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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

So far I have not heard Gavin newsom say that he is going to run for president in 2028 Maybe I'm just not in the loop. Beyond that, trans adults in the US only make up .8% of the population. I don't think the trans vote means that much, though I am very sympathetic to their cause.

aug 28, 2025, 11:59 am • 0 0

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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

oh, so you sympathize but won't do shit to help the 2.7+ million of us facing genocide. You'll wring your hands and say, "It's a shame no one stopped this" after we're corpses. fuck you

aug 29, 2025, 6:25 pm • 1 0 • view
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Sin(éad) @tidbit.bsky.social

Thank you for being sympathetic to our plight, I guess…

aug 28, 2025, 12:10 pm • 10 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

I'm not trying to belittle the situation I'm just being a realist. we have to defeat this fascism as expeditiously as possible. There's no such thing as a perfect candidate. No matter what there's going to be some groups that will not be happy with the candidate chosen. I have a trans son. I worry.

aug 28, 2025, 12:49 pm • 1 0 • view
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Wintersong @wintersong.bsky.social

If Democrats win elections while saying trans people should lose the rights they currently have, and shouldn't gain any further rights, then trans people will lose their rights for at least a generation. Look at how fast that's happening in the UK now that being anti-trans is mainstream politics

aug 28, 2025, 10:46 pm • 6 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

I understand that and as I stated before I have a trans son that I worry about a lot. But for analogy imagine that you're drowning and the only way you could be saved is by someone grabbing you by the genitals. It's going to be painful and maybe even damaging long-term but you will survive and heal.

aug 29, 2025, 12:13 pm • 0 0 • view
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Wintersong @wintersong.bsky.social

Dude, stop dancing around it and say you’re willing to sacrifice your kid’s life to potentially save a lot of other folks. That’s a position many people will be sympathetic to, as long as you don’t expect the people *being* sacrificed to agree.

aug 29, 2025, 1:49 pm • 0 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

I have literally no clue what in the hell you are referring to. You think that because I like what Gavin newsome is doing that I'm willing to sacrifice my son's life? You must be the dumbest fuck on this platform.

aug 29, 2025, 5:23 pm • 0 0 • view
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Wintersong @wintersong.bsky.social

You’re talking about saving people, even if it’s uncomfortable, and we’re trying to tell you that these policies WON’T save trans people, they will doom them. You’re advocating for politicians whose policies could LITERALLY kill your kid, and have killed people like them.

aug 29, 2025, 5:37 pm • 1 0 • view
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Wintersong @wintersong.bsky.social

So maybe you’re not willing to sacrifice your trans kid, but you want other parents to be willing to sacrifice their trans kids. That’s selfish and cruel.

aug 29, 2025, 5:37 pm • 0 0 • view
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Wintersong @wintersong.bsky.social

A world in which your kid can’t get healthcare, or use a public restroom, or be around children, is literally where the UK is getting to right now in under a center-left government. Many people just can’t survive under those restrictions. And trans kids, like your kids once was, are dying.

aug 29, 2025, 1:55 pm • 1 0 • view
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Sin(éad) @tidbit.bsky.social

I think you should spend less time talking to trans leftists online and more time educating yourself and (more importantly) your son. If you’d like a list of books/authors I’d recommend I’d be happy to dm you.

aug 29, 2025, 12:15 pm • 6 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

Also, if you can name a candidate that you think would be perfect next Presidential run give me their name and I promise you I will be able to come up with at least five things that prove that person to be ill fitted for the job. There are no perfect candidates and everyone wants their agenda met.

aug 29, 2025, 12:22 pm • 0 0 • view
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Sin(éad) @tidbit.bsky.social

I don’t think a perfect political candidate exists, I very much believe in electing policies not people but that being said, the inverse is not true. There are disqualifying factors, Newsom has hit a bunch of them.

aug 29, 2025, 12:29 pm • 1 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

Sure I'd welcome a list I already have a few books but if there are others you think would be beneficial I would certainly be open suggestion. This whole thing is new to me as I only discovered his secret life a couple of years ago and he doesn't live at home so it was easily kept from the family.

aug 29, 2025, 12:18 pm • 0 0 • view
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Sin(éad) @tidbit.bsky.social

Here you go 🩷

August 29, 2025 at 08:59 So I know it may seem like we've been arguing, but you've been incredibly open and respectful throughout and it's clear that we agree that this political moment has been infuriating and frightening. So I'm choosing to put a fair bit of effort in here and I hope I don't regret it. What I want to purvey in passing along these recommendations is that instead of settling for the next candidate they put in front of us, I want you to think about *why* the system keeps failing, even when it seems to be on Trap Door: Trans Cultural Production and the Politics of Visibility - Reina Gossett, Eric A. Stanley, and Johanna Burton This is a collection of essays, conversations, and artworks that directly critique the The Right to Maim: Debility, Capacity, Disability - by Jasbir K. Puar The
aug 29, 2025, 1:00 pm • 11 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

I will check these resources out however would I caution you to be open-minded as well. I'm 55 years old and have been involved in politics in one way or another since 1988. If you think people are constantly attacking you and the entire world is out to get you generally leads to a victim complex.

aug 29, 2025, 5:29 pm • 0 0 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

Government officials have spent the past few days talking about rounding us all up and putting us in camps. It's not a victim complex. It's fucking situational awareness.

aug 29, 2025, 6:31 pm • 1 1 • view
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Sin(éad) @tidbit.bsky.social

Dude, I spent 40 minutes writing you a personalised list to back up the fundamental ideas and principles that make up my personal belief system. Your response to that is you’re older than me and I should be open minded? This is the exact problem with Liberals and this 50yr scourge of neoliberalism.

