She was saying how she deals with em
Two boys said disgusting things to me as they walked by and I said, "get back here" and they came and stood there while I asked them if it would be ok for other boys to say that to their mom. 1//2
They mumbled, no. I told them it was unacceptable and sent them away. 1) they came when I told them to so I know they respected women 2) consequences? None. But... was it a deterrence? I have no idea how we can effect change here. 2/2
Go you! Sadly far too few men are stepping up to this behavior in a way that correctly educates their male children. When the cavalry isn't coming, bring the post-menopausal Valkyries instead. 🛡️⚔️🔥
What a humdrum slur—zero creative energy expended. Lazy AND mean! Lol
Love hoe they hide their faces. Hop his job sees it, if he has one.
You go, Jess! Any tips on how to locate those family members?
That’s awesome. You should post a list of your ‘most wanted , we can all help you ..
Yeah.
I’m retired. I’ve got time 🤷🏻♀️
Ha! I think he deleted his profile.
That is called fighting back ❤️