"ABDL furries are weird and gross!!" You are a coward. You are weak. This fandom is full of bizarre & strange interests and language like this is sawing the support beams of your own home. Use filters. Be an adult. We aren't kicking people out of the restaurant for ordering from a different menu.
I feel similarly whenever people point out that this character's colors was based on a "rape joke" between two other fictional characters. As if people haven't gotten off to or made light of much worse stuff.
100%, I often block people who engage in kinks I personally can't look at, but I don't do it as any sort of moral judgment. And I am TOTALLY into some extremely "out there" kinks, for which I take no offense to people blocking me for the same reason 🤷 that's how it should be. Harassment is never ok
P r e a c h (What's abdl btw)
It's adults roleplaying as underage people.
Adult baby diaper lover if i remember right. Basically adults pretending they are like 0-3 or so.
Oh Sounds funny lmao
It's a little broader than that, actually! There are lots of adults who don't participate in the ageplay side at all. For some people, they just like the diapers (the same way someone else might have an underwear kink). It's a very broad spectrum. But the key is that it's consenting adults.
Eventually people will understand that every antagonist is either a community member in trouble OR a bot/plant and that figuring out how to tell the difference is more important than ever commenting into the void
But kink has been filling in where psychiatry has failed for so long people forget kink is the bandaid not therapy or identity
thanks duino for making my blocklist grow with this post
Not a service I expected to provide but I'm glad it could be of use to someone 🫡
Oh goody, it's this discourse again. Again why is there such a hate-on for ABDL and babyfurs? While it isn't for everyone, as long as nobody is being harmed, then what is the issue?
Exactly; live, and let live
Because a lot of product fandom spaces have had ideologies where certain concepts are inherently damaging, discomfort means harm, and looking similar to harmful things means it's also harmful, aesthetic adjacency And yet their own kinks are ok
Yeah, surely this is a fandom all about letting people be themselves (within the limits of doing no harm to others). Mute and moderation tools exist for a reason. I'm not a fan of numerous different types of content - so I just don't look at them.
Am I into it? No Will I fight for your right to enjoy it? Yeah!
Just for the record, not all ABDL furs are Pamperchu. Most of them are pretty normal people who simply enjoy fantasizing about being young again or wearing plush undergarments. I feel this is one kink that has been tainted in the eyes of others by a bunch of infamous examples. Like Pamperchu.
Who tf is pamperchu and why am I going to regret asking
I advise against digging deeper. All I recall is that they were very squick. I don't recall how bad they were about getting publicly in trouble, but the name brings shudders to the sub community in the public discourse this week.
Basically, a abdl person whos also... mentally unstable, to say the least, who the lolcow communitiess dredged up to be one of their choice targets. Not really worth knowing, since all they are is the Perfect Target:tm: for edgy shitheels.
TurkeyTom does a deep dive on youtube. Watch at your own risk
let's not recommend poorly-researched drama slop, please.
They asked a question, I offered a place with 2 hours of summarized timelines where they could learn
How about we kill lolcow culture dead and just don't watch.
I like learning about terrible people I've never heard of before watching the video
Pamperchu is so funny for us, because like. Nobody I know knows him. Everyone disavows him for his antics and dreadful advice. None of my peers can reference microwaves in ABDL-centric conversations without experiencing a shared, deep sense of journeying into forbidden verbal waters. Is he even real
I don't know if anyone knows Pamperchu, but we all seem to know about him. At this point he's become an urban legend.
Maybe it’s just because I’m 31 and thus ancient by the rules of abdl law but for me the pamperchu esque name is deeker. Which JFC I’m not saying more because if you know you know and if you don’t I’m sorry to introduce the cognitohazard to your perception
Deeker is like just barely before my time (I'm 30). I just wasn't around for it even though I'm aware of it.
OMG I was wondering why that name seemed familiar. At either the last RF or one of the times I went to Furlandia he was with us at dinner at Sharis. He was wearing a onesie.
