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@howdidwegethere.bsky.social

#actuallyautistic Late-diagnosed, still sorting that part out. Software professional, dad, serial-interest-haver Current special interests: competitive cycling, cooking from scratch , learning the history we weren't taught, unpacking my own neurodiversity

created April 1, 2024

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Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Wow they really must think Americans are gullible

2/9/2025, 5:49:03 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

Y'know, just once I'd like to live in a timeline where banking is a boring utility that doesn't vacuum wealth out of everyone and everything and the economy revolves around meeting human needs in general instead of the desires of those with money to spend

2/9/2025, 5:43:35 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I dunno if that cybertruck can carry that load

2/9/2025, 5:41:04 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Remember folks, there was once a time when corporate leadership agreed to allow workers to live secure, dignified lives in exchange for not being dragged out of their estates and beaten lifeless in front of their families

1/9/2025, 9:37:19 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Sure, this one data point is anecdotal but you'll never convince me otherwise. We went the whole pandemic without catching it- that's thousands of data points all strung together to show that small things done consistently will improve your odds

1/9/2025, 8:31:18 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I live in a blue state, my family avoided catching COVID during the whole time measures were in place. It took 1 week of "okay, no need for masking in schools anymore" for all of us to catch it. One. Week. It's as if basic risk-mitigation measures like wearing masks work, but only when you do them

1/9/2025, 8:28:22 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

This is the simplest test by which to understand when talking points are made in bad faith.

1/9/2025, 8:19:26 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

With these people the notion that democracy makes them the stewards of those offices (along with oaths to defend the system by which they came to power) is completely betrayed. These people don't have the authority to pull the ladder up behind themselves; they swore oaths not to but here we are.

1/9/2025, 8:10:45 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

When your measure of what's appealing to normal people includes election results that elites spent money to prevent progressives from winning, I'm sure that has a way of coloring what you understand normal people to favor- Maybe if Dems spent less money defeating the Left the Left would win more

1/9/2025, 7:50:58 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

LOL when poll after poll shows most people favor progressive policies, progressivism is "unappealing to normal people" Sure Nate😂

1/9/2025, 7:45:38 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

"If both major parties don't suck up to the donors the one that doesn't will win and the donors paying me don't want that, so..."

1/9/2025, 7:42:26 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Eng Abed (@abe34edfayy34.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

My son Nidal is running out of milk and urgent medical supplies.Under the siege, his survival is a daily struggle. Your kindness can be his lifeline. Please help us save him. 🙏

1/9/2025, 10:50:14 AM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Well folks- this is how he bankrupted that many businesses- including casinos. Unfavorable results put him in his fee-fees and instead of confronting them he denies their reality

31/8/2025, 11:51:34 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

Eldest child is off to college Feeling all the feels I'm excited for him I miss him so much The house feels so different now His younger sister is okay with all of this This is okay I guess

31/8/2025, 10:34:54 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

so... soothing

31/8/2025, 5:44:51 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I'm willing to be patient Mostly dead vs...

31/8/2025, 5:38:25 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

LOL I'm also an alum of the same school who happens to have made a living writing software for a couple of decades. This reminds me I was squeamish to learn that statisticians impose priors on their inputs and then aren't bothered at biased or questionable outputs. I'm even moreso about AI, tbh

31/8/2025, 5:29:35 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I've been writing software for 25 years and TBH the suggestions from the AI plugins are just laughably bad when they're not maddening

31/8/2025, 5:18:48 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Wow. Just shameless

31/8/2025, 3:18:16 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

The next time some rando MAGA chirps that the Nazis were socialist because they had 'socialism' in their name, maybe remember that they were on the opposite side of the class war of their time from the socialists and jews- both of which opposed imperialism and capital www.tiktok.com/@aptkr_/vide...

30/8/2025, 9:20:05 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

Let this be your periodic reminder that white collar crime, particularly wage theft, greatly outweighs the kinds of crime we're told to think of as common and dangerous

Graph of wage theft vs. other kinds of theft shows that wage theft drastically outweighs other kinds of theft: wage theft: minimum wage/$23B, OT/$8.8B, Rest Break violations/$4B, off-the-clock/$3.2B Other: larceny/$5.3B, Burglary/$4.1B, Auto Theft/$3.8B, Robbery/$0.34B
28/8/2025, 5:56:36 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

This is your periodic reminder that it would cost us less to give homeless people apartments and social worker time than it costs us today to have them out on the street. Study after study shows this.

