Bodily autonomy, trans stuff, asexuality, neurodivergence, and other assorted interests. Queer, trans non-binary, agender, asexual, and autistic (any pronouns)
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Hollywood thinks there’s a limit on how many actors I can totally lose respect for. Like if enough otherwise-fine people sign onto this project I’ll have to see it as something other than a fundraiser for transphobia. Joke’s on them, I can be disgusted by unlimited numbers of famous people.
Good luck to @zackpolanski.bsky.social I hope when he wins, and I do think he will win, he makes his position so clear that those in the Green Party, who believe there is any debate to be had about trans people, leave. If they don't leave, I hope he shows them the door. No messing around.
Deeply disappointing that the transphobe managed to con his way into a deputy post. The red flags were there (he dodged the LGBTQ+ green survey) but he avoided the issue until the polls were closed and then immediately started vocally supporting transphobia.
Cis people should never have been allowed to learn “AFAB/AMAB”
Hey, medical professionals: gonna need you to back way the hell off on judging disabled folks’ distrust of you. Many if not most of us have been subjected to humiliation, invalidation, or literal pain by members of your profession. Maybe practice some active listening or a self craniorectomy.
"We've spent years telling people to hate these other people, and now that people hate these other people we have no choice but to listen to the people that hate them"
"We didn't actually mean *all* lives matter"
Don't cis people ever stop talking over trans people?
No, really. I have a trans daughter who agrees with everything I say. She's totally real.
Transhobes will say I transitioned for the societal privilege and capital of being a Black woman. The most respected and cherished of people, all over the world.
Trying to hit a $70 goal today! Please share!
no matter your politics it’s disrespectful to joke about someone’s death. don’t say rudy giuliani died from driving his car into a wall painted to look like a tunnel and all his clothes flew off in the crash and then a sixteen wheeler semi truck ran over his dick and balls. don’t say stuff like that
"The recent attacks on trans rights." Obviously, you know nothing of trans people or our history. Just lecturing trans people from a place of total ignorance. I can't fucking deal with cis people anymore. There are no allies. Just mountains of bullshit.
Stop compromising with transphobes. Stop treating their bullshit like it's reasonable. Stop building coalitions with transphobes. Educate and rehabilitate who you can and shut out those you can't. Put your cis body and presence in between ours and theirs and be the first line of defense and attack.
I agree that they're useless and won't actually change anything.
Cis people talking about us like an abstract concept doesn't help. They get all the attention while actual trans people are ignored. Their voice doesn't do shit for me if my healthcare is outlawed and I can't exist in public.
Maybe I'm just fucking tired of hearing cis opinions about trans lives. Like we're all supposed to clap and tell them what great people they are for doing the absolute bare minimum. While she spends mountains of money to destroy our lives.
I was right about Your Party. Disgusting transphobia!
"If the Democrats don't win, we'll lose the soul of this country!" My good bitch, the soul of this country is racism and genocide. Satan will be using the soul of this country as a jizz rag no matter who wins whatever election. Fuck your fanfic vision of America. Save actual humans.
Going to be really clear: I don't give a fuck about your democracy if all of my friends are suffering or dead.
Pure gender was created in a horrific teleporter accident. My gender was separated from me. Making me agender This purely distilled gender now roams the earth as an amorphous blob. Devouring everything it touches. It can not be stopped It could have been worse. At least I didn't turn into a fly
"The Republican Party wants to pull YOUR teenage daughter's pants down in the middle of gym class if they think she's too good at lacrosse, this is vile and depraved and only the start of their intrusive government overreach" should be the party line and I don't think it's a heavy lift
Im sorry to ask, but I’m a disabled chronically ill trans woman with no income in Trump’s America and I’m trying very hard to survive and recover. Could you see your way to helping me with a donation? #transcrowdfund #disability #crowdfunding #gofundme 💸💕💕💸
Something a lot of trans people need to realise is we are not all transitioning into the same person. What works for you won't necessarily work for me. And my end point won't be your end point. Me I'm at the end of my transition, there is not a single thing I want to change about my body, voice or
I know I’m relentlessly harping on this eugenics thing and I’m gonna take a break from it but I’m just so tired of watching ableds discover eugenics for the first time and drawing all the wrong conclusions when literally many of us disabled folks RIGHT HERE explaining it and have been for YEARS
Every single thing, EVERY SINGLE THING, that RFK has done was predictable and predicted. He is doing what every other fascist eugenicist has done before him. The disability community has been warning about this for YEARS. It is not in any way shape or form mysterious and unknowable.
