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Nessa

@vmcf.bsky.social

NC native, artist, 1 šŸ³ļøā€āš§ļøhuman/3 dog mom, partner to an amazing guy. Trans rights are human rights, no laws can stop trans people from existing.

created August 18, 2023

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Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

All you did was call Schumer a top democrat.. what exactly is he accusing you of lying about?!?

2/9/2025, 9:17:09 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The ads on my local news apps are just the worst, a lot of the quasi medical slop like ā€œstop eating this one vegetable for your gut healthā€ and worse, never any actual ads for actual recognizable products. It is such a bad look (and has been for a while) for news outlets and it’s everywhere

2/9/2025, 9:02:57 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Thank you! He was a sweetheart and also a total lil asshole, but he was our lil asshole and he left us with so many funny memories of his often unhinged moments. I’m convinced his whole vibe kept him alive for a couple extra years, he was just determined to get every last moment out of life.

2/9/2025, 8:57:59 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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But the reason we are growing is bc the NCGOP has made our state a haven for big businesses to pay little to no taxes and exploit workers. Meanwhile I’m born raised here, but my dad moved here from Albany and met my mom, so I wouldn’t exist w/o Yankee transplants 😊

2/9/2025, 8:53:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It is attention seeking and seeking to be controversial, while also being a very uninspired, lazy take. I’m in NC, and because we are growing quite rapidly, I read it all the time- and mostly from ppl who hate ā€œYankeesā€ aka democrats.

2/9/2025, 8:53:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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What you are advocating for isn’t reigning in trolls, it’s for moderation that is expressly meant to shape the political narrative on the platform, bc you think it will help the platform grow. Every other SM site is doing what you advocate for, so why do you stay here? What you want already exists.

2/9/2025, 5:45:34 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

You are too quick to equate ppl who disagree with you as trolls, and then lump anyone who shares their political beliefs into this category of ā€œthe problemā€ who are somehow holding this site back. You want Bluesky to ban current users solely to appeal to hypothetical other users.

2/9/2025, 5:45:34 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Remember these are the same people who drove off Nikole Hannah-Jones, who would have been such an asset to UNC. And then turned around and sunk ridiculous money into Belichick. I hope they are all shamed and ridiculed when out in public, even if it’s just about stupid football.

2/9/2025, 5:27:00 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I know we are all enjoying dunking on Bill Belichick and UNC right now, but can we expand our mocking to the NCGOP hostile takeover versions of the UNC board of governors and board of trustees that green lit this whole situation?

2/9/2025, 5:27:00 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Idk what you are talking about, as a die hard NCSU fan born/raised, Bill’s coaching debut exceeded my wildest dreams, couldn’t be happier. Also bonus points knowing that it was deeply embarrassing for the UNC BOT, UNC BOG, and ultimately the NCGA controlled by NCGOP who appointed these boards.

2/9/2025, 5:15:17 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Gun control is the answer to solving this. Militarizing our streets, or even vastly expanding police forces, is much more of an encroachment on our civil liberties than common sense gun reform has ever been. It is bat shit that so many can justify military against our own cities while defending 2A.

2/9/2025, 5:03:54 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Trans men can have babies, and they would really like to not be called pregnant women bc they are not women. When someone uses the term birthing or pregnant person, they aren’t describing just women, they are including other people who can also give birth in the conversation. That takes NOTHING away

1/9/2025, 11:42:09 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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In my Amazon acct, we have my husband’s CC listed as a payment option and his name with our address as one of the address/billing options, and he can use my Amazon acct that way (I do the same for my son and elderly dad, except I pay for my son’s stuff). I didn’t even know the other ways

1/9/2025, 11:34:55 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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How old is the grill? So sweet y’all celebrate šŸ˜‰

1/9/2025, 10:56:58 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

Between this and the Christian coffee shop with the either intentional or hilariously unintentional wall mural, what a week for Durham food scene.

Coffee shop wall mural that is supposed to say ā€œthis is homeā€ but they used their church logo which is a stylized E made of just a circle and three horizontal lines inside it, which looks a lot more like an O than an E, so it reads homo instead of home
1/9/2025, 9:15:25 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Fast forward to him being a senior in college, having his own kitchen for the first time ever- I’m getting proud pics of the white bean chili and chicken tacos he cooked for himself. They can grow out of it I promise.

