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Bren

@lemmefinishk.bsky.social

Blue dot in a red state. Data head / motor head / speed freak. Love herding dogs and yarn arts. Currently figuring out retirement and iOS development

created November 14, 2024

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šŸ“Œ

16/9/2025, 2:01:52 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Jesus I don’t miss that as a female in dev. I got very lucky a few times with bosses who didn’t tolerate that shit and I believe that’s the type of boss I became.

15/9/2025, 9:05:49 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Or salt. Too often things are under salted.

15/9/2025, 2:52:47 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Balsamic vinegar if it’s just missing something. Or butter / cream if it’s kind of weak.

15/9/2025, 2:51:43 AM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m sorry you’ve reached this milestone. An unfortunate part of better or worse but I know I’ll be in some type of the same position eventually. Love is love no matter what. But also remember that asking for help is also a part of love and you don’t have to take the entire burden on yourself

15/9/2025, 2:48:51 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Whelp - got a follow from me. Totally agree.

15/9/2025, 12:51:01 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This exactly explains my thoughts on him

14/9/2025, 10:23:06 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Same only it was my grandpa - everyday for lunch :-)

14/9/2025, 9:11:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Thank you for these shots - there are many many things I miss about MN - luckily my fam still lives there and I visit multiple times a year - but I really miss how photographic it is. Not the winter though 😳

14/9/2025, 4:05:50 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I often add a can of rinsed beans and perhaps some chicken or hamburger if I have around.

12/9/2025, 8:38:12 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Damn it - back to the store. You’re a genius - I love people who come up with new ways of using things.

11/9/2025, 3:08:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Can you even call yourself a dev if you haven’t f’d up a major prod system at least once in your career? Lord knows I did.

8/9/2025, 2:29:54 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And part of the cavity issue is that kids are drinking more and sometimes exclusively bottled water - if your home water isn’t safe or doesn’t taste good they aren’t going to get the fluoride from the water. I know a 4 year old with a mouth 9 cavities since her mom exclusively drinks bottled water.

5/9/2025, 1:17:19 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Current browned butter favorite is browned butter maple blondies.

4/9/2025, 11:07:54 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The margaritas in the ice cream maker is the line that threw me - I’ve done the rest after a Costco haul but never thought about repurposing the ice cream maker. Alton Brown would be proud of the alternative usage

4/9/2025, 10:32:56 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh man - once you pull a tortilla out of the pan and slather it with butter you will find yourself making tortillas far more often than you thought.

4/9/2025, 2:45:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I love my library - great books for kindle - books to hold in your hands plus games / movies and other fun things you can borrow. Plus they host blood drives and crochet / knitting peeps.

3/9/2025, 10:15:48 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So I watch reels on FB - i love this history one. If you haven’t seen one of her reels or a podcast I highly recommend. www.facebook.com/whodidwhatno...?

3/9/2025, 10:13:01 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Me a few days ago. Likely pick it up again tomorrow - not quite sure WTF is going on - likely the fault of the keyboard user in my case …

1/9/2025, 9:35:01 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Hmm. I have an old Mac sitting in my closet whispering to me to do something with it. This sounds like a good idea.

1/9/2025, 2:00:04 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I fell victim to that a couple times - no one prepared Americans for 11% beer 15 years ago.

31/8/2025, 11:30:18 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I have donated cases of the smaller bottles of vegetable oil. Lots of things need that and it’s not often donated. I didn’t even think about the period products so I’ll add those also for my next trip.

31/8/2025, 10:31:45 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Hmmm. That sounds lovely for personal coding - my last job my team had pretty strict rules that it had to at least state what had changed - however you could add additional color.

31/8/2025, 2:56:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Given I would watch Helen Mirren butter toast and drink tea for 90 minutes I liked it. It’s not a tidy ending but a decent movie all the same. I did recently see Brosnan in the last rifleman - I did like that one also

31/8/2025, 2:52:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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You are far more tame on your commit comments than I or any Eng I’ve ever worked with - by the tenth there would be profanity and by 15 questioning why the universe is trying to make me lose my mind.

31/8/2025, 2:47:43 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yes it is - although I fully admit I’m not so sure we would have been as ready for a life together then as we are now. But now is absolutely lovely.

27/8/2025, 7:23:11 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Congrats. Met my sweet man August of 83. Engaged November of same year and told I was too young etc and broke up. Engaged again November 2017 - wed December 2018. Happiest I’ve ever been.

27/8/2025, 7:14:09 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yup yup yup

27/8/2025, 7:05:21 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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From everything I’ve heard and seen in KC about Travis he is a credit to any one who wants to be a good man / person. I haven’t followed her as much in the last several years but all indications are that they are both good people regardless of their celebrity status so I expect they will do well.