Reminder that Caroline Criado Perez is a transphobe and men and women do not have different heart attack symptoms www.bhf.org.uk/what-we-do/n...
I'm aware several cast members support trans rights. That's not the point. The point is the opinions of cis people, no matter how famous, shouldn't be centered constantly in conversations about trans oppression.
I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset. In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia. In 2005 I started medical transition. (1/13)
Autism and proprioception (something I don’t see talked about enough!) Proprioception differences in autism may be why… - you easily bump into things - fine motor skills are hard e.g. doing buttons - you enjoy pushing, pulling or squeezing things - you love deep pressure like weighted blankets
Obviously, we need to start making pink toilets and blue toilets, so the toilets know what gender they are.
The subhead has been fixed "After three years using the toilets and facilities for her gender, suddenly a nurse is told she can’t do so anymore" And, for the record, ALL toilets are gender free. Porcelain, tile, drywall and metal do not contain gender.
In response to my rant yesterday, I was asked how we can make better parks and other public places for teenage girls? What do they want? I have answers to this, so now a positive 🧵. Starting in Sweden, where this was co-designed by teenage girls.
New Mexico has issued a public health order that removes federal restrictions to COVID-19 vaccine access so that pharmacies in New Mexico can vaccinate people of all ages and risk profiles. Every state need to do this!
if you read that something "worsens autism" try replacing that with "hurts &/or upsets Autistic people" & see if anything shifts it's not going to be appropriate or make a difference *every* time but when approaching research it's fascinating how they want to skip the part where the human suffers
How about everyone on the cast donate an equal amount to trans people that she donates to fund transphobia? Otherwise, their different opinion doesn't mean shit.
Probably because we have all of them blocked.
If y’all have anything to give, my friend @quiara.net is disabled, nonbinary, and living in the Deep South - trying to raise funds to get out and go live somewhere safe. Any help you can give would be greatly appreciated.
I’m going to say this louder this time: if you are lying about having a high-risk condition to get a Covid vaccine, all good, do what you want to do BUT show some actual goddamn respect for people who *actually* have that condition and start masking.
It's a good thing there are plenty of really great queer authors that you could give your money to instead.
Stop giving the quack organization credit. Autism speaks is an extremist organization. Who do you think supported RFK Junior in the first place?! you’re putting us in danger. Do not fucking work with them. Do not fucking give them any credit ever.
Many late-diagnosed #autistic people feel regretful or angry that they weren’t diagnosed sooner. I understand why, but if it helps at all: My sister was diagnosed when we were kids & her diagnosis just got her put in torturous ABA therapy & SPED classes that didn’t challenge her intellectually. 1/2
Whew, that's a relief. At least the cis gays are safe. They can continue to sit out whatever battles are ahead.
I don't know whether progesterone helps with breast growth; I wasn't personally able to put together a mechanism for how it could do so, but I'm not a doctor. I also don't know if it helps libido. However, I think it should be prescribed for everything *else* it does, because that shit rocks
🚨 you cannot be neuro-affirming and be transphobic at the same time these are mutually exclusive terms diametrically opposed states of being not possible to embody concurrently thank you for your attention to this urgent matter
Saw a skeet that said “I’m an atheist but last night I prayed for one very particular thing” and do you know how much you gotta hate a mfer to pray for their death to a god you don’t believe in?