1/9/2025, 9:06:47 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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My kid wouldn’t eat anything but chicken nuggets, cheese, fruit, and bread for years early on. We are foodies on my side of the family and it freaked us out, but we never forced/pushed, but did expose him to all the yummy food we ate.

1/9/2025, 9:06:47 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The only ā€œsignificantā€ arrest he mentions that is even directly responding to a crime against a civilian is the sexual assault arrest, which is barely a footnote to him.

1/9/2025, 6:22:39 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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While they offer ICE hires $50k bonuses.. that’s so rude, protesters should remind the NG about this discrepancy

1/9/2025, 6:12:22 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

Except it’s so not edgy- go to any state or city subreddit and look at the responses to anyone inquiring about moving there.. ā€œdon’t come here, we’re fullā€ will be found multiple times in the comments. Doesn’t matter where.

1/9/2025, 5:57:50 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This is all so confusing.. I’m reading this from NC, does only CVS offer vaccine but I need a Dr note? Or does Walgreens also have it but they aren’t requiring a doctor note?!? Not directing these qs at you, just pointing out what a confusing mess this is.

1/9/2025, 4:27:26 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The NC Dem party voted to ban PAC money in primary elections and for a weapons embargo on Israel, if anyone is wondering why its two NC reps making this pledge. Makes me proud of my state party!!

30/8/2025, 7:07:27 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m so sorry, I am a few weeks out from having to say goodbye to my baby boy Otis (my lab mix who was an impressive 14 yo). It sucks so much!! The Ben Platt Diet Pepsi cover happened the same day, so now it’s my mourning song. We rode in my car, he was my baby, and I said I loved him (all the time)šŸ’•

30/8/2025, 5:41:58 AM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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More importantly, I don’t think Republicans in Congress are nearly as intimidated by Vance as they are by Trump- and I think they would probably not be eager to continue ceding all power to the executive. They will all play nice for a few weeks to ā€œhonorā€ Trump but the power struggles will end that

30/8/2025, 5:29:52 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

So would that mean 100 mile zone surrounding any international airport?

28/8/2025, 11:42:49 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

It’s kinda funny to me that the fight for more accessible elections don’t necessarily comport with the trends of the electorate anymore. The GOP crusade made more sense when their voters were the more reliable tuned in voters and Dems were going after the less engaged voters.

28/8/2025, 10:12:03 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Are we gonna need a note from our doctor confirming this diagnosis in order for insurance to cover the shot? That seemed to be what JFK was saying

28/8/2025, 10:01:48 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And the companies that own these LLMs are pushing them hard into all aspects of education, so they are seeking access to children who are learning and will not have a choice whether to use them or not.. while being this reckless with their public models.

28/8/2025, 9:56:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Except it was appealed to SCOTUS and they declined to take up the appeal, which means something right? I think most people would say that a bit should never have more 1st amendment rights than a person, so if SCOTUS upholds her responsibility then AI should not be more protected.

28/8/2025, 9:46:41 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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That doesn’t seem to be actual case law as it exists in the US today, or SCOTUS would have taken up Michelle Carter’s appeal, right? Or am I missing something? If intent has to be present, than a language generator that cannot have intent, why would it be due protections as if it could?

28/8/2025, 9:37:21 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It is only expressive if a human reads it and takes meaning from the words that are strung together. AI is not expressive, bc it has no emotions to express.

28/8/2025, 9:32:09 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I don’t think the arguments over 1st amendment and SM content moderation are that similar to AI output (not input) moderation, except for both being tech. Whose speech is being infringed if the company is found liable for their AI’s output? The AI is not a person so how does it have protection?

28/8/2025, 9:31:03 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

And I don’t think a machine or a corporation should have MORE constitutional protections than we do. I get the worry about eroding first amendment rights, but this is a huge corp with resources and advantages, they should be held to higher scrutiny because of their immense reach/power.

28/8/2025, 9:23:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Michelle Carter was convicted of coercing her boyfriend into suicide and it was all done over text messages/convos, she did not physically contribute. SCOTUS refused to hear her appeal. So the recent case law seems to be against your argument, right?

28/8/2025, 9:21:09 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

You should take a look at the Etsy Seller sub Reddit, lots of Canadian and UK sellers trying to figure out what to do.. especially Canadian sellers bc they tend to have a large amount of orders from US buyers.