27/8/2025, 6:23:34 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This

27/8/2025, 6:10:23 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Annnnnd this is the OTHER reason I follow you.

27/8/2025, 1:51:24 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I love the show Wednesday but these two are the ultimate Gomez and Morticia

25/8/2025, 12:31:31 AM | 25 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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As a person born and raised in the north - I think I’m doing this southern thing right - brisket on the smoker - bourbon and some onions cooking down on the smoker.

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24/8/2025, 9:51:08 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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When I moved to Kansas City I made a point to live on the KS side. Mind you - still a red state but we aren’t Missouri. Oddly enough living in Leavenworth where it seems like every other person is paid by the govt it’s still more liberal than MO - people here are not ok with an ICE detention spot.

24/8/2025, 9:44:01 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Blues brothers - we got both kinds here - music AND fun

24/8/2025, 5:39:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I freaking felt this one

23/8/2025, 1:57:58 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m old enough to remember listening to him on underground radio and lucky enough to be from MN and was able to see him from the early days in the little joint attached to First Ave to seeing him in stadiums. Never disappointed.

23/8/2025, 1:45:46 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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What would you recommend as a starter?

22/8/2025, 11:31:52 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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One damned thing after another. I read voraciously so always looking for new authors to read.

22/8/2025, 11:22:17 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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If you’re in the north the grits are acceptable. However - if you are in a state with a Waffle House then nothing there is acceptable. Once I moved to the south I understood what southern food should taste like - Heaven. No sweet tea? Wrong restaurant

22/8/2025, 11:17:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m read testing as it were - using the unlimited. However - if I like it I generally go back and pay the small sum because I feel slightly scummy paying only Bezos and not the person who actually created something.

22/8/2025, 11:09:52 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Hero’s

22/8/2025, 1:28:48 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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As a sr director in software it was not unusual for me to jump in on QA, code reviews, arch reviews etc. I was still doing production code weekly. I despised working for someone who had no idea how to do my job so I never wanted to be ā€œthat leaderā€

21/8/2025, 7:48:22 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I hope that the hiring people realize you know and can do the hard shit - and learning excel and word is easy. When I was hiring if they knew the hard stuff but didn’t know all the ins and outs of a MSOffice product that was not an issue.

21/8/2025, 12:55:32 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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From my experience AI really isn’t good at math. It can do things like simpler queries but kind of cacks when asked to do very complex queries to get the numbers to run calculations is a hard no. And do not get me started on what the visualizations look like when you ask AI to do them.

19/8/2025, 9:41:17 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yup

19/8/2025, 4:02:29 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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That is the type of tree I wanted as a kid - just to sit and read a book in the branches.

19/8/2025, 1:59:40 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Visualizations is where I ended up - along with data cleaning. Far more challenging than you’d think but more tangible results along the way.

19/8/2025, 1:57:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And now I wait. Generally would get the first of a series from the library to determine if I want to purchase but neither of my libraries have it so have ordered a hard copy - pretty sure I’ll love it. Have you read the Honor Harrington books by David Webber? Love those too.

19/8/2025, 1:43:52 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Southern tomato pie is my current fixation - pie crust spread with a thin layer of spicy mustard - sliced tomatoes and then pimento cheese to fill the crust. Delightful.

19/8/2025, 1:38:22 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Me too.

19/8/2025, 1:36:53 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Lovely - I feel this painting.

19/8/2025, 12:05:05 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Ooh - I haven’t read those by her - I have read all the Vorkosigan ones.

18/8/2025, 7:32:45 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Not only does she write flaming posts she’s got a hell of a personal style going. Love it.

15/8/2025, 10:56:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’d prefer you didn’t

13/8/2025, 1:52:11 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Same. Having socialized and worked with multiple trans people - I don’t get the animosity- they are just f’ing people. It seems so many people hate them without ever knowingly having spoken to one.

13/8/2025, 1:37:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Jesus I’m tired of this. Saying gay marriage is as stupid as saying black doctor or female engineer. It’s marriage / doctor / engineer.

12/8/2025, 8:58:06 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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How in gods name can the government be staffed by such ignorant people? Stop with the bullshit to deflect and release the Epstein files with ONLY the victims info obscured

12/8/2025, 2:19:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I like where you are going with this……

11/8/2025, 9:12:47 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Tytyty back ordered but worth the wait

10/8/2025, 10:19:08 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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That is amazing.