aug 29, 2025, 5:41 pm • 14 0 • view
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Wintersong @wintersong.bsky.social

The person you’re responding to also is acting like he is the adult and we’re all children who need to be told how the “real world” works. I’m not that much younger than he is, but also age isn’t the only arbiter of knowledge or experience

aug 29, 2025, 5:46 pm • 10 0 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

I pity your son for his father is willing to watch millions of people like him die because you don't want to bother finding a candidate that isn't willing to sacrifice a minority group for political gains that never materialize.

aug 29, 2025, 6:27 pm • 6 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

With your vitriolic attitude it's not surprising people want to put you in a concentration camp. And never did I say that I wasn't willing to look for another candidate. Perhaps reading comprehension isn't one of your skills. So fuck you back. With that attitude nobody's going to want to help you

aug 29, 2025, 7:01 pm • 0 0 • view
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Former bulletin board power user @thatguywasfly.bsky.social

"it's not surprising people want to put you in a concentration camp" This is really the kind of thing that, once you type it out, you should re-read and see if maybe it makes you sound like a pyschopath.

aug 30, 2025, 3:59 pm • 13 1 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

You previously framed your reluctance to do more than "sympathize" with "I don't think the trans vote is worth much" as though our rights and existence were dependent on population size. You also seem to find it justified that people want us dead for being rude, so pardon me for being uncharitable.

aug 29, 2025, 7:33 pm • 5 0 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

We've been nice and cordial in our fight for health care, equity, and basic human rights for years so please, oh magnificent one, excuse those of us who saw it gain us nothing so we switched rhetorical tactics.

aug 29, 2025, 7:38 pm • 4 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

Do you disagree that the trans vote is it's less than 900,000 total for the country? Do you think that any politician would consider that a "game changing" demographic? What I said is factual not defamatory or demeaning.

aug 29, 2025, 7:46 pm • 0 0 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

Again, you are framing whether or not we deserve basic human rights on population size, of which there are approximately 2.7+ million of us in the US. I find it as disgusting as saying, "babies can't vote, so we'll let 3 million die instead of literally doing anything."

aug 29, 2025, 7:52 pm • 5 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

You're putting words in my mouth and accusing me of things that I haven't said and haven't done so I think we're done here.

aug 29, 2025, 7:54 pm • 0 0 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

No, I'm rejecting the offensive framing you are using. Do vulnerable minorities deserve human rights or not? Do you think fighting for their rights is appropriate if only to prevent future escalation and the eradication of other minority groups? Have you read the "first they came for" poem?

aug 29, 2025, 7:58 pm • 4 1 • view
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Ms. Maxwellmusic 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxmaxwellmusic.bsky.social

Would you let the entire population of Kansas be stripped of human rights and health care and then be killed by the government because the population size is about the same as trans people.

aug 29, 2025, 7:54 pm • 2 0 • view
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kate 🍉 @housepiranesi.bsky.social

“The trans vote” being based on the trans population is you implying that only trans people will vote in favor of protecting their own rights. The actual voting population is much larger than that bc some people actually care about and vote in favor of protecting others

aug 30, 2025, 3:53 pm • 6 0 • view
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Vera/Josh Mitchell @verasev.bsky.social

Jesus, buddy. Calm down. Have a snickers.

aug 30, 2025, 4:27 pm • 2 0 • view
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kate 🍉 @housepiranesi.bsky.social

I think people who are mean to me online still deserve their human rights, actually

aug 30, 2025, 3:56 pm • 13 1 • view
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Sin(éad) @tidbit.bsky.social

Gavin Newsom thinks your son shouldn’t get healthcare til he’s 25 and he has gleefully told two RW podcast hosts as such. We need to actively discourage people from supporting Gavin Newsom and not give them even an inch on this shit.

aug 28, 2025, 1:10 pm • 4 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

To me it's much more nuanced than that. Gavin newsom can want in one hand and shit in the other and see which one fills up first. I would obviously prefer someone else and they're probably will be someone else but in the meantime he's taking the wind out of trump's sales and I dig it.

aug 28, 2025, 1:22 pm • 2 1 • view
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Brainspore @brainspore.bsky.social

Trans rights are human rights. A politician who would sacrifice trans people the second he believes it will give him a momentary political advantage will sacrifice you too. As for Gavin running in 2028, his POTUS ambitions have been clear since his Mayoral days to those who have been watching him.

aug 28, 2025, 1:49 pm • 1 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

Although his ambitions are clear that does not mean that he will be the nominee. I remember some of the shitty things that he's done and if there were a better choice I would definitely take it but right now he has got trump on the ropes and I am all for that

aug 28, 2025, 8:14 pm • 0 0 • view
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Brainspore @brainspore.bsky.social

All the more reason we have absolutely no obligation to rally around him as if he was the only alternative to Trumpism. We owe it to ourselves and others to keep the DNC honest enough to ensure we don't get a shitty nominee.

aug 28, 2025, 8:19 pm • 2 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

Good luck with that. I don't care if you're a Democrat or a Republican if you are elected into a political office eventually you going to be corrupted. In fact the only ones haven't been are the exception that proves the rule.

aug 28, 2025, 8:23 pm • 0 0 • view
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Brainspore @brainspore.bsky.social

Calling out bad behavior, corruption and prejudice where we see it and demanding better is the only way things improve. Ever.

aug 28, 2025, 8:26 pm • 1 0 • view
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Thomas Everroad @thomaseverroad.bsky.social

I can't argue with that but I would just add that it's a long road until the next presidential election and right now lots of people are loving Gavin newsom but in a year they might not. I'm aware of his shitty past and I would vote for a different candidate if there is one that is up to the task.

aug 28, 2025, 8:30 pm • 0 0 • view