28/8/2025, 5:48:42 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Well we all know where on the Dunning-Kruger curve RFK falls

28/8/2025, 5:42:33 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Being willing to trade away important things over pretextual nonsense we know they don't care about amounts to political malpractice- it makes no sense to trade away human rights in exchange for literal nonsense that gets us nothing

28/8/2025, 5:34:55 PM | 21 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

At this point, I think too many of the touchstones of modern politics are pretextual distractions- -abortion is not about the sanctity of life -the War on Drugs is not about drugs -immigration panic isn't about what it pretends -'law and order' is really about racial and gender and class order

28/8/2025, 5:33:12 PM | 24 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yeah, his willingness to throw trans folk under the bus in the name of 'pragmatism' is disqualifying for me. I just want someone with beliefs they'll stand by, specifically that they're willing to check corporate power and protect labor and human rights

28/8/2025, 4:57:20 PM | 40 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

That's not their problem. Being owned by private equity is.

27/8/2025, 6:02:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

A lot of the rebranding for chains like CB is due to private equity demands- a lot of the capital involved in their locations is in the building itself- that's why they're getting rid of the building designs associated with the brand- so they can sell those buildings to other chains when they want

27/8/2025, 6:00:18 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

There's always Notepad++

27/8/2025, 5:52:44 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

It's not just the federal workers; it's all of us. Heritage is funded by corporate lobbyists who want labor to have few protections or rights and he's simultaneously dismantling worker rights and protections and telling people he's protecting them

27/8/2025, 5:40:13 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

ugh, gross

27/8/2025, 5:36:15 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

For that matter, we scapegoat undocumented workers to hide the fact that keeping it illegal for them to work in the US enables the people hiring them to underpay and exploit them. That we don't significantly penalize their employers tells you that they're influential and the system works for them

27/8/2025, 4:33:50 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yes. If we genuinely cared about cybersecurity and digital privacy these things would be done long ago, but they weren't and we don't. Likewise, our justice system masquerades as being about justice or rehabilitation but it's just a continuation of slavery and makes no effort to curb recidivism

27/8/2025, 4:29:22 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I just tell myself they're not tracking as many of the possible contexts this conversation might fall into, and they just don't know that's something anyone else might do. Meanwhile over here it's like having multiple browser tabs open with at least 2 of them making audio and they don't know 🤷

26/8/2025, 6:11:52 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I fled to mastodon when twitter became unbearable and bsky didn't exist yet. Nice thing about the fediverse, in my view, is that there are lots of clients doing really good implementations of the same protocol- firefish is one of my favorites. Also, it being federated means you can move around

26/8/2025, 5:43:47 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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26/8/2025, 4:48:31 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

The way his faithful are doing, they'll take his promises at face value and none of the really painful effects (like losing their health care and benefits) will take effect until later, when democrats can be blamed for it

25/8/2025, 10:32:51 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Lololol so it's 2028 now? I can remember when they were promising that would happen by 2025😂

24/8/2025, 9:47:12 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture 🇨🇦 Made in Canada 🇨🇦 ELBOWS UP 💪🍁🦫🌈🦋 (@canadianpride.bsky.social) reposted

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23/8/2025, 8:38:20 PM | 1224 359 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I love how hard his troll game goes but I want him nowhere near high federal office I want government to check corporate power

24/8/2025, 9:44:04 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Well on the one hand a lot of these terms are abstract, bloodless pointers towards not being an asshole. On the other, maybe it's time not to be so gentle about that sort of thing

24/8/2025, 9:13:12 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Al Franken should run for Senate again

24/8/2025, 8:40:50 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Graham Platner for Senate (@grahamformaine.bsky.social) reposted

My name is Graham Platner and I’m running for US Senate to defeat Susan Collins and topple the oligarchy that’s destroying our country. I’m a veteran, oysterman, and working class Mainer who’s seen this state become unlivable for working people. And that makes me deeply angry.

19/8/2025, 12:37:22 PM | 7221 1991 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yep. Militarizing the police doesn't solve any of those problems, the only one it solves* is that the people protest when you militarize the police or fail to solve real problems *not really, it doesn't solve anything

19/8/2025, 8:31:05 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Better yet: the high road isn't where the fight is.