WHAT YOU SPOTTED HIM??? He's REAL?? That's incredible. He's, like, an urban myth from my perspective
Oh he is real all right. He kissed my ex at an ABDL room party at Vancoufur years & years ago lol
Kinda sounds like you’re better off without that ex
You have no idea how true that is XD
I mean, the fact they made out with Pamperchu, is a massive red flag all on its own.
Unless there's someone else in the area using that name that looks like Bo Burnham
ABDL shows up on my Discover sometimes and I dont like it! But, since I'm an adult who has my own kinks that others may not dig, I just let it go.
I never understood the “kink hierarchy” nonsense; because surely one harmless kink should be the same as another. I think it’s time that people employed a live, and let live policy.
Preach!!
Thank you!
Aren't they literally the cleanest of the fury kink (Im an uneducated sod so go easy on me plzಥ‿ಥ)
If you see kinks that you don’t like, just ignore them.
I’m not gonna seek it out and it has zero interest for me, but see I’m also an -adult- and there’s this wonderful thing called ‘filters’ so I think people can do their damndest to avoid even interacting with it. People are weird here and we’re weird because we gotta stay sane. Let people be weird!
The internet is full of people who feel powerless and the only cure they can think of for that is getting involved in the businesses of other people to the benefit of no one.
I fucking hate diapers but also people should be allowed to have their kinks/interests.
I go by the motto "no kink-shame, but no kink-same" as long as it's between consenting adults and properly tagged, I don't really care what people are into. that being said, if people don't tag or add spoilers to their porn/fetish/smut/NSFW art, I'm gonna mute or block them.
I always knew the whole "problematic kink" discourse was prog-speak for "we want to be able to say what you can and cannot be into" It's not actually progressive, it's just a way of couching controlling behavior in progressive-sounding language
You know what's *actually* progressive? dealing with the actual Problems, rather than what someone arbitrarily thinks *might* be a Problem based on Vibes and an "ick" response I will never understand ABDL personally, but that is no reason to typecast anyone who does as being "dangerous" or "gross"
As someone who was raised in the LDS Church, a place I consider a cult, this right here. There's many things I'm not into & give the ick & things I find morally reprehensible. Guess what I do? So long as people are not unconsensually harmed, I hit mute & do not recommend. Because it's not my biz.
Thank you for being a reasonable sane person! 💙
It's such a reactionary tendency to give people so much shit over something that doesn't affect you or anyone else in any way whatsoever. I'm not into ABDL personally, but you know what I do about it? I don't look at it. I look at things I like. It's so fucking easy to just leave people alone.
i will speak to a separate issue for this specific kink as well, the more people rally hatred towards ABDLs the more my life as an incontinent person becomes a living fucking hell just because i NEED diapers. I'll defend the community that shows me more respect & dignity than my own doctors, thanks.
I is weird and gross but you are more than welcome to enjoy it. Lets just not start pretending it isnt, and we shouldnt pretend anal vore isnt either. Its all p weird and gross. But ill defend your right to do it. I want the same in return for things like pup hoods and harnesses too.
I don't like that menu, but I don't have to make it my problem.
Yeah me too, I'd rather focus on enjoying my kinks than trying to police the kinks of others?
ABDL is such a bizarre kink to complain about. It's pretty darn tame compared to a lot of others we've seen (and are into).
But also, who cares so much about what others are into? If there's no actual harm being done, then there's no reason to make such a big fuss over it. If it's something that bothers you so much, you should just filter it out and move on. Don't turn the thing that grosses you out into a spectacle.
true however what if that restaurant is a Mexican restaurant, and you the different menu is from a papa John's?/j uwu
So, you know where this is coming from, right? As someone who was in that group for a couple years before I hard NOPEed and left, until babyfürs start ousting and really doing something as a community about the people PUBLICLY shitting and pissing themselves, they they will have a bad wrap. Period.