Dear White People, It is okay to just say Native American. You don't have to do that weird pause thing or say it as if you're using air quotes. If you are feeling a little unsure, it is okay to ask us what term is preferable or even what tribe specifically.
We spend so much time talking about the harms of systemic racism and I think sometimes we don’t allow ourselves to take a moment to say, actually it’s personally, emotionally hurtful
Your Party has got a transphobic MP before they’ve even gotten a name!
I imagine that situation is much worse with the current administration. It doesn't look like there will be much trans related research in the US for a long time.
Sexism and racism filter out anyone who isn't a white cis boy. Oh, look! The numbers reflect that.
There's plenty of anecdotal evidence about the mental effects of HRT. Enough to justify a bunch of studies, but these studies haven't been done because cis researchers won't listen to us. Our healthcare doesn't matter. Just read the replies to this thread. bsky.app/profile/void...
HRT saves lives banning it kills people any questions?
please don’t give up on transitioning no matter how hateful the world is, they need to know that we will never disappear like they want us to, we need to keep fighting. don’t feel shame in who you are, pursuing your happiness and becoming who you were always meant to be is something truly beautiful
SWer babes drop your MA, rent needs, and goals below!! We are all being crushed by white supremacy, whorephobia, and capitalism. Everyone else pls RS and help if you can!
Vaccines don't cause autism. Cis white boys get diagnosed more because of sexism and racism. Try harder.
You're afraid to say fucking, but ableism is totally fine? That sounds about right.
They should make injectable estrogen you can shoot like a blood vial
This won't have any impact on the broader narrative or the understanding the far-right has of this case, but for trans people who struggle, please, for the love of god, do not become a black-pilled far right detransitioner. It's an utterly destructive path. Nothing good lies that way.
How is it that despite every single trans person I know being aware of the "Don't Debate Fascists" rule, there is at least one person a month who decides that debating Matty Y. is a good idea, actually.
Still no movement yet!!! still hoping to get this met, food is getting kinda low ^^; #MutualAid #HelpSky #HelpFolksLive #TransCrowdFund
Just want to say thank you to all the cis folks out there standing up for us, especially those of you who are doing so despite being marginalized yourselves. We see you, and we appreciate you so, so much. 💙
they’re calling the most recent shooter in minnesota trans to ignore the fact that there has been an organized group of far-right suicidal school shooters and this person is very likely going to be linked to them as well
my recommendation if the dnc asks you onto their podcast to "debate" your existence with anyone, let alone matt yglesias: simply do not do that instead
please help or help to share. we're trans elders close to disaster *soon*. nothing for 11 days now. 😭 i've got crushing fatigue/pain from CIDP/ME. waiting for repeatedly delayed appt w/ neuro in oct we got less than 10% of what we needed this month much less what's overdue. please help us. 💜🦄 💕💸
Gotta love the Misogyny, Liberal Troll, and Transphobia labels on that account.
The more I understand about autism, the more I think about how it’s not *just* about being autistic It’s the exhaustion. The loneliness. The migraines. The bullying. The sleep issues. The struggle to feel safe, to belong… With a nervous system that feels like it’s often on fire #AutismAwareness
Kimmy is a very good novel and it’s absurd that it (and works like it) have to go unlisted. Offset the damage this will do to sales by checking it out if you’re down for an upsetting book that’s like getting punched in the gut over and over again, but good.
Fear of being caught supporting abortion access for young people is a big part of how we ended up with trans kids under attack in this country — we consistently threw young people under the bus on abortion, and it opened up a huge opportunity for right-wingers to go after gender-affirming care, too.
The U.S. repro rights movement has been absolutely terrified of full-throatedly supporting young people's abortion access for years and years and years and anti-abortion politicians take advantage of it constantly. And now they're doing it again. Young people deserve bodily autonomy. Period.
I don't generally expect apologies from douchebags, so that tracks.