19/8/2025, 8:23:36 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

That they're not, given the obvious red flags everywhere, leads me to worry that they're just fine with what's going on or they think dems will sweep the midterms if they just do nothing

18/8/2025, 1:36:03 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I read this as a candid admission that he's at best a useful idiot in terms of actual governance

17/8/2025, 9:17:32 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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17/8/2025, 5:11:34 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Apparently, the art of the deal is to completely capitulate and call it a win

16/8/2025, 11:55:00 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Translation: the agent in question is either a Proud Boy or has ties to similar or affiliated white nationalist organizations. Context: the venn diagram of cops to white nationalist militias has a lot of overlap, we've known this for years

16/8/2025, 11:44:25 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yes. We all understand not only that the charges weren't justified, they were trumped up for the purpose of chilling protest

15/8/2025, 7:40:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

That, or it's a deep-seated need for a plausible-sounding pretext to justify doing things the public doesn't want

15/8/2025, 7:19:13 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

"The new Versailles" in the sense that the Treaty of Versailles was an unsustainable short-term accord that set the stage for WWII to happen? Or in the sense that Versailles will always be associated with corrupt, out-of-touch imperial-minded autocracy?

15/8/2025, 6:43:46 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

Knowing that the "Source?" guy will never tire of holding this position is so exhausting

15/8/2025, 6:36:57 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Feeling the same, asking the same questions. I used to just write code, now my job is endless seeking of alignment from multiple stakeholders that don't always talk to each other when they give direction and a little coding on the side

15/8/2025, 6:31:56 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

This is how mine tells me I'm done working

Image of an orange kitty lying on my arm as I try to type
15/8/2025, 3:33:10 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Well he's the boss, you know

15/8/2025, 3:28:40 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yep. The story that all this great tech was created by tech bros in their garages and not by publicly-funded researchers is written to make the tech bros out to be the heroes of the story by erasing the people that did the fundamental work

15/8/2025, 2:07:47 AM | 4 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yeah. "No moral compass" fits the rest of the evidence, like everywhere. He's the guy that doesn't pay contractors and uses the courts to exhaust them of resources He's the guy that will lie about anything if it gets him some advantage His compass points wherever he wants something badly enough

13/8/2025, 7:38:23 PM | 11 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Now I'm curious to know what sort of surety we have for this promise- so instead they'll raise rents but avoid being seen algorithmically doing it? I suspect the devil will be squarely in the details

12/8/2025, 7:32:08 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

It's as if the way to get people to support fascism is to make them feel poor and blame the immigrants

12/8/2025, 7:05:18 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

A thought on the nature of resistance Signing petitions and holding signs are nice and all, but we're to the point that non-compliance or malicious compliance are becoming necessary. We're past the point where appealing to failing institutions to do their job is in order; it's time to build anew

12/8/2025, 5:51:56 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

TBH I think the only way we will ever see this court rule against gerrymandering is if looking the other way no longer gives the GOP an advantage. If blue states play the same game the red states have been playing for years, somebody's going to have to blink

11/8/2025, 11:07:44 PM | 23 3 | View on Bluesky | view

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These two were a classic

9/8/2025, 3:44:58 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yeah, if "natural immunity" means you get sick with the live virus and if you survive your immune system will recognize that particular strain in the future

8/8/2025, 10:46:48 PM | 21 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Also, they were billionaires when we used to tax them at 70+% right here in the USA.

8/8/2025, 10:28:59 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

If you're familiar with the Master/Slave dialectic, it's the so-called master class that's fundamentally insecure; dependent on the other not just for their identity, but also for their skill and labor.

8/8/2025, 10:19:01 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

TBH, I think the answer to the question- (why are they making them powerless?) is plain insecurity. Sure, the power might be a means to something else, but fundamentally it's the keystone- wealth only gets you security to the extent that it buys you power. Or maybe I've been reading too much Hegel

8/8/2025, 10:13:33 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I think it's more than greed, to be honest. Taking away the plebes' ability to hold them accountable (or to bring facts to public attention) is more about making the public generally powerless, I think. That, or it's going to be replaced with a private/for-profit substitute poor people can't use

8/8/2025, 7:57:03 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

At best, it's a thought-terminating cliche to dress up dishonest reasoning as somehow having legitimacy

8/8/2025, 6:58:06 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social)

Understanding and accommodation isn't just a favor you do for the autistic people in your life; it's a way to avoid the experiences that arise when neurotypical folks get the feeling that autistic folk are "off"- that response is unpleasant for everyone involved in ways that can't be understated

8/8/2025, 6:55:13 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

On remote gravel, I am the latter. On road and with cell service, I carry a tube and a pump and some plugs

4/8/2025, 2:07:51 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Well that would explain the years of "we need money to fight back" but no fighting back whatsoever unless it's to punch left

4/8/2025, 1:52:58 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

🤣🫀Oh I'm old enough to have felt that

3/8/2025, 5:59:05 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

LOL he's not 6'3" and he isn't a biscuit under 285

2/8/2025, 10:41:06 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Yeah you know they're going to try to define 'fitness' to mean anything but physical fitness or health- they'll turn it into a measure of whether the racists like him or not