People have used this as an argument against furries and queer people for decades now. "They get their bad reputation from how sexual and disgusting they are in public" pointed at pride or PDA has long been a weapon of people attempting to ostracize queer communities. Why would you support that?
This has nothing to do with sexy, my guy. This is about shitting and pissing yourself in public. Furries and queer ppl don’t have that as a wide spread problem.
I'm replacing my other response with a nicer one. We just had a popular hoax that furries use litterboxes in schools. We have this as a wide spread problem.
I have my pronouns in my bio but you're here calling me "my guy" so honestly you can eat dirt.
Honestly? This complaint has always been & wil always be ableism. Just stop making it.
What are we supposed to do, break into their homes and confiscate their diapers? Also, are you aware that some people have legitimate medical reasons to need adult diapers?
Maybe call them out like we do any other type of bad behavior in the fandom? And do you know what a small percentage of people that is? And even if one does have continence issues, it’s not something you should use as an excuse to smell or be unsanitary.
If you believe it's justifiable to put down an entire community because of some individuals taking things too far, that is very much a you problem. Furthermore, ostracization isn't how you cultivate better behavior, it just isolates and reinforces it. Leave that shit in the 2010s where it belongs.
It explains the image people see of that community. I don’t go out of my way to judge people who are into that, but when that community has such a serious issue they don’t address or even acknowledge, then the negative connotations can be explained.
The furry community as a whole has a bad rap, as does the lgbtq community. But its not because they are filled with weirdos, its because the few bad people get public attention. These bad people are massively oversold when in reality they make up a tiny, tiny percent of a good community
There isnt some massive problem of people doing stuff in public, its just those bad people being shoved onto social media and news to represent the whole of a community
Sorry, I’m already full from lunch, you can stop putting words in my mouth.
I just wanna say; I’ve seen plenty of babyfurs/abdl folk, who have spoken out against bad actors within their group. It does come over as a group being judged because a few people did some (no pun intended) shitty things.
I am glad there is people pushing back on the bad behavior. It has been 10 years for me.
From what I’ve seen, the vast majority are against that kind of behaviour; though I imagine they would also, understandably be tired of people tarring them with the same brush.
babyfurs are the heaviest self-policed subgroup of the furry fandom. period. babyfurs also have major presence on all the major convention staffs. you've probably been cordial with many of them without realizing it.
Well if that’s changed, then I am happy to hear. Back when I was one, it was not and shit like RF15 happened. Why I left. And I’m fully aware. I made many friends while I was one, and they are still my friends today and I love the crap out of then.
I imagine you’ll be hard pressed finding people who’ll defend what happened at RF15
I really hope its gotten better. That was around the time I quit
I can only judge from what I’ve seen; I know a good few, but I’m not part of that community. What I will say however is that shit was a decade ago….I think it’s time to let that stuff go.
What actually happened RF2015?
There’s plenty of videos about the downfall of Rainfurrest; it’s not exactly the proudest moment of the furry fandom.
There's also piles of misinformation about that con, too.
Then that makes it more difficult. However it never the less doesn’t change the fact it was a decade ago, and babyfurs as a whole are still thrown under the bus for it.
Absolutely. I was at that con. I was even volunteering. I never heard anything about any of that shit until MONTHS later, and it was always from someone who heard it from a friend.
same. most I heard at the time was about non-abdl-oriented party dipshits vandalizing rooms/pool. only thing that happened that made me uncomfortable at the time was some dipshit in apparently unironic "whoo iraq war" signage and mil cosplay
The one photo of someone wearing only a diaper and pup gear wasn't even a babyfur, it was some asshole with a humiliation kink.
Who exactly is "publicly shitting themselves"? Can you give an example? People love to make this claim, but as someone very deep into public ABDL spheres, I have literally only ever heard of this happening from outsiders, and it's often completely made up. So, can you give an example?
I’m not gonna call out anyone by name, but I obviously saw it a LOT more when I was in that community. Besides, it’s been a LONG time. But every con had about 3-4 people I knew who’d just walk around a con in pads actively using them. It’s a big reason I left.