10/8/2025, 9:15:25 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh - where can I find this

10/8/2025, 3:33:26 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I don’t even remember what word I said this weekend while with a bunch of family but it was like everyone stopped, glared at me and basically said ā€œcan you not?ā€ I can’t help it I love words.

24/7/2025, 10:04:15 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So happy for you that you found something that helps.

24/7/2025, 6:18:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Still funny today - not many shows you can say that about.

24/7/2025, 4:13:42 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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My free library has the ability to choose to get it later - and you can choose about when it shows back up which is quite lovely.

24/7/2025, 4:09:07 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Epic response on both.

23/7/2025, 10:40:39 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It’s not quite out in the US yet but requested it from both my local bookshop as well as my library.

23/7/2025, 2:58:34 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Made me snort coffee. Worth it

14/7/2025, 1:52:50 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Beard not a mullet is how I trained my husband to do it correctly.

13/7/2025, 2:38:04 PM | 3 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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That was my first thought - although I was thinking Mountain Dew

12/7/2025, 4:20:08 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Nailed it.

11/7/2025, 4:59:23 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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First album bought with my own money.

9/7/2025, 2:04:26 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So I finally caved and bought an Apple Watch - I’ve been insisting that I wouldn’t do this for years. However - my 53 year old younger brother passed away from a massive heart attack with no warning 2 months ago. No autopsy so now I’m worried about my heart - I’m 8 years older.

8/7/2025, 8:51:12 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Bree (blue Merle) and Nikki (red Merle) say welcome Freya

Blue Merle Aussie sitting on the concrete and a red Merle Aussie laying on the grass in the back yard.
8/7/2025, 3:09:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I don’t think I’m getting off this planet but a smarter timeline would be acceptable.

6/7/2025, 6:11:25 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Canine ass miasma is now a phrase I’m going to be looking to use. Since I have two Aussies it shouldn’t take long.

6/7/2025, 6:09:56 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I love it. Congratulations and well done.

6/7/2025, 3:04:01 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Super nice - it’s that type of stuff that shows how good the coding actually is. Spoken as a former developer / dev leader.

5/7/2025, 3:26:35 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Man - that would help immensely when packing for a vacation

4/7/2025, 10:35:25 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh - now I need this 🤣

4/7/2025, 10:32:07 PM | 12 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This is the ENTIRE reason I am on the internet.

4/7/2025, 7:34:39 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’ve seen the quiet ears for reactive dogs but not sure how or if they will work for thunder and big booms. I am going to try them to calm my dog when the neighbors dogs go out. One side she loves - other side she wants to murder. Course she’s 25lb and the smallest of those three is at least 50 so

3/7/2025, 11:03:55 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And to be clear - we try very hard to be there when is thundering or when all your southern neighbors feel like blowing shit up.

3/7/2025, 10:58:27 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah - we found Thunder shirts help lots of dogs but not all - depending on their level we’ve had success with hemp chews or Benadryl also

3/7/2025, 10:57:04 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Years of earning tips taught me that those who can afford it the least are often the best tippers. Now that I actually can afford it I tip exceedingly well for decent service and go up from there.

3/7/2025, 2:14:14 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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These people keep threatening us with a great time but never follow through.

1/7/2025, 8:29:16 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I swear this is the weirdest political timeline ever. In the last 12 months I’ve found myself agreeing with people I dispose and utterly enraged at some that I generally agree with. I mean seriously?

30/6/2025, 10:43:25 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh - please go. I’ve been to several over the years and I’ve always met the most amazing welcoming people.

28/6/2025, 6:02:56 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So tired of yelling WTF when I get online.

26/6/2025, 12:02:57 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m a huge fan from a deep red flyover state.

25/6/2025, 9:52:55 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Exactly.

25/6/2025, 9:50:07 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m so sorry- losing a fit baby is so hard.

25/6/2025, 9:44:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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If I had to choose just one King book this would be the one - read it every couple years for the last 45 and still has the ability to pull me in completely

25/6/2025, 2:29:46 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Realized my headache was from clenching my teeth for the last 24 hours - haven’t done that since I retired last August.

24/6/2025, 2:22:04 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Excellent - well done.

24/6/2025, 2:14:14 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Knife Lake MN #Scape #landscape

Sunset on a lake with trees in the foreground.
20/6/2025, 4:17:05 PM | 14 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I can travel with like three people - prefer by myself but luckily my husband is one of the ones who doesn’t make me want to push him out of the car while doing 80

18/6/2025, 1:09:09 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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IMHO even when it appeared to be all white men - it wasn’t. They just got (read took) the credit.

18/6/2025, 12:57:20 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This. All day long. No one gets shot done like black women

18/6/2025, 12:18:02 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view