2/8/2025, 10:39:40 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Imagine a tax policy where high poverty rates drove high taxes on the wealthiest I mean really, is there poverty? Not sorry, you lot that have extracted the most from a poverty-creating economy get tax increases, big ones, until you spend your lobbying money on poverty eradication and it works

2/8/2025, 10:26:43 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Today-me has opinions about younger-me's judgment

2/8/2025, 4:27:43 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I don't think we talk about 'enforcement discretion' enough when it comes to the kinds of vague/expansive laws our authoritarian folks seem to like. They know these laws won't be applied to them, only to folks in today's targeted out-group. The 'order' in law and order means hierarchy

31/7/2025, 9:56:25 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It's the rise of unironic political correctness

31/7/2025, 9:50:56 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Whatever he's going through, I hope it's uncomfortable

30/7/2025, 1:30:21 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I've found that if I'm using a free plan (which limits the number of endpoints) over a vpn no small number of sites will subject me to a captcha or the like. I take this to mean the bad actors are using the free plans and those endpoints get the third degree

30/7/2025, 1:15:12 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm not a fan of gerrymandering but at this point, aggressive gerrymanders from blue states might force the court to realize that their 'it's okay if it's political' stance only benefits the right if the left doesn't do it right back

28/7/2025, 10:48:39 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

I like this one better

28/7/2025, 10:45:49 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Pete is right, focusing on what voters want is a winning strategy. But, you know what isn't? Picking fights with people you need in your coalition to win. Sure, that goes both ways but if you think you can win this, think again- infighting amongst ourselves is only a lose-lose proposition

28/7/2025, 10:44:54 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Agree, using it to shame people isn't constructive- doing that just makes you into an unhelpful tormentor. But, we do have to be able to say that education is important for citizenship- and unfortunately, education has been politicized when it should never have been.

28/7/2025, 10:39:44 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Johnson, leader of co-equal branch of government, doesn't have the body language of a leader of anything co-equal Shameful how he bows and scrapes

28/7/2025, 10:34:02 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Also, means-testing to decide who should get free lunches is expensive and invariably turns into an exercise in shaming recipients. Better to just feed everyone and not turn doing that into an expense that just makes everything worse

28/7/2025, 2:44:09 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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For Roberts to characterize valid criticism of justices as 'ad hominem' is about the weakest deflection possible- but it's one that the faithful will gladly accept

24/7/2025, 7:53:10 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Lol the train of logic that goes "I'm not an idiot so I wouldn't do that" (whatever it is) is too often that of folks that aren't exactly critical thinkers

24/7/2025, 2:36:22 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I find it telling that the originalists tend to cherry pick their history and ignore Jefferson's "the world belongs in usufruct to the living" argument when they feel the need to be ruled by dead men

24/7/2025, 12:39:30 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Or, more broadly: With these folks it's not about what they say it's about. It's about something they'd be shamed for if they were honest about it.

23/7/2025, 9:07:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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...this further leads me to conclude that these people don't care about protecting the victims of pedophiles so much as they love using them as a pretext for attacking their political enemies or justifying policies that strip rights or protections from trans people

23/7/2025, 9:05:29 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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"Among many" NAME. THEM. ALL. The fact that they've got all of this info and nothing seems to have come of it tells me they're wealthy or powerful people b/c American justice doesn't seem to want to hold people like them accountable for anything

23/7/2025, 8:55:51 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Really feeling the squeeze of being the 'sandwich' generation- parents both have high medical support needs, son is entering college in the fall. Our dollars don't buy what they used to and social security hasn't kept pace- this is making things needlessly hard

23/7/2025, 7:21:12 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Awfully considerate of Brett to let us all know he's an awful person

23/7/2025, 4:10:08 AM | 8 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I find the prospect of a career change at my age to be daunting, but hey, deconstructing is already that way and in for a penny, why not for a pound?

23/7/2025, 1:29:14 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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One unexpected thing to come out of unmasking, for me at least, is the recognition that I've made major decisions about my life (for example, my career) while masked-- and it turns out that doing what I do for a living isn't really all that fulfilling to me, authentically.

23/7/2025, 1:27:25 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh, I agree 100% that gerrymandering should be banned but as the court currently stands it won't be banned so long as it is advantageous for red states to do it while blue states don't. My thought for now is blue states should hold their noses and gerrymander so much the court is forced to ban it

22/7/2025, 10:15:32 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stay Spicy, kids ♾️ (@howdidwegethere.bsky.social) reply parent

When basically every talking point to get your vote was a lie, that tells you something.

22/7/2025, 10:11:55 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view