I think it's interesting that when it's time to shit on babyfurs for being the Extra Evil kink, everyone and their mother has a personal list of times they've seen an ABDL furry act up publicly to justify their moral posturing but can't share the details for some reason.
It's because adult pacifiers secretly have one of those little flashbulb things from Men In Black. It's all a big conspiracy by Big Babyfur.
I need this tbh
Wait hold on I need that too for when I tell a joke that flops. Babyfur Illuminati you gotta hook me up
it's gonna be a really confusing 2 seconds for the other person when you put the memory-deleting pacifier-gadget in before that gets wiped
Sure agreed. I’m not sure why you assume I disagree with you on everything.
I'm sorry for being snappy. Constantly defending people I care about is mentally draining.
I’m not out to get anyone. Like I said, I was a babyfur for TWO years, and the friends I made are still my friends. They also know WHY I left and they don’t blame me cause they know its a problem too. I’m explaining why BFs have a worse wrap then they should in this fandom, nothing more.
BUT THEY DO HAVE IT, and they have it for VALID reasons for some. It depends what it is, but believe it or not, it does effect how the community is seen. That, for sure, is something we have to keep in mind as possible motive, even tho I still rather just leave people alone.
In that case, I completely misunderstood your point and apologize. This is a case of hypervigilance on my part due to a lot of baseless rumors that always circulate around con times (though, it's less frequent these days)
I have a very unique pov cause I was actually one for a bit and left for valid reasons, those same reasons being why some people see bfs the way they do. My point is some reasons are valid, and some are very much not valid at all. Either way, I will agree, tho, not an excuse to attack ppl.
Funny how it's "it totes does happen, I can't give you names it examples but it happens and thus the backlash is justified because they are Just So Gross"
Also, when you say "using", I'm specifically talking about stories regarding people shitting themselves. Some random person peeing in a diaper is a non-issue and every one of us has 100% been around someone in public who's worn a wet diaper and we've never been the wiser because it didn't affect us.
When it’s taken to a con or a room party over and over and over again, yeah it kinda makes me not wanna be in that community anymore. I’m not kink shaming. I’m pointing out observed behavior that made me want to opt out. Thats it.
You’re very consistent, yup. /s You can’t get mad at an entire community (that fits people of all types) and complain about an issue and saying people aren’t doing anything while on the other hand literally not do anything. bsky.app/profile/zeno...
bsky.app/profile/zeno...
I’m not in that community. I left cause it was a problem not enough people were calling out. I’m not mad at anyone, I am just explaining why babyfurs are seen so poorly so much from my unique point of view being one. Maybe not put words in my mouth, thanks.
I’ll be upfront with you; your original reply doesn’t read well. And did seem like you were putting all the needless hate that babyfurs receive, on themselves. When more needs to be said about people not being judgemental dicks.
Agreed
And, furthermore, even if it were true, does the extremely rare situation of one person's *possibly intentional* (assuming it's not a medical condition that they can't help and this isn't thinly veiled ableism) antics justify extreme vitriol for grown adults who don't know that person having fun? 🤨
Yall keep putting words in my mouth. I’m not calling for public insults or anything, but simply trying to explain why people have the options they do about BFs. I have my own but I go out of my way to attack people over it. I am done with that group. And others are too for their own valid reasons.
We're aware of why they have the opinions, which is why we point out why those opinions are unjustified. I don't vilify all Minecraft youtubers because a handful were caught being pedophiles. I don't think there's any justification in vilifying an entire group just because of a few bad actors.
bsky.app/profile/zeno...
Hey man. I get it. Just, consider what people are saying, yah? I'd rather not argue with you either.
I’m kinda done arguing about it. Read my other replies.
"I am explaining why people have these opinions!" -produces 0 evidence to support this claim. -parrots a widely disproven narrative. When confronted, claims they're being misconstrued. You seem extremely knowledgeable and are clearly an expert on this.