28/8/2025, 8:16:34 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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American flags have been burnt at recent protests for Gaza and one was burnt in the occupation of LA protests (I bet this is the one that triggered him, I saw footage of it on SM and I’m sure FoxNews picked it up)

25/8/2025, 10:23:03 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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They can arrest you, and maybe charge you but I’m not sure for what, and it will be an ordeal for you, and expensive if you get a lawyer, but a judge would throw it out.

25/8/2025, 10:19:24 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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All the orange make up and his small beady eyes make it kinda hard to tell, but do his eyes look a lil jaundice? I am wildly speculating and would only do this to someone who has earned my deep disrespect.

25/8/2025, 10:01:43 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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My high school (I graduated in 95) had an atrium that was still called ā€œthe smoking courtā€, where the students used to be able to go smoke. For some reason they just locked it up and we couldn’t enjoy the space at all, which felt like a real double whammy at the time

25/8/2025, 9:28:20 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Also can I point out how sweet my Phoebe girl is? Look at her laying on the floor so she makes herself smaller than Otis. How gently she plays with him. She really turned her guardian instincts on to Otis his last year. She took very good care of him! My dogs are the best.

12/8/2025, 2:41:25 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This is just a month ago. You can see how fragile and arthritic my boy Otis was. But he was still obviously enjoying life. He went down hill from here. Could barely stand up out of his bed in the morning. So thankful I got to have this good boy in my life for 14+ years. Our home is so quiet now.

12/8/2025, 2:41:25 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Otis loved life, he demanded what he wanted and he loved me fiercely. He drove me crazy at times, but I swear his temperament is what kept him alive for the last year at least. He obviously wanted to suck every last drop of joy out of life, and I’m pretty sure he accomplished his mission.

11/8/2025, 6:36:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He had hip dysplasia and arthritis. He tore his doggie ACL in one back leg several years ago, they couldn’t operate to fix it because even then his hips were so bad. His back legs were useless. A lesser dog, a more chill dog, would have given up a year ago.

11/8/2025, 6:36:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It has been a hard year, watching our lil spark plug slowly lose all the lil things that made him him. He was a bossy lil asshole in the most adorable way. He barked too much and played too rough. He hasn’t been like that this year.

11/8/2025, 6:36:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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In his prime, Otis was a spit fire, sometimes exhausting, ball of energy and love. We have two other dogs, a bonded pair of Great Pyrenees girlies, that we adopted 6 years ago. They kept him young, but he also kept them on their toes.

11/8/2025, 6:36:31 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I haven’t been on Bluesky much recently-summer has been very busy. Have my son home from college, which is wonderful. But my bestest boy Otis has been basically on doggie hospice for months now. We had to say goodbye yesterday. Had him since he was a pup, for 14 wonderful years, my heart hurts.

Otis, a 14 yo yellow lab mix, lounging on the couch with a big smile on his face Otis sunning himself on our back deck.
11/8/2025, 6:36:31 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Okay I watched the race and this lil cutie had it in the bag regardless. I think the walking actually slowed her down, she was crawling SO FAST!

3/8/2025, 5:29:58 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year (just had one yesterday they are soooooo good)

29/7/2025, 2:34:32 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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(He’s not a Dem, but he does caucus w/ them, but in general your statement is correct and plenty of Dem Senators are failing this very basic test)

24/7/2025, 5:35:53 PM | 14 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Did he ever come back?

24/7/2025, 2:43:37 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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No repercussions yet. But she’s now in Congressional records being either embarrassingly incompetent or purposely evasive under oath, and she won’t always have a Trump admin to hide behind.

24/7/2025, 2:21:09 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

If Murdoch wanted to get on Trump’s good side via bribe, why piss Trump off w/ this reporting? If Murdoch wanted to change how WSJ reported, he could do that w/o a lawsuit as pretext. This isn’t some sinister conspiracy.

24/7/2025, 1:23:37 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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That makes no sense. Why would he do that? He (unlike the other media orgs Trump has successfully blackmailed) knew that running the story would lead to this lawsuit. He doesn’t need a lawsuit to give Trump money, Trump has designed multiple corrupt avenues for people to bribe him through.

24/7/2025, 1:23:37 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Plus he reminds me of Mr Rogers, he has that very kind demeanor.

24/7/2025, 1:06:13 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I know we agree that Congress Dems are too old, and we need younger blood.. but y’all I’m still very happy about this! Cooper has won four statewide elections in NC. He is well known and respected. He has moderate ā€œvibesā€ but he governed pretty progressively. Strong on women’s and trans rights.