I'm the shadow that lives in the walls. The nightmare that haunts their waking mind I'm the thoughts they refuse to think. The horrible presence in a darkened room that disappears with the light I'm the horror show. I revel in their terror and laugh at their fear I scare fascists just by existing
RFK said, "the Autism is such a tremendous horror show". ...AND if by that he's saying he's afraid of us, GOOD. You should be. We will outlive you, you orange leather bag of steaming manure. I hope you're terrified.
A birth certificate is a record of an event made by observers. It is not an indication of who anyone is years later. Like a marriage certificate is a record of an event, not what a marriage is now.
"Autism is a disability that isn't inherently quirky or cute, it negatively affects people's everyday lives and should be discussed as such" and "Autistic people self-identifying using language like 'touch of the tism' helps normalize aspects of autism to the public" are absolutely compatible takes
Black women have been the Cassandra of the last decade (longer really) warning you of the dangers ahead. And everyone is so used to ignoring Black women's voices we're now at exactly the point you wanted to avoid. Imagine if anyone had listened to calls to protect the Voting Rights Act.
On the one hand it feels weird how many of my PhD cohort turned out to be AuDHD but on the other hand the final challenge of your PhD is just you infodumping on a captive audience for several hours based on a book you wrote about your years-long obsession so tbh it checks out.
if you are a cis person with questions about trans people, feel free to ask here and i will try to answer (and likely a lot of others will too) safe harbor for awkward, weird, misguided, and inappropriate questions (these are fun to answer!) not a safe harbor for bad faith arguing
At this point, I think I could diagnose someone as being autistic based solely on how they talk about gender.
Being indifferent or ambivalent about gender is very common with autistic people (both cis and trans). Some people refer to this as autigender. I've had this same conversation with multiple autistic people on here.
"For those of us—like me—who are also navigating racism, ableism, & multiple disabilities, the world is not designed for our sustained regulation. Basically, we’re always fighting. It doesn’t mean that we’re stuck, but we have to get creative." @autastic.com: thinkingautismguide.com/2025/08/dian...
Borders are bullshit. You're a bunch of fascists.
Is she on bluesky? She should see how you post before saying yes to anything.
Stop giving useless cis people a platform. There are plenty of trans people who are directly harmed by rowling's money. Why not give them a platform? Instead, we hear about some cis jackass making the blandest of statements. He still supports the new show, so he's a fucking transphobe.
Before transitioning I was a respectability-politics lesbian. Even post-transition my career, my manner of dress, and my work is very palatable to the mainstream. Because of that I think it's particularly important to talk about why I reject respectability politics and you should too. Short 🧵
This is what happens when psychologists take an ahistorical perspective on their work. For the rest of us, it's a big pile of WTF.
trump is just the mask that the monster is wearing this is exactly who america is
liberals don't want to end fascism, just rebrand and preside over it
My bras are worn out, making me hyper aware of my chest and how heavy it is and it's making me very uncomfortable and dysphoric about my chest 🥺 If anyone wants to help me fund some new bras so I can have the right pressure on my chest, this enby would be mighty appreciative. Cashapp: $Smashleynom
In recent weeks. US journalists are fucking useless. My neighbor's dog pays more attention than you.
Yeah. The organized atheist movement is full of racists, bigots, sex pests, and pedophiles. That's why I left. It was just like being in the christian church I grew up in.
A free country for who?
I *hate* the "terminally/chronically online" pejorative. If I wasn't "terminally online" for so much of the last several years I wouldn't have transitioned and I'd be dead.
The guy who gets credit for hiring a social media person to make AI generated memes? He is a fascist. His supporters are totally fine with fascism. They just hate trump.
It just seems like politicians get tons of credit for doing the tiniest little things. Democrats calling trump a fascist 10 years ago may have accomplished something. Not sure what it accomplishes when there's already a fascist boot on everyone's head.
I call him a fascist all the time. I've been calling him that for a decade. Now, what?
The only time cis people even remember that trans people exist is when they show up to lecture us like children.
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