TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
That's great, Strider. I enjoy seeing you in my feed for the same reason. Here, have another lovely picture.
A writer working on a few series, namely The Great Exile (TGE). I also love my cats, like my son Terran. - Mom of a Strawberry Fiend - Bisexual (taken by @jordangrun.bsky.social) - Trans ally (Pronouns she/her)
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That's great, Strider. I enjoy seeing you in my feed for the same reason. Here, have another lovely picture.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
As I've stated before, "Religion isn't the issue, it's twisting words to get what you want and abuse of power." Say it a lot about Christianity but applies here too. Your friend sounds amazing.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
How pathetic they are! I respect my partner is vegetarian, even if I like meat. Also, correct me if I'm wrong, turkey bacon is an option? And plant based slaps too. :D
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
But, Strider... what if the cats eat it? I trust Frosty won't, but then there's Terran.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social)
Hey, I think I need a break from Bluesky. I've been losing my mind recently. I need to focus on kitties and kiddo. I'll be taking care of myself. Y'all do the same.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
She's so pretty
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
@flashtastic.bsky.social @dagmarfaye.bsky.social @all-the-cats.bsky.social @jasthecat.bsky.social @bertie1.bsky.social @vespavixen.bsky.social @empressedyn.bsky.social @evexurki.bsky.social @jaspersfelines.bsky.social I need a list of official sillies.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social)
Hehe, I steelz hooman kitten's mat thing. Iz okay she was sleep. When she wake, I move. I like hooman kitten. ❤️ I headbutt her hand. She pet in return.silliest. #cat
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Wanted! Jerry For the worst crime ever! Being part of a catchphrase ("Jerry, no!") Reward: 1/2 of heaven Report to the makers of Bluesky We want him alive! We aren't on Twitter!
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yayz. I cuddle hooman kitten. She stinky too.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
10/10 I hope you both snuggle.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah, she didn't deserve a kid.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yay
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Ewww! Still better than America where we are trying to take away antidepressants and NOT FUCKING GUNS to stop school shootings.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes, they are liars! Though fun fact, original pineapple on pizza was thin slices of pineapple and not chunks. It tastes good on tomato sauce, as it accents the sweetness and accounting for ham, balance to the savory.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I apologize then. I'm sorry. I get sensitive to the idea as I have been told "I don't deserve to live."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Deal. :D I was still a kid, technically teen years, but yeah. I was enjoying life.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Fashion is not a victimless crime.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes! Motherhood is a choice, and child free is a possible answer. 👍
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
That is true, sadly. Women to the right are just baby factories. But yeah, I am thinking of my experience with motherhood. I did choose to have a baby, and before that, we talked about it. She is my greatest treasure. ❤️
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social)
Why do we treat motherhood as antifeminist? Girl, you are taking care of a tiny human who can't talk and doesn't fully understand the working of the world. And can't talk yet. That's not an easy task. I don't think women should be forced into the role, though. That's the real issue.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Ah! Reminds me of my cringe years. Though for real, she's a good singer.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Hi, Troper :D
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Well, he's a man, and men just know more. Or something. No, more men can't stand women even thinking slightly differently.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
OP would randomly say "Why yes, MAN. Sit down for your bj!" I've met men who just expect us to love any stupid thing that ejects their orfice.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
*waves before sealing it up* I hate women are expected to rather blindly agree with random men. But if we are that clueless, why do they wanna sleep with us?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes. Though my sister said she isn't afraid. I know she'd fight.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh gosh that meme
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Thanks, Obama. I hope we can get more. I was just talking about the Minneapolis shootings and how I realized it's a real possibility that my sister, a teacher, could so easily die just for going to work and likely helping students escape. It isn't normal! Or shouldn't be.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I worry about my sister, who is a teacher. She is really close with her students, going to recitals of some, and pride as an ally. It's cute. She wouldn't let her students die without a fight. Then, these slobbering fucks will see her and children as another number.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Exactly! A person who intends to kill children won't just go "Oops, stupid alarm. Time to go home."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
He doesn't care.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
It's creepy! They like to blame the children and teachers for being at the spot they were supposed to be at. Not the shooter.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
It scares me. My sister is a teacher, and I shouldn't have to worry about getting a call she died at work, likely protecting children because she's a good person, and I have to watch idiots like this blame her for "being there."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah, what will the metal detectors do? They won't disarm, they just go off.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
What? Men being horrible AND suffering the consequences? That feels like a bigger issue. In writing, he can straight up "forgive" a male stalker if his mom didn't hug him. But we will throw a woman in the dirt if she disagrees with Ms. Pick me.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Ah, but I'm sure they have a jealous ex character who is needlessly rude and takes it out of her ex. Her only trait is also "crazy bitch."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself v
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
It is. But yeah. A lot of people will see that as "humanizing him" and proof he's good. But I think about how I was "my brother's sister" while he scoped out my body, but others insisted he was protecting me. The worst abuse happens in front of you.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
From my own experience, BIG RED FLAG! I can't confirm here, but a supremacist who super loves a family member but hates all else? That relationship isn't healthy. The relationship was that was with my eldest brother, and I was his property and something less comfy. Can't help but wonder here.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Probably said "Well he's a man so it's okay." It always starts with that...