I've never even heard of that, let alone seen that from either side of the fence. I'm thinking it is not as big of a problem as you think it is. Most folks I run across are against ABDL because of age-play and the like.
Welcome from your 10 year coma! I am from the future to remind you that 2 the Ranting Gryphon has been booted off his gold-plated perch within Anthrocon and everyone but literal Nazifurs hates him.
An actual, real life, example of cutting off your nose to spite your face
Filters don't work if THEY DON'T TAG THEIR POST
I agree, I don't like seeing it anymore than I like people shooting smols in video games. I don't come across abdl or nsfw stuff in my feeds so others must be doing something wrong or literally actively searching peeps out. I wish they'd waste that much time on the fandom's abusers and critics.
All I ask is that folks tag things well so that I CAN use filters.
Crazy how people can both be furries and still kink shame people. You're the one who joined the fandom that's full of the most unorthodox kinks you can find. If you don't like it then leave? why are you even still here? (the use of you not referring to you who posted this)
Especially if its the kids menu. Sometimes you just want chicken nuggets and a crisp high five and that's perfectly fine.
Wow dont go on social media for a bit and miss all the le drama, whats going on?
Kink artist shaming other kinks they aren't into. The old song and dance continues...
People just need to move on, its cool ya dont like it dont get it dont want it, just walk away. Oh well another one who just doesnt get it
That's a LONG list.
hahahaha I gather, Im being caught up blocks have been issued ;)
A furry with a large audience in a niche community expressed distaste for another niche community. That's about it. It's something I probably didn't need to comment on, but an occasional reminder that weirdos are your friends never hurts.
Ya know... if we all thought/liked the same the colors of the world and life would never have hues
Dino nuggies 4 life
I agree with everything you've said here, I just want to add that in order for filters to work, people HAVE to include keywords to block them with for them to be effective. It's kind of a huge problem here. We reduce friction by working together to build stronger systems.
Unironically, there are so many artists I would love to repost but they either don’t tag what they’re posing or don’t mark their work for adults. Or both. It sucks especially for ABDL circles because I very much want to share things around but things are not even tagged. Even if it didn’t bother me
I wouldn’t want to unconsentually subject someone to the visage of a used diaper. Much the same way I don’t want to see bara or muscles, respect goes both ways and we collectively should do better to ensure that art is better tagged.
It's such a problem and I feel annoying for mentioning it constantly but it feels like nobody else is. MARK YOUR PORN AS EXPLICIT! USE TAGS! Or at the VERY least put "//nsfw, (insert fetish here), (insert common trigger here)" in the text. It's NOT hard.
And that's why I only share diaper posts that have relevant words! Diaper, abdl, etc And if it's porn that it's tagged as porn lmao
also keywords are good for finding the kinks you like so it's a huge win win. Chastity is like my main kink and the amount of chastity art I've stumbled on through sheer luck because it wasn't tagged and wouldn't show up in a search is surprising, I don't want to miss any gems, tag your stuff!
or, I guess to use your analogy, the menu still needs to include allergen information so people know what to avoid
I like this analogy a lot Please disclose what allergens are in your art, so those of us who are trying to avoid certain things can do so It's okay to be you and express yourself, but please tag things so the filters I set up for my feed work right. Otherwise I end up blocking a bunch...
I end up having to block constantly too. It sucks. Artist makes beautiful work but doesn't tag shit and frequently posts whatever fetish or kinks make me uncomfortable enough to not just scroll past. Just fucking tag. It doesn't "kill you in the algorithm" or some nonsense.
In any regard, that menu's not for me and I don't have to look at it if I don't want to. But someone else might want that menu, and I'm more than happy to pass it down the table so they have something to peek at. Bonus if it's got crayons and mazes on it
I'd like to add in that I think if AI is gonna be trained on art without our concent why the fuck hasn't it at least been setup to automatically tag the content of said art?? like.. even my fucking Google Photos album knows when there's a diaper in my digital art, why is this functionality private??