24/7/2025, 1:06:13 AM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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(if they actually grew that spine). JD Vance does not have the cult loyalty or (gag) charisma that Trump has. No GOP politician wants to be powerless to Trump, I don’t think they’d tolerate Vance trying to pull the same shit.

24/7/2025, 12:59:02 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Only way we end up with Vance is for Rs in Congress to grow a spine and be willing to take their power back. If they do that to get rid of Trump, I don’t think they would be willing to hand it back over to JD fucking Vance. I think they would remind him that they could do the same to him

24/7/2025, 12:59:02 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’ve been wondering when the Capitalists would start really exercising their immense power that they have amassed.

24/7/2025, 12:52:27 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Why do Bill Kristin and The Bulwark have more righteous anger about our current situation, and are more supportive of trans rights, than many of the more prominent Democratic politicians?

24/7/2025, 12:49:21 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

Majority of Americans have held a lot of morally abominable views throughout our history, this survey is a judgement on them, not trans people who have the same rights to life, Liberty, and pursuit of happiness as those bigots.

24/7/2025, 12:46:30 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And Stephen Miller. I can see them twisting reality into him being the great evil for all the horrors they, and Trump, are gleefully cheering on right now. Similar to how they were ready to turn on Bondi, except worse. (Both deserve it, but not because she’s a woman or bc he’s Jewish)

24/7/2025, 12:42:31 AM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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* I should stipulate- I am in NC, where the private schools get voucher money for all their students now, no matter the parent’s income. The private schools are sucking private schools dry while keeping their student population for only the well off they already had. I’m bitter towards them.

24/7/2025, 12:39:21 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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How tf are schools supposed to pay for this shiny new tech, when the federal govt is cutting off so much funding already? I hope these just get adopted by the private schools.

24/7/2025, 12:37:02 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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If this happens frequently, long before they start to maneuver to get SCOTUS to decide that not ALL federal felony cases have to go before a grand jury?

24/7/2025, 12:35:05 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Also his address this coming year will be different than last year - moved out of dorms, getting a studio apt near campus

23/7/2025, 3:07:45 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Chris- quick question for you- my son is on the list. He registered and voted with his dorm address, on campus. His ID has our home address. Can he fix his voter info through the DMV if his voter address is different than the address on his ID?

23/7/2025, 3:07:45 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Which oligarchs? They are not doing a very good job of sending that message if that’s what they want. Showing up to kiss his ass at his inauguration surely didn’t show that. Were they so stupid they didn’t think he would do the exact things he said he would do?

22/7/2025, 10:05:33 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It is not exactly hard to put money directly in Trump’s pocket these days, I don’t see why they would feel the need for this elaborate show (that embarrasses Trump) if that was the end goal.

22/7/2025, 9:57:45 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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They are gonna have to figure out how to put ads into the AI summaries I guess šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

22/7/2025, 7:25:31 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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That drop in support for 45-64 is pretty huge too! Weird that the 35-44 and 65+ show very little movement but those in between them swung wildly

22/7/2025, 7:17:42 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah according to this graph he is more underwater with 45-64 in that last poll, that doesn’t feel right at all! From a 48 yo who wishes to be associated w/ the 33-44 yo cohort

22/7/2025, 6:48:36 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Look at how much criticism there is here against Congressional Dem politicians; huge portion of their voters are mad at them for the situation today and their actions in the past that led to it. Scolding someone speaking out against crueltyhappening now helps no one.

22/7/2025, 6:42:30 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Don’t really see how this comment helps at all. Plenty of left leaning voters opposed and are still upset about that war. And a large percentage of people on this app were children when this happened.

22/7/2025, 6:42:30 PM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Waymo taxis are vehicles that exist that are self driving, right? I know they have limited range/availability, but it’s not like the public is believing in tech that doesn’t exist in some form- making (imho) Tesla’s advertising all the more misleading/dangerous

22/7/2025, 6:19:22 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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A good friend is an estate lawyer, she volunteers her time/skills to help immigrant families prepare in case they are separated, helps them protect their assets/property, make plans for their kids. I’m so proud of her 😊.