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
They are obviously unrelated. Pfft, using logic? What are you, sane? But in reality, yes. We need actual change and not "Let's stop giving medicine, tehe."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yay for puppers
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I have approximate birthdays. Sadly, I lost the first photos, and the only one for sure was Firecracker, but he passed. He was 7/3. Frosty, we got next. She was a month of so later, I'll say 9/2. Terran 5/30 it was around summer. Frosty 9/2 Terran 5/30 Firecracker 7/3 BONUS Hooman kitten 3/14
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
And we all smiled before groaning. "Jerry, no."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Tragic. Though... nope, shouldn't ask.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Cutting off my family based on deep set paranoia. Luckily, unlike Trump, I did begin to wonder if I was paranoid and *gasp* found out I was wrong. I found out I liked it more than victim complex.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
And what do we classify as "weak?" Sickly? Mentally challenged? Perhaps apathetic like you? See, the more boxes you put us in as "healthy," the less people get to live. Also, have fun making the next Charles II of Spain in 50 years because only the "good blood lives." Look him up. Eugenics!
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yay. But really, glad you were likely a good older brother. :)
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
🔥
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Who literally took his OWN GRANDCHILDREN to swim in shit?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
For real! This of all the children who died via misinformation
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I take it sarcasm?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
No doubt the eldest would vote for him. Birds of a feather, right?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Haha
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Sadly, no. It is the "shaken" emoji. Though that looks extra funny.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Me, a zoomer: You played guitars in a puddle of mudd?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I did add a note realizing this was non-sense. You're right, I don't know you. You're probably a good person.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yay?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Need fourth panel where he has X eyes. 😵
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Well, they stopped first gen in 2019. Running for ten plus years. Heard a new line is coming soon.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Did you like them back in the day, too? :D
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
More they how dare they stop selling Webkinz. That was my biggest gripe.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh yeah? Coconut Mall. :D
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Terraris Boss 3 hits hard, ya know?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Disclaimer: I personally didn't like HP. Maybe I read it too late? However, I refuse to call every single fan a bigot. This is #FuckJKRowlingDay and not "fuck people who grew up reading a book they enjoyed even though I didn't." We rage at the rich bigot and only her. #FJKDay
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social)
Hey everyone, #FuckJKRowlingDay is coming up on August 31st. Here's how you can celebrate: * Support the trans community * Support trans and ace artist. (I'm demisexual btw) * Enjoy other magic media. I suggest Dana Terrace's Owl House. Check out her Bluesky, too. * Write your own wizard school.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Don't do drugs
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
On second thought, this post is a bit harsh to you. Sorry about that, I'm sure you are a good person. I've seen the "disowned family member," and we had a reason to do disown him.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Same! If he tried, I'd get my mom shears.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Pfft! I'm not claiming him. I actually am capable of loving my daughter and not taking brain killing drugs, but also thinking I am in the right mindset to manage medicine. I take it you are not a parent. Also, his family DISOWNED HIM! A family doesn't disown unless the member fucked up.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
It's sad. I thought I looked kinda pretty as a blonde. I'd never bleach again (or tan), given it a sort of dog whistle now. At least I learned to love my dark hair and pasty tone. And yeah, as a mom, I never want him discussing my kid's health. He can eat lead!
