Marcy
@deadheadgirly.bsky.social
Hippie trans girl 24 | she, her | music feeds my soul and I bet on sports more than I should... Struggling freelancer and aspiring writer #NHL #NFL (all Detroit teams!) Michigan Roots, Tennessee Address #onepride š³ļøāā§ļø š³ļøāš
created March 12, 2025
1,919 followers 617 following 5,952 posts
view profile on Bluesky Posts
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I think Americans lean into it, though. Our entire penal system is based on "eye for an eye" punitive, justice. We treat out inmates like animals, and justify it "because they deserve it." And it's gotten even worse as it's become big business. There is no attempt at rehabilitation in most cases.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
"They like punishment." You cannot convince me that this isn't a direct result of biblical teachings. It's a book with as much violence and retribution as love and understanding.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Thinking of doing a brisket or a pork butt this weekend for the opening of football season!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I saw this a year or two ago, and literally can't not think about it on a regular basis...
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
What the fuck is an "Irvine Welsh?"
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
A pug or a Basset hound. 𤣠Quite a bit of size difference here.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Exclusive! Gender affirming care is perfectly fine and natural if you're CIS!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I meanā¦his girlfriend is not that far removed from homecomingā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
High Life came out of my noseā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Huge, gutty win for the Sparks! But I donāt think Iāve seen a #WNBA team flat out quit in the second half the way the Seattle Storm did tonight. No Storm player should sleep well tonight.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Spot on. There was a time, the Beilichink archetype was the ideal college coach. Unfortunately for Bill, heās about 10 years too late.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
In fairness- getting beat bad in your first game as a college coach isnāt the end of the world. BUT- if three years ago you were touted by some as the greatest football coach to ever live, getting dog walked by an unranked TCU team is, at the very least, concerning.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Guys- I think it might have just been all Tom Bradyā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
HRT didnāt have any impact on my reasoning. It did severely impact my already tiny amount of patience for idiot dudes, thoughā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I know itās not easy, and is a never ending struggle- but my life became a lot more enjoyable when I just stopped listening to people who speak only to be contrarian.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Blue Jays go into the ninth with a two-run lead and lose. I donāt think they are as good of a team as their record indicates.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I was really happy with it. My elderly neighbor across the street lost his wife last week and I wanted to make him a plate. He was so appreciative.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I canāt cobbler yet, but I can smoke ribs. I donāt even have a smoker. Did them on indirect heat in my weber kettle grill.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I go hard for the sweet and spicy. I was really happy with how these turned out.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I made jalapeƱo Mac and cheese too!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Of course!!!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
When youāre a girl that can barbecue, the whole neighborhood takes notice. That smoke ring is on point.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Donāt know anything about the lady in the video. But I know my own mom held a lot of resentment over me and my dad bonding over sports. Watching that video made me think thatās absolutely something she would have done.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
I know thereās a lot of people who donāt care about sports (and thatās a perfectly reasonable view). But as a lifelong sports fan- I remember how heartbreaking it was as a kid to have a favorite player get traded or sign elsewhere. Thatās core memory shit.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
š” infuriating
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Glad Iām not the only one feeling this way.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Fan bases are so biased- and I know that seems like an obvious thing- but itās biased to the point of delusion sometimes. Having lived in Pittsburgh and seeing how the Steelers fans truly believe there is never a year they shouldnāt be in the Super Bowl is wild.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I have grown to hate sports talk radio and the ESPN talking head stuff. Itās no longer analysis that helps people understand things and allows them to come to their own conclusions. Itās just barking out opinions and fans just regurgitate them.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
He was in such a no-win situation. The hype train was so out of control. Heās a really good quarterback, but so many people were expecting him to be the second coming, when heās literally never shown that talent yet. I think heāll be fine, but give the kid a minute.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Gabs- just want to say you are so adorable and I hope you have the best time!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I agree about Texas. Manning was good, not great. I assume heāll improve noticeably with more snaps. Bama, though? I donāt think they are in top 25. Simpson should improve, but he needs a running back.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Omg heās adorable!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Based
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Itās weird growing up hearing all about the subversive political actions and protests from a generation of liberals that now seem to think our best road to fighting fascism is supporting the potential candidate with the sickest memes.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Truth or dare is ⦠interesting as a grown up š
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Michigan immediately gets an interception. š¤£
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Michiganās defense looks really pedestrianā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Targeting in the NCAA is a joke. To call it in the Michigan game after a replay, and overturn it in the Bama game on review is atrocious.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Iām going to a slumber party with three of my friends at one of their houses. Iām so excited!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Such a hottie!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
No worries! I still donāt understand offsides in soccer anyways lolol
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
On sides
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
This game is ridiculous.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Also- if thatās not targeting in the Bama/FSU game, then thereās no such thing as targeting.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Ty Simpson is not a good enough quarterback to be throwing 40 times a game. I get they have trailed most of the game, but itās also a big reason Bama is losing.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Alabama isnāt a top 10 team. Iām not even sure Alabama is a top 25 teamā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
@telsie.bsky.social Telsie, I just noticed you new pfp- omg you look amazing! So pretty!! š
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Trust issues to the moon.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Right? Totally gross behavior.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Evil behavior.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I felt so awful for the little guy. He got in the car all excited and smiley, and his MOM couldnāt wait to break his heart.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Saw this video of a mom picking her young kid up from school and then recording as she gleefully told him his favorite player (Micah Parsons) had been traded. She continues happily recording him as he starts crying, offering no comfort. Yay for content, I guess? But that kid wonāt forget that.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Just a girl trying to make her way in the Guy Economy.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
This is mostly true- although if you have an in to an Eagles club or Elks club, someone will know a guy.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Outstanding! This is really something to be proud of!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Not so fast, Herbieā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Waiting for him to declare war on his greatest threat: gravity.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Week one unders are always a good bet.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Let me go oooon, like a:
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Did you guys know they are all related to Archie Manning? The old QB for the Saints?