Yes! More robust systems to catch as much as possible and direct it where to go, and then we need the patience to be reasonable for when it sometimes slips through anyway. We need to embrace being kinder and slower to react in anger when we see something we don't like.
I just eant to say. Where youre right. This guy is going "diapers are weird and gross. Now get into my ass, your whole body" which, arguably. Is similar to why diapers are weird and gross, so its more confusing from them(im not judging anal vore, you do you) just its weird af
[Pt. 1] I’m actively against ABDL, due to personal reasons and unfortunately being forced to be within that community with an ex partner. If ya’ got kink about being or being around children, or really anything child-like, you can’t blame people for looking at you sideways a bit.
Kinda love how this post proves my point and how things can go both ways lol Also if you get this upset over my post to the point you gotta make a scene about blocking—says a lot more about you and proves ya’ll got some issues to work out within your own community. Just sayin’ lol
I won't block you, but your whole argument is basically "it's only cool if it's non-sexual and copes with trauma, otherwise it's disgusting." You don't have to like it, but it seems silly to gatekeep when or how it's acceptable to partake in kink activities between consenting adults.
[Pt. 2] HOWEVER, I am aware some do it for genuine coping reasons and find age regression to be a legitimate therapeutic option—which is totally fine! Couldn’t care less! Do you! I know not everyone is “said bad thing here” but I just can’t say the same to those who actively do it for sexual reasons
[Pt. 3] If ya’ do it for sexual reasons, well, you can’t get mad that people are gonna heavily judge you for it and think XYandZ. And to me, and to others who I have heard who age regress, find the people who sexualize their trauma or safe space to be absolutely disgusting.
[Pt. 4] If you just age regress and do all the baby stuff for GENUINE coping/therapeutic reasons; all the power to you! You shouldn’t be judged for that and I’m sorry you get lumped in with the bad apples. Those who do it for only sexual gratification…well…you understand why people avoid ya’.
[Pt. 5] In closing statement here; I avoid Babyfurs like the plague but you’ll never catch me making massive tweets or massive hate pages about them. I block and move on and only ever voice my opinions if one is actually outed of being a pedo or anyone promoting/doing actual harm.
Friggin' AMEN to that, my friend.
Yeah I ended up blocking everyone that liked that post being all whiny about this. Honestly the sheer hypocrisy of a bunch of people into vore doing this... you know... a kink that often involves killing a non consenting party? Like don't be throwing stones in your glass house, ya dorks!
what post? Whooooo?! Give me a name instead of all this vagueposting
I had to go look up their username because I'm forgetful but the perosn that made the post is called Gurglegluts. Their post is still up so if you want to blocked anyone that liked it you can bsky.app/profile/gurg... (using singular they pronouns here because I don't know Gurglegluts' gender).
I usually keep things vague if I'm worried people are going dogpile someone. Apologies if that's annoying I've just been online long enough to know how bad things can snowball ^^;
I should specify for anyone into vore that I'm into giant people busting down cities so I'm not doing a judgement call here. We're all have weird esoteric media preferences that can seem messed up if you think about it too hard so that is why we must not be snobbish about these things.
Besides hypocrisy, if we encourage a culture of intolerance it *will* backfire. The purity spiral eats furries for breakfast.
It's always funny to me how some furrys will be ok with vore, feral, inflation, BDSM, etc but as soon as there's a diaper they all act like it's the grossest thing they've ever seen. Some people love to throw stones while living in glass houses lol
I've seen people who say this shit get art of being tied up to toilets or being turned INTO toilets. I've seen scat & watersports artists find diapers and med play "too gross." the lack of self awareness would be funny if they didn't cause disabled folks to be harassed at cons from the blind hatred.