22/7/2025, 6:06:02 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I passed this on to my kid, drove him back to a restaurant when he didn’t leave a tip. But it seems generational bc my dad (boomer) also worked service jobs, he will tip well BUT is much quicker to penalize if service isn’t great. He doesn’t get how it’s usually the fault of the house not the server

22/7/2025, 5:41:00 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Working in a restaurant (customer service side at least, I’ve never worked back of house) gave me a lifelong appreciation for service workers- especially waitstaff I always tip well, don’t care if service isn’t top notch bc it’s almost always bc they are understaffed and being run ragged.

22/7/2025, 5:41:00 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He got that Pyr butt fluff 😁

22/7/2025, 2:48:26 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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(Having old arthritic doggos sucks bc that was my first thought too even though his solution is admittedly hilarious)

22/7/2025, 2:47:14 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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We were never shoving a ā€œwoke agendaā€ down their throats, but goddamnit if I wouldn’t like to shove a woke agenda down some throats now. I want Rufo crying bc the woke agenda has ruined every corner of his existence, he cannot escape woke, we turn his children into woke warriors.

22/7/2025, 1:44:32 AM | 21 4 | View on Bluesky | view

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This comment wins.

22/7/2025, 1:16:37 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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PBSNC is also the media that shows up to cover state government press conferences, they were at every emergency announcement during early days Covid. Their footage is often used by all the local news media around the state when reporting in these events.

21/7/2025, 4:22:23 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The Trump BBB (not the Biden BBB) right? You just know Trump chose that name on purpose bc he wanted this type of confusion

20/7/2025, 4:10:13 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Bernie Sanders is not a Democrat. Why would he be held to internal party rules?

20/7/2025, 5:27:48 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He did just get that big DOD Xai contract, maybe someone reminded him that could disappear if he kept it up

20/7/2025, 5:16:36 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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With so many Dem voters totally pissed at National Dem leadership, seems to me that Mamdani doesn’t even benefit that much from a Jeffries endorsement. Jeffries, however, sure has milked the press opportunities to string this out. In the end I think Jeffries will be wanting a Mamdani endorsement.

20/7/2025, 4:26:14 AM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

My dad still calls his cable/internet service ā€œcablevisionā€, he has done it so consistently my whole life that I didn’t even realize it, my husband had to point it out to me

20/7/2025, 3:48:05 AM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

My mom used to constantly get our area code (919) mixed up with 911. So she would tell me and my friends if there was an emergency, call 919.

20/7/2025, 3:39:16 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

I saw this too, these labelers don’t miss!

19/7/2025, 5:06:27 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

They want women out of the workforce, at home raising babies, but then will absolutely use a stat that includes them to show that people are mooching off the system!

19/7/2025, 3:06:04 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

All they really have left is the old folks, a literal dying audience.

19/7/2025, 2:50:47 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

It’s so interesting that these right wing billionaires want to take over corporate media, when pretty much every RW viewer has abandoned it bc they think it’s fake news, and now the left audience (which is already skeptical) will abandon too

19/7/2025, 2:50:17 PM | 24 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

Aaron, do you know if/how many still remain in CECOT (that were sent there by the US)? These numbers sound like almost everyone? But we never got a complete number, and El Salvadorians were sent there as well, any other nationalities still stuck there?

19/7/2025, 4:25:40 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

No, there are currently no countries offering trans Americans asylum. It is a possibility in Canada, there’s a court case. But atm no.

19/7/2025, 4:03:20 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

He is alive, and he is not currently imprisoned in a torture prison for the rest of his life. This is an immediate improvement compared to the alternatives. The possibility to get him to safety now exists.

19/7/2025, 4:00:31 AM | 12 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

He’s not imprisoned in Venezuela at the moment, so there is a much better chance he can get to safety than a few days ago when he was locked up in CECOT with the possibility of life in prison.

19/7/2025, 3:56:28 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

BUT! It is funding that HHS has spent and may have to spend more on, they have a set budget and the more of that money that is wasted on frivolous but ultimately unsuccessful actions, the better for their future targets.

19/7/2025, 3:53:09 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

my very much not on SM husband just asked me about this incident, like 10 minutes before I read your post 🤭

18/7/2025, 10:13:16 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Andria (@andria.bsky.social) reposted

July 30, remote.

18/7/2025, 3:56:39 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Nessa (@vmcf.bsky.social) reply parent

This is a VERY frequent reply to TikTok videos bc people over there love to post videos that allude to some random drama with no context and force you into replies to figure out what they are talking about.

18/7/2025, 5:25:52 AM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view