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Not a lot of confidence in the Dukesā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Nice!!!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
It was true yesterday.
Max Berger (@maxberger.bsky.social) reposted
Live your life so that people donāt consider rumors of your death a form of edging.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Fire up, Chips!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Omg! San Jose State just missed a 33yd FG to beat Central Michigan!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
I had way too much caffeine today and canāt sleep. I just cracked a beer at 1:20 amā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Bluesky in 36 hours: remember that time we all manifested the President to death?
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Honestly, I think things have gotten so bad, weāre all just manifestingā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I think itās because he hasnāt been seen in a day and heās got nothing on his schedule (which is abnormal), and heās looked increasingly unhealthy lately and JD Vance was on TV earlier today saying heās ready to be president if something happens. Just weirdness.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Iām just saying in public what Iāve been thinking for the last decade.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Iām going to get high and hope when I wake up I read a particular obituary.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I was going to sayā¦Iām pretty sure he doesnāt know what morality isā¦
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Less than 12 hours!!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Tips on keeping the peaches from not getting too mushy?
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Every bitch that read this is doing that voice right now, just to see...
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
That is so cool!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
You MADE those!? OMG those look so good!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
It's an amazing skill! It's not hard to learn either (to make basic, functional stitches), but once you get good at it? You can create your own clothes! I'm so impressed by people who can do that.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
And if it's not taught in schools, moms and dads need to teach these things to both sons and daughters. I can not think of a bigger turnoff, or anything less masculine than a guy who is unable to feed himself without ordering doordash.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Right?! I think it's fun and I like cookies and pies... For a society to have made these things kind of gendered makes zero sense.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
He told me recently his sales partner, who he travels with- if that guy tears or shirt or a button comes off- he just goes out and buys a new shirt. My friend, who is pretty smart with money, was flabbergasted. For him, sewing isn't "girly," it's just a way to keep his clothes functional...
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Re: gender roles. One of my best guy friends (straight, white) travels like 250 days a year for work. His dad, who also traveled a bit for work, taught him, when he was like 12, how to sew. Basic stuff- mending a tear, replacing a button etc.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm figuring it out, but I probably need all the help i can get...
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
And the whole, "boys don't bake" thing is such a load of shit. You know what boys bake? The ones that don't give a fuck what you think about them, because they either 1.) enjoy baking or 2.) enjoy eating baked goods. In my experience, guys that like those two things are awesome.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't feel sad about it how I used to. More, like, irritated? She and I probably could have had so much fun together if she hadn't been so rigidly stuck into conservative/Catholic gender roles. And it sucks that we both missed out on that. Ugh.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
I was feeling bad about this last night. But then I remembered when I was 14 and I asked my mom if we could bake an apple pie together and she looked at me like I was an idiot and said, very matter-of-factly, "boys don't bake pies."
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
OMG- you are so sweet. And I will be taking you up on this. Trail and error is great... but trial and error and advice is waaaaayyy easier lol.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm being really mindful to keep track of the recipes that I like and (even if they are ones I find on the internet and augment some). I want to start my own cooking/baking legacy- because those recipes are so important. I don't know who I'll give them to, but I want to be able to give them.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah- I need some more practice before bringing others into this... lol
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
And make no mistake. The Dem "centerists" that tout transphobic candidates as "the lesser of two evils," will sell us out the nanosecond we become inconvenient for their agenda (so immediately). Their support has almost always come with strings attached and was mostly performative anyway.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
And they really don't need to. Do what makes you happy. But it's telling how much of the conservative "morality agenda" falls apart when they acknowledge they are actually into the stuff they crusade so hard against.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
I hate painting large groups with such a big brush...but I don't think she's wrong...
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Tomorrow!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
In honor of Micah Parsons moving to the Green Bay Packers, take in one of the best drives of last season, that included his new team. #NFL #OnePride #TakeAKnee
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Itās really not. I have an awesome job I love, an amazing friend group and probably the best dad in the world. I just vent a lot on here. Thanks for the kind words though!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
I did it in cast iron, which may have been a mistake. My crust just didnāt do what I wanted. It was slightly burnt on top, but mushy under. My peaches got way too soft- like baby food soft.
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social) reply parent
Thanks, Evie!! Thatās so kind of you!
Marcy (@deadheadgirly.bsky.social)
Little things hit me weird. I donāt talk to my mom anymore. But she used to make the most amazing pies. I would have loved so much to learn from her and have her recipes and be able to ask for help when I mangle a cobbler⦠but I canāt. I know itās for the best, but still hits me pretty often.