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
You're right. Don't do drugs, kids. His whole face is a PSA.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Woo hoo!
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I bet Chat gpt couldn't play chess. It would be like this: * Kidnap the chess team captain. * Force them to make you win. * Be a sore winner and brag about your "victory." Also, good riddance to it.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Don't forget 7. Make the shooter somehow a poor victim baby who just snapped. "If we only helped him, poor guy. Let's ignore he murdered innocent people."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Excuse my rambling. In short, yes, they hate children.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Scariest thing my grandmaga said? "I love babies until they can talk. Then they ask too many questions." Or was it "They might be smarter than you?" I can't remember but either way, HOLLY HELL! You're threatened by a 1 year old?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Bravo to you, both.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah! :D I am a cat lady, but not single (no hate to ladies who are. I respect you) But why am I with someone? Simple, they respect me! I'm not their slave who gets "the privilege" of getting to sleep with them. We work together as for our cats (and kid). Stand together.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
"Women are not supposed to.get.wet." - A maga bro I'm terrified at that. Like, bro, if that's the case, stick your d*ck in a concrete hole. I bet it would feel the same and you aren't being a misogynistic crapbag.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Pick me! Pick me! Also, do this laundry list of things for me because I'm a man!
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Unfortunately, it was not one person. In my case, a woman encouraged me to stay in a horrible relationship, even with a man who I was later told, "Wanted to abandon me in England." That was grandmaga. She also disapproved of my relationship with a respectable person who I was an equal to.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah. I kinda dislike "He's secretly gay" narrative. Because if you're like us in the bi crowd, you love your partner and don't necessarily hate women. You just aren't attracted to them. See, I respect gays but not incels who think, "I was in a loose sense nice, now sleep with me."
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Though, what if your husband wants you to be happy and encourages you? Even as a Christian, I hated that phrase as it was used to abuse my aunt and even grandma. I think I was being set up for it. I was lucky to find a good partner who I was equal to. Also, hi Melvin :3
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Nice photo. Looks mid dump. I said this earlier on a different post, but why did so many people who Taylor was dating but didn't yell at men who have multiple marriages and usually date younger women at that?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Did I miss something? /gen also yes! Break their hand with a hammer
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
I get it, but I mean we need to stop focusing on the shooters and focus on the victims and their families.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
No! Didn't need to know Grandmaga was conceived. >_<
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
So cute I almost forget bears can eat me.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Let's not name him. I'm done with the "Poor baby just wasn't loved" bs. I was made a slave to my abuser, but never once thought of killing innocent people. Let's focus on the victims. Make them people,because they are!
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
And then call US crazy for calling them out.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Neat! Might check those out. :D
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Yup, real reason and logic. Not the "vaccines cause autism and we need a cure for autism, etc." Said this to a YouTube advocate of the concept: "Hey, can you use your logic on dirty eugenics like yourself? Stop breeding and find "the cure?" Thanks! See how rude it sounds!"
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Eh, we went for subpar meals, but the real reason we went? The gift shop! :D I loved those stupid nicknacks, though the best? Webkinz! Those are my nostalgia plushies. :3
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
How insane. Can't we just let Taylor be happy yet? The media has never shut up about Taylor having boyfriends, but no one complains that insert male celebrity has had three wives and is shopping for four. 10 year discount too. Reminder: f47's current wife is 7 years older than his first son.
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Simple I only really watch YouTube videos with partner and baby. I said this: 🖕
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
This really sickens me. I went through SA, and I'm a woman, but I would NEVER turn a man away. They are equally valid in struggles. To pretend they don't exist is terrible. How are you different from the people who silenced and laughed at you?
TamelaRedfin (@tamelaredfin.bsky.social) reply parent
Interesting. :D