People don’t understand you can not be into something while also being respectful about it. I mean as with a lot of things, nobody is going to force you to interact with it…
ngl at first I couldn't believe the person who draws people crawling up other peoples assess to die had a problem with diapers.. but then like... is it because being diaped up prevents his main content like dudes malding over being foiled yet again by crinkle tech, getting parried by pampers
I don't believe this is the reason but my sides are in orbit nonetheless
Anal vore prey when they bump against something that crinkles
this is an insanely good set of interactions, made me chuckle good
I'm in awe
AAAAAAAAH LMAOOOO
....dare I ask? clearly someone needs thrown onto my blocklist
"Parried by pampers" is gunna live in my head forever thanks
I didn't want to comment on that because I feel like saying "well you're into THIS weird thing" defeats the purpose of the community being a united front, but it's objectively hilarious to think about seeing a diaper and perceiving it as an Absolute Terror Field
Okay but who is this person cause I've seen a lot of people vaguely mention it but I still don't have a name, I just wanna block this clown
Bro seeing a diaper like
I don't think that line of thinking has to necessarily be counter to being united, it's an acknowledgement that hey you don't want to be shunned and ostracized for this weird thing you like, so it's only fair that you extend that grace to your fellow weirdos, because if we don't you might be next
Tbf I feel like acknowledging that some kink *are* inherently "weird" is part of the acceptance and "calling the kettle black" sometimes is the only way to make people see the hypocrisy of them calling out kinks they don't like.
“Hey, I don’t like ABDL furries and I…wait a minute… I’m an adult!”
"Where are you going? This is a perfectly good moment to throw solidarity away!"
Killin me laughing like pork chops and FEMA
All I ask is that people tag things properly so those filters work.
Yeah, it's just the kids menu for hecks sake. I just want the fun little cup with the lid on it that comes with it...
They wake up daily and fire off important rent-lowering gunshots.
It boggles my mind how people get so pressed over disposable underwear of all things. Like there is a bazillion different things to be upset about and you choose that?
Blocking is so cool
Different menu, same meal, same ingredients.
Of course it's coming from a vore artist. Furries have this weird double standard between fantasy kinks and ones involving any IRL play, where people into the darkest fantasy stuff you ever saw will get all moralising about entirely harmless IRL stuff between consenting adults.
Who are people vagueposting?! AAAAA! I'm so tired of vagueposting. Drop the name so I can just block em
I feel the exact same way, like if someone only feels comfortable telling me in dms, let me know and I'll temp follow you so you can tell me, I just wanna find this out
Consent is paramount & I can understand it being tough to balance that in public settings, but it's a drastic extreme to jump to. Like it or not, we're on the same side. You don't have to like each other's weird interests, just be friendly enough to stand against the people who don't like us at all.
Guess I'm a coward then cuz that's weird asf ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Yeah, seriously, this type of stuff kind of really annoys me. If you don't want to engage with that side of the Fandom, you don't have to. It's ironic that ABDL's are often more adults than the people who leave comments like this.
if you make fun of them online the babyfurs will cut your home internet off at the ISP. Just straight up unplug you. It's brutal.
One of them runs Twitter…
he never got in to the community
Good.
Look it's not my thing but I have no right to judge.
I just want them to tag their stuff like everyone else.
the discourse roulette chose abdl furries this week?
People really out here saying "It sexualizes children!" and then draw porn of the dad from Bluey. But fr, now a days there's so many tools you can use to avoid seeing it if you don't like it. We're all living in the same fandom, can't we all just get along?
Cherry-picking examples is a slippery slope of throwing stones from a different room of the same glass house, but there's still hypocrisy at any level of this conversation. It's easier and easier to avert your eyes nowadays. Ignore their pleasure, don't instill their plight.
My inner monologue: ABDL furries are weird and gro- So are we, Brain?? You literally like big anuses and dildo sharing in fantasy and musky man pits, get off your high horse.
This, as long as no kids, animals, or family members are being hurt, the block button is free^^ you're the ONLY one who can control your online experience
I want to start handing out little cards that say "other people's kinks not being your kink is okay, let them have